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The MASSIVE Goal Principle

                    -   Inside the minds of top achievers

                              -   By David Hyner

A proven way of getting more effective results based upon many years

of research interviews with highly effective people and top achievers

from all walks of life.



An invaluable coaching tool that is easily applied to career, business

and personal goals.



This e-book is designed as a high level introduction to “how to set goals”.



For further information, coaching or training in this area please contact David

Hyner directly at Stretch Development Ltd.



1: Evolve or revolve !

2: Why massive goals ?

3: The “Aha” moment !

4: The MASSIVE goal principle !

5: The pyramid and how to use this model !




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1: EVOLVE OR REVOLVE !


WHERE WOULD MANKIND BE NOW IF WE HAD NEVER OVERCOME OUR FEAR

OF CHANGE AND THE UNKNOWN. WE PERHAPS WOULD STILL BE SWINGING IN

THE TREES OR LIVING IN CAVES. FOR WITHOUT EVOLUTION, WE WOULD NOT

HAVE GROWN AND DISCOVERED THE TRULY GREAT ACHIEVEMENTS OF

MANKIND. WE WOULD BE DOING THE SAME THINGS THAT WE HAD ALWAYS

DONE; - GOING ROUND IN CIRCLES!



THE SAME PRINCIPLE APPLIES TO YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND PERSONAL LIFE

AS IT DOES TO MANKIND’S EVOLUTION. IF YOU DO NOT EVOLVE AND GROW,

THEN HOW WILL YOU EVER FURTHER YOURSELF. YOU WILL FOR YOUR

LIFESPAN SIMPLY RESPOND TO WHAT LIFE THROWS AT YOU AND GO ROUND

IN CIRCLES.



BECOME AN EVOLUTIONARY AND NOT “A PERSON GOING ROUND IN CIRCLES.”



IT IS A BIT PERVERSE DON`T YOU THINK THAT WHEN WE SAY THINGS LIKE

OH GOOD OLD SHIELA, SHE DOESN`T EVER CHANGE”, OR “SUCCESS

WOULDN`T CHANGE ME”, WE THINK THAT AS A POSITIVE STATEMENT WHEN

OUR WHOLE REASON FOR BEING ALIVE IS TO EVOLVE AND GROW.


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IF THE EXPERTS ARE TO BE BELIEVED, WE ARE ONLY SCRATCHING THE

SURFACE OF OUR TRUE POTENTIAL IN ALMOST EVERY ASPECT OF OUR LIVES.

OUR BRAINS CAPACITY FOR KNOWLEDGE AND CREATIVE THOUGHT

GENERATION GOES FAR BEYOND OUR CURRENT COMPREHENSION.



TO CHANGE IS TO HAVE NEW FEELINGS, CHALLENGES, EMOTIONS AND

EXPERIENCES. IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF HEIGHTS, AND YOUR OBJECTIVE IS TO

GET TO THE TENTH FLOOR OF AN OFFICE BLOCK “and look over the edge”,

YOU WILL HAVE A DOUBLE EDGED SWORD TO DEAL WITH. YOU WANT TO GET

UP THERE, BUT ARE AFRAID OF THE CHANGE THAT WILL BE FORCED UPON

YOU IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL.

YOUR COMFORT ZONE IS ON THE GROUND FLOOR, BUT YOUR GOAL IS ON

THE TENTH FLOOR.

TO REACH YOUR GOAL YOU MUST STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE AND

GROW. BY GROWING AND EXPERIENCING NEW EXPERIENCES AND EMOTIONS,

YOU INCREASE THE SIZE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE, AND TO REACH THAT

STAGE AGAIN WILL BE EASIER SECOND TIME AROUND THAN IT WAS THE

FIRST TIME.

THIS PROCESS CAN BE REPEATED UNTIL YOU ARE RUNNING UP THE STAIRS

TO THE TENTH FLOOR AND ADMIRING THE VIEW FROM THE TOP.




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“You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you do not try.” -

Beverly Sills.




2: WHY MASSIVE GOALS ?

IF YOU HAVE EVER READ A BOOK ON GOAL SETTING, OR BEEN ON COURSES

OR HEARD SPEAKERS TALK ABOUT GOAL SETTING, THEN YOU WILL HAVE

HEARD THE TWO WORDS MOST USED IN THE LANGUAGE OF GOAL SETTING.



                 THEY SAY THAT YOUR GOALS SHOULD BE

                     - “REALISTIC AND ACHIEVABLE”.



WELL I USED TO BELIEVE THAT TO, - UNTIL THE UNQUESTIONABLE VOLUME

OF RESEARCH THAT I HAVE UNDERTAKEN HAS PROVEN THAT TOP ACHIEVERS

DO NOT SET REALISTIC AND ACHIEVABLE GOALS.

