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2. Going
through divorce is emotionally painful
for both men and women. The best one can do
is to make this overall procedure smoother so
that each individual can have a cordial
relationship even when their marriage is over.
Below mentioned are some do’s and Don’ts
which one should follow so as to make their
divorce a smoother one:
3. Getting
a divorce is a stressful procedure itself.
Try to relax your mind so that you don’t forget
something important that might prove to be
helpful for you in the courtroom. Try to stay
positive and just remember everything is
always okay in the end.
4. The one who is going for a divorce should try to
think of four steps forward. This include going
for a consultation with divorce
attorney especially if your case involves child
custody, or an expert financial planner or an
appraiser who can take care of all the financial
issues.
5. During
divorce the individual goes through
adverse condition which helps them in finding
the people they can trust. Try to be around
family and friend who are supportive and avoid
being among those who are against your
decision and are continuously trying to change
your decision and influence you.
6. Divorce
do involves equal distribution of
financial liabilities. One should collect
complete data regarding the bonuses of the
individuals, Tax returns statements, credit card
statements, mortgage documents, valuable
assets, detailed information regarding the
pension plan and various other financial
investments made by any of the party.
7. Minors
should always be kept out of court;
they are the one who are most affected when a
couple tries for a legal separation. To keep
one’s mind calm one should spend some
quality time with their children. Such a tip can
also help one when going for child custody.
8. It
is a much simpler way of collecting the
detailed information regarding the different
valuable assets that were acquired by the
couple during their marriage. Make a list, such
that it contains complete information regarding
the number of assets, the value of each
individual asset, number of investment that
were made and an individual column for
combined purchase that were made by the
couple.
9. While
going for a divorce both the parties
should be clear about the fact that divorce is an
expensive procedure and the attorney that you
have appointed will charge you on an hourly
basis. Try to get some of the issues resolved
out of the court instead of fighting for them in
the court so that the some hours of your legal
proceeding can be saved.
10.
Gather all the financial information and make as many
copies of them as you want. It is much better to copy
too much then to copy too less.
Be
realistic -
Consult an attorney who is experienced in handling
the family law cases that involves divorce, the
distribution of the financial assets and child custody.
Make him aware about your current situation and
attempt to get the most realistic approach that you
should follow so that the court makes a decision in your
favor.
11. Always
remember that you and your spouse
are experiencing the same emotional trauma,
so avoid saying orf doing something that you
will regret later.