Mentoring – Leveraging others to help drive your career -
There are many reasons you might need help in your career, it could be Perspective, Re-alignment, or just Encouragement. No matter the reason, mentoring is a great way to move your career forward. No matter the industry or the role, none of us are perfect and we all have something to learn or fine tune. We will discuss the why’s and how’s of Mentoring, and how to drive the process.
3. • Why Not?
• Mentoring types
• Mentors for Women and Minorities
• Aspects of mentoring from an associate and business
point of view.
• Who can be mentor?/Where can I find a mentor?
• Types of Mentor – what are you working on?
8. • Decide to invest in YOU
• Be OPEN/HONEST with yourself
• Choose a mentor and ask them for help
• Who drives the process
• Write it Down
• Expect to do work
9. • Set up a time to meet that will make you successful
• Schedule your first session
• Own it!
• Ask the Mentor to be Direct
11. • Why Not
• Learn more about you
• Opportunity to help others
Hinweis der Redaktion
WHY: Story – As you just heard my history is in I.T. and let’s be honest with each other, other than us this is not the most “Outgoing group of people you have ever met”.
Years ago we took the Meyers-Briggs tests “What color is your brain” and I found out that in comparison to my peers, one of these things is not like the others, and I was the odd person – most of my peers were blue (logical, mathematical )and there I was green as grass (control/process/sequential). I started in mentoring to find out other people perspectives and see where I fit into the organization. Not surprisingly, it’s process, I love creating a repeatable process and sharing it with others.
So I told you why I started mentoring, why should you?
What is holding you back from being a mentee? Most likely it is you, and not being sure how or where to start the process
Formal/Informal –
Formal – you have a schedule/agenda….
Informal – you have a conversation
Crucial for Women and/or Minorities as it equalizes the access to people, which could be true but at the end of the day
the goal is to increase your knowledge or talent in any field
I would hope your company has a program already set up because mentoring is beneficial for both the associate and the business.
Who? It depend on what type of help you are looking for
If it is about your job or workplace – then work is the most likely the best but not always
Skill – User groups
Communications – Church, groups like this
Other avenues to look at – Teachers, bosses, volunteer groups (the united way)
I have found most of my mentoring to be around work and in my work family.
Everyone is human and we are built on what we know, if two people get together they are better than either alone. Someone else could have been with the company longer, maybe even had the same problem. Most importantly, they could have a different perspective.
So why are mentor vital for success?
Perspective and Experience
Think outside the box
Define and Reach long-term Goals
You only know what you know and sometimes need to validate you are doing the right thing
Accountability
Work better – have long term success
Trusted Colleague to Discuss Issues
It could be a new project, a new role, or a new pyramid of people you are working with.
Champion and Ally
Expand your contacts and network
Opens Doors
Inspire
Maybe a mentor could help – so now what
How do I get started
Step 1 is the hardest, it is with all new adventures. Looking yourself in the mirror and saying it’s time to invest in me and make me the best I can be, and then deciding on “one thing you can be better at”
Just ONE. How to handle Stress in the work place; Communications; New job skill;
Understand that by being here you are all open to mentoring and wanting to expand your mind – great job!
I am part of this group as an in-formal mentoring, as I am here to learn from each of you.
Choose – someone you respect, admire, and demonstrates the “tool, practice, process” you want to work on. So, find your subject matter expert.
Who – You!
Write it down – you will be more successful if you write down your goal
It’s work and nothing is easy.
Successful – when are you at your best (I’m a morning person)
Schedule the first meeting - where you and your mentor discuss how you see the process working.
Drive this meeting and show you are serious about wanting to do the work
Ownership – be prepared and know what you want to work on, explain why it is important, share what you have already done.
Say you want to meet every other week for X weeks….and get by in from the Mentor.
Direct – direct feedback is sometimes hard to hear
Meet
Talk
Learn
Respect –
know you are taking someone’s time, don’t waste it,
Discuss, be passionate, but don’t argue,
if they ask you to do or try something be open to the experience.
I have learned more by being a Mentor than a Mentee.
You take the time to dive into topics you might not of otherwise
You gain others insight into what they think your strengths are