FAR FROM IT !



MOST USE WORDS SUCH AS MASSIVE, LARGE, DREAM, AMBITION, HUGE,

ENORMOUS, AND ONE MILLIONNAIRE BUSINESSMAN EVEN SAID -

“BIG …… FAT …… HAIRY GOALS”.




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IN FACT, I CAN REMEMBER ONE RESEARCH INTERVIEW WITH A

NEURO-SCIENTIST WHERE HE POPINTED OUT: “CAN YOU THINK OF

MANY (OR ANY?) OF MAN OR WOMANKINDS GREATEST

ACHIEVEMENTS THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN ACHIEVED IF THEY HAD SET

“REALISTIC AND ACHIEVABLE GOALS?”



I WAS SO CHALLENGED BY THIS THAT I QUESTIONED ITS VALIDITY AND

DESIGNED A MODEL THAT MADE IT EASY TO APPLY WHAT TOP ACHIEVERS

HAD TOLD ME ABOUT THE WAY IN WHICH THEY SET GOALS.

TO TEST THIS BIZZARRE THEORY, I WENT TO A LOCAL CANCER RESEARCH

CHARITY THAT WAS PART OF THE NATIONAL CANCER RSEEARCH CAMPAIGN

BASED HERE IN THE U.K.

I WENT TO THEM WITH AN OFFER OF RAISING £50’000 IN ONE EVENT TO

TEST MY RESEARCHED MODEL



I EXPECTED THEM TO WELCOME ME WITH OPEN ARMS BUT I FOUND THAT

THEY GREETED MY OFFER OF APPLYING MY GOAL SETTING MODEL WITH A

STATEMENT THAT SOUNDED LIKE THIS:

“you are on your own, you have no experience of fund raising, you are

using a model that has not been proven, you only have your spare time



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and it took seven of our experienced part time fundraisers over six

Months to organise our biggest event which raised just over £48’000.

With respect, what makes you think that you can raise £50’000 in one

event, on your own in your spare time, using an unproven model?”



IT WAS AT THIS POINT THAT I REMEMBERED THE WORDS OF KRISS

AKABUSI mbe.

WHEN I INTERVIEWED KRISS HE SAID THAT HE BELIEVED THAT

“TOP ACHIEVERS SHOULD BE LOOKED INTO AND NOT UP TO !”



THIS STUCK IN MY MIND AND I THOUGHT THAT IF THESE TOP ACHIEVERS

WERE RIGHT ABOUT MASSIVE GOALS, THEN I MUST PROVE IT TO BE RIGHT

OR WRONG.



I TEAMED UP WITH ONE OF THE PART TIME CHARITY WORKERS AND

TOGETHER WE DID NOT BREAK THE CHARITIES FUNDRAISING RECORD.

WHAT WE ACTUALLY DID WAS BREAK THE RECORDS OF THE FULL TIME

FUNDRAISING TEAM AT CANCER RESEARCH UK.

IN ONE EVENT “on our own, with no experience of fund raising, using a model that

had not been proven, and in our spare time” WE RAISED OVER £288’000 IN ONE

EVENT.




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SINCE THIS TIME THE MASSIVE GOAL MODEL HAS HELPED BUSINESSES AND

INDIVIDUALS IN MANY WAYS TO FAR EXCEED WHAT WAS BELIEVED TO BE

THE MAXIMUM OR “REALISTIC” GOAL THAT COULD BE ACHIEVED.

PEOPLE HAVE USED THE MODEL TO IMPROVE OFFICE EFFICIENCY, INCREASE

SALES, STOP SWEARING, RAISE MASSES OF MONEY FOR CHARITIES, ACHIEVE

LIFE LONG GOALS, SWIM WITH SHARKS, BECOME A PUBLISHED AUTHOR,

START A BUSINESS, GET QULIFICATIONS, SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE, GET FIT

AND LOOSE WEIGHT, TO NAME BUT A FEW.



RIGHT NOW IT IS BEING USED IN BUSINESSES, SCHOOLS, PERSONAL LIVES

AND IN THE SPORTS ARENA TO INCREASE EFFECTIVENESS, ACHIEVE MORE,

AND PUSH BOUNDARIES OF CONVENTION AND LIMITING BELIEF.




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3: The “Aha” moment !


DO YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW THIS MODEL WORKS ?



I WAS THE OWNER OF A SMALL BUT QUALITY CATERING AND EVENT

MANAGEMENT BUSINESS THAT HAD A SUPERB RECORD IN CUSTOMER

SERVICE AND YET STRUGGLED TO GROW, AND I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE

OR SOMETHING TO BLAME FOR THIS.

AFTER MUCH PROBING, TESTING AND RESEARCH I DECIDED TO MY SURPRISE

THAT IT WAS MYSELF THAT WAS LIMITING THE GROWTH OF MY BUSINESS AS

I WAS A CONTROL BASED MANAGER WHO WOULD NOT EASILY DELEGATE

IMPORTANT JOBS AND SO BECAUSE I WAS DOING EVERYTHING, THE

BUSINESS WAS NOT GROWING.

AFTER GOING ON MNAY COURSES, READING MANY BOOKS AND GETTING

CONSULTANTS INTO MY BUSINESS, I GREW FRUSTRATED AT THE TIRED AND

MALIGNED THEORIES THAT WERE LITTLE MORE THAN “ONE PERSONS

OPINION” OR WORSE STILL, JUST A RE-HASH OF LOTS OF OTHER PEOPLES

MANAGEMENT MATERIAL.


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SO….. I STARTED TO INTERVIEW TOP ACHIEVERS TO FIND OUT FORMYSELF

WHAT IT IS THAT THEY DO AND HOW THEYTHINKA ND BEHAVE THAT MADE

THEM (SEEMINGLY) SO MUCH MORE EFFECTIVE THAN OTHERS AROUND THEM.

WHAT I LEARNT HAS CHANGED MY LIFE FOR EVER…….. AND MANY OTHERS

WHO HAVE TRIED TO PROVE THE THEORIES RIGHT…. OR WRONG.



WELL IT WAS DURING A RESEARCH INTERVIEW WITH A WEALTHY AND

HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL BUSINESSMAN (AT THE TIME HE WAS IN THE TOP 30

RICHEST MEN IN THE UK) THAT THE “PENNY DROPPED”.



I ASK ALL OF MY INTERVIEWEES A QUESTION AROUND THEIR GOALS THAT I

HOPE WILL DRAW OUT AN ANSWER THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD FOR

EVER, AND AFTER (AT THE TIME) NEARLY FOUR YEARS OF INTERVIEWS I WAS

GETTING PRETTY CHEESED OFF WITH WHAT I THOUGHT WERE VERY

MEDIOCRE AND AVERAGE ANSWERS TO SUCH AN IMPORTANT QUESTION.



THE INTERVIEWEE SHALL BE CALLED RALPH……..



I ASKED RALPH WHAT IT WAS HE DID THAT MADE HIM SO CONSISTANTLY

EFFECTIVE AND MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN OTHERS AROUND HIM.

THE CONVERSATIION WENT SOMETHING LIKE THIS:




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“I suppose all I do is …………… well I suppose what I do is………. I set

very large goals…….. I think of things I might have to do to achieve

that goal…………., I put them in an order of priority, and then I take

action. Every day I try to do something towards that goal, even if it is

just a phone call or a letter, I do something. …… And if I want the goal

badly enough I will never, ever give in………………. yeah, I suppose

that is what I do”

NOW MY BRAIN LEFT MY BODY AND PUT MY MOUTH IN CHARGE FOR A FEW

MOMENTS AND I HEARD MYSELF SAYING BACK TO RALPH….

“do you expect me to believe that your MASSIVE achievements” AND

LIKE AN IDIOT I READ HIS ACHIEVEMENTS BACK TO HIM…. LIKE HE DIDN’T

KNOW THEM ALREADY?……..

“these MASSIVE achievements are down to you setting large goals,

thinking of things you might have to do to achieve those goals,

prioritising them, taking action and never giving in…………..…

…………………. REALLY ?!?!?!?!?!?!?”



THERE WAS A SILENCE THAT SEEMED TO LAST FOR EVER……..

RALPH THEN ALMOST SHOUTED “DO YOU DOUBT ME YOUNG MAN !!!!!!!!”

I APPOLOGISED AT ONCE AND WE MOVED ON WITH THE INTERVIEW.

THERE WAS NO DOUBTING THE CONVICTION OF THIS MAN.




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I WENT HOME AND TRAWLED THE INTERVIEW NOTES FROM THE RESEARCH I

HAD DONE TO DATE AND THERE, LEAPING FROM THE PAGES WAS MY ANSWER

THAT I HAD MISSED BEFORE.




MOST TOP ACHIEVERS ARE AWARE OF DELIBERATELY SETTING

MASSIVE GOALS,…. HUGE GOALS…….., BIG FAT HAIRY GOALS !



ISN`T IT FUNNY HOW THROUGHOUT HISTORY, WE HAVE LEARNT OF TOP

ACHIEVERS WHO OVERCAME SEEMINGLY INCREDIBLE ODDS TO ACHIEVE

THEIR GOALS.

WERE THEY SPECIAL PEOPLE WITH HIDDEN POWERS THAT WE CAN NOT

ATTAIN?

NO ! - THEY WERE MERE MORTALS LIKE YOU AND I WHO BEHAVED AND

THOUGHT IN A SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT WAY TO MOST OTHERS.



WELL, LET US TAKE ONE FINE EXAMPLE. A GREAT AMERICAN PRESIDENT, AND

A MAN WHO (DEPENDING UPON YOUR POLITICAL PERSUASION) IS REVERED

AND REMEMBERED BY A NATION WHICH RATE HIM AS POSSIBLY THE BEST

LEADER OF THEIR COUNTRY TO DATE.

THE VALUE OF COURAGE, PERSISTENCE, AND PERSEVERANCE HAS RARELY

BEEN ILLUSTRATED MORE CONVINCINGLY THAN IN THE LIFE STORY OF THIS

GREAT MAN.



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SHOWN HERE IS THE RECORD OF ONE ABRAHAM LINCOLN.

Abraham Lincoln;

     FAILED IN BUSINESS AGED 22 YEARS

     RAN FOR LEGISLATURE - DEFEATED

     AGAIN FAILED IN BUSINESS

     ELECTED TO LEGISLATURE

     SWEETHEART DIED

     HAD A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN

     DEFEATED FOR SPEAKER

     DEFEATED FOR ELECTOR

     DEFEATED FOR CONGRESS

     ELECTED TO CONGRESS

     DEFEATED FOR CONGRESS

     DEFEATED FOR SENATE

     DEFEATED FOR VICE PRESIDENT

     DEFEATED FOR SENATE

     ELECTED PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES AGED 51 YEARS



     REMEMBER – NEVER, EVER GIVE IN !




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FAILURE IS, AFTERALL, THE PRICE OF IMPROVEMENT, FOR NOTHING WOULD

EVER HAVE BEEN IMPROVED, CREATED OR INVENTED IF SOMEONE HAD NOT

FIRST DRAWN UP PLANS, BUILT MODELS, FAILED, RE-DRAWN PLANS, AND

THEN MADE BETTER MODELS.



A FEW BUTS, MUST DO’S AND PRE-REQUISITES.



WHEN I INTERVIEWED ONE OF THE WORLDS LEADING COACHING MENTORS

HE TOLD ME OF HIS CLIENT BASE THAT HAD IN IT SOME OF THE WORLDS

LEADING ENTREPRENEURS AND BUSINESMEN AND WOMEN.

TO MY SHOCK AND AMAZEMENT HE WENT ON TO EXPLAIN HOW HE BEGAN

HIS COACHING PROCES BY GETTING THE COACHEE TO UNDERSTAND A FEW

BASIC PRINCIPLES OF “LIFE”, TAKEN FROM HIS PRIOR EXPERIENCES OF THE

BHUDDIST FAITH.

BUTS ……….

SURE, SET A LARGE GOAL, BUT MAKE SURE THAT IT STRETCHES YOU IN WAYS

THAT WILL HELP YOU TO LEARN AND GROW AND GET NEW EXPERIENCES,

MEET NEW PEOPLE, OR CHANGE OTHERS LIVES FOR THE BETTER.




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MUST DO’S ……

HE SAID THAT “I TEACH ALL OF MY CLIENTS THAT IF YOU GO AFTER THINGS

TO MAKE YOU HAPPY THEN YOU ARE DOOMED TO MISERY”

WHEN I ASKED HIM TO EXPLAIN HE WENT ONTO SAY HOW TRULY HAPPY AND

SUCCESSFUL MEN AND WOMEN HAVE A WORK LIFE BALANCE AND DO THINGS

FOR THE RIGHT REASONS. ETHICS, MORALS, PRINCIPLES, WHATEVER YOU

WOULD CALL THEM.

IF YOU ARE UNHEALTHY, UNHAPPY OR GRUMPY AND YOU GO AFTER A GOAL

YOU “MIGHT” JUST GET IT, BUT WHEN YOU GET IT YOU WILL STILL BE THE

SAME OLD UNHEALTHY, UNHAPPY, AND GRUMPY PERSON THAT STARTED ON

LIFES JOURNEY OF ACHIEVEMENT AND SO YOU THEN GO AFTER SOMETHING

ELSE IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS AND YOU NEVER FIND IT.

THE SECRET IS TO GET HAPPY, AND THEN GO AFTER THINGS.

THAT WAY YOU ARE FAR MORE LIKELY TO ENJOY THE ACHIEVEMENT PROCESS

AND THE HARD WORK THAT IT TAKES TO ACHIEVE. THE ACTUAL

ACHIEVEMENT IS A DIRECT CONSEQUENCE OF BEING HAPPY AND YOU ARE

NOT PINNING YOURHAPPINESS ON THE ACHIEVEMENT.



PRE-REQUISITES ………..

LOOK AT YOUR PERSONAL AND CORPOARET GOALS AND ASKYOURSELF WHY

AM I/ARE WE DOING THIS. CHOOSE YOUR ATTITUDE AND GET HAPPