You should understand and break the cycle of domestic violence. There are generally 3 stages to the domestic violence cycle. Tension building, violence, and lastly, seduction. The three dynamics that typically keep the cycle in motion are love, fear, and hope. If you are aware of the cycle and the dynamics of the cycle, it is pertinent to break away from the cycle to avoid future abuse. Always document the abuse and contact law enforcement, do not wait for the abuse to become too much to handle.
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