Women Weekend Budapest, Sept 2014

1. SELF DIRECTING 3.3
SELF DIRECTING EMPOWERMENT
SEPTEMBER 2014
MARCEL VAN DER POL
KERIDWEN, ENLARGE YOUR FRAME OF MIND
INFO:
MARCEL@KERIDWEN.NL
CALL MARCEL: +31 6 506 802 13
CALL JUDIT: 0036 20 61 31 065

3. Self Directing Empowerment
Women Weekend Self Directing 3.3 - Budapest, Sept. 2014

4. Are you EMPOWERED!?
“Then you have to know what to
do. If you don’t know what to do
you have to find out. If you can’t
find out you (…) make it up and
then make it so.”
(China Miéville, author)

5. There are
So Many Ways
to Kill
a Good Idea!

6. Self Directing Empowerment 3.3
- Sentry & Lamppost
√ Your Story as Frame of Mind
- The Dance of the hero
√ Enlarging your Frame of Mind
- The Gordian Egg
√ Optimal Performance in an
Enlarged Frame of Mind
She who dares to wander, find new ways

7. LamppostSentry
Self Directing 3.3 -Sentry & Lamppost
Your Story as Frame of Mind

8. 1. Pleasure
• Fun, no rules
2. Education
• Culture, Morals, Reflection
3. Self Directing
• Change in Perception & Reality
4. Magic
• Unspeakable, Wisdom
Sentry & Lamppost
4 Levels In Storytelling: Story ≼≽ Real Life

9. Tales As Teaching Tools
Stages of Transformation
1. Open Story
• My possible version of reality
2. Closed Story
• My story is true
3. Frozen Story
• This is how it allways goes.
4. Liquefying the story
• Enlarging my Frame of Mind:
different stories are possible, too.
Liquefying the Story, The Biggest Challenge?

10. Saint vs. Outlaw
How will they tell their separate stories?

11. HelperDragon
Self Directing 3.2: The Dance of the Hero
Enlarging Your Frame of Mind

12. The Damce
of t
• Self Directing Empowerment
• Woman Self Directing 3.3
• Changing Perspectives
• Shifting Paradigms
• The Living Story
• You!
Get outside your box!

13. This Story of Faces

14. Excluding
Mind Frames

15. Children & Rain
Grown ups
& Rain
Differences in Frames of Mind

16. •Innocent
•Orphan
•Wanderer
•Lover
•Caregiver
•Warrior
•Builder
•Cleaner
•Magician
•Ruler
•Sage
•Fool
12 Hero(in)es =
12 Mind Frames
The Damce
of t
The Dance of the Hero

17. Josephcampbell&MarcelvanderPol
Home
Departure
(leaving/aiming)
Context
Dragon & Treasure
Call (who/what)
Sentry (stop!)
Traveling Companions?
(friend/foe)
Encounters
Events
Developments
Helper (stijl)
Arrival (change?)
•Basic Movements in Stories

18. Even Little Red Riding Hood knows her Heroes...
...and she knows her Life Questions, too...
•Innocent
•Orphan
•Wanderer
•Lover
•Caregiver
•Warrior
•Builder
•Cleaner
•Magician
•Ruler
•Sage
•Fool

19. Self Directing Empowerment 3.3
- She who dares to wander, will find new ways -
Direct Your Own Life Adventures:
from ‘Question’ to ‘Answer’

20. Actor(s)Audience
Self Directing 3.3 - The Gordian Egg
Optimal Performance in a Greater Frame of Mind

21. Sometimes it’s good to know
a Guide, who can support
you to get past the Dragon
and claim your Treasure.
The Dance of the Hero
helps you to shoot your
Educational Arrow in the
Bull’s Eye
Welcome
Marcel van der Pol
www.KERIDWEN.com
www.THEDANCEOFTHEHERO.com