1. I often hear fromwomen who can't help but notice that
their husband or boyfriend is constantlytexting.Many of
them find this to beodd.While it's commonly seen as
absolutely normal for a woman to regularly text her
friends, coworkers and family, this can seem
suspicious or odd if a man is always doing the
same.People often ask me if their man is constantly
texting, does this mean he's cheating too?The answer
to this question often depends on the context of
themessaging and who the texts are going to.I will
discuss this in the following article.
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2. Men Who Claim They're Texting Male Friends:Often, when these women ask
their man who he's texting, he'll sometimes tell them he's texting a buddy or a
male coworker This can sometimes set off alarm bells because it's sometimes
considered oddor weird for men to text one another I'm not sure if this is
accurateor what it says about our society, but the perception is that it's not
common While a man will often message female friends, family members, of
his girlfriend or wife, (since the women will often initiate this at first) it's less
common for him to do the same with male friends I suppose it's stereotypical
to think that men don't have the patience to sit there and type on small keys to
communicate with a male friend
3. But, it's my observation that most will just pick up the phone and have a very
brief conversation with another guy since men are more likely to prefer face to
face communication with other men Men Who Are Texting Other Women:
Does This Always Mean Cheating?:As unlikelyas it may seem that your man is
texting a male friend, many women tell me that they would much prefer this
Because it's very tempting to automatically suspect wrongdoing or cheating if a
man is texting a woman who isn't his wife or girlfriend Sure, he might be texting
his sister or female cousin
4. Or,a female coworker may have a quick question But this isn't the situation
that usually comes up More commonly, thewomanasking these questions is
noticing her husband and her boyfriend always texting In other words, he's
constantly typing away on his phone's keyboard and he's often laughing or
physically moving away as he's doing this
5. It just seems suspicious and odd And many women know howanimatedtheir
man gets when they are the one messaging him They know how he has a
tenancyto want to send and receive flirtymessages and photos And it's not
such a big jump to worry that he might be doing this with someone else,
especially when you know that you're not the recipient of the messages that
are obviously happening a lot
6. These are real concerns, but there's not always a clear cutanswer about
whether the texting means cheating until you ask him about this or dig a little
deeper if you don't like his answer Men who are always texting are probably
not always cheating (But some of them likely are ) The guy in question could
be just one of the rare guys who prefers or tolerates text messaging
7. site here Or, he may be talking to a family member ora male friend Or, he
could be so animated because he's having an inappropriateconversation or
exchange with someone female who isn't you People are most often caught
cheating by their cell phones,If you suspect that something is wrong, your
options are usually to ask him or to try to pay more attention and dig a little
deeper before you make an accusationwhich may ormay not be founded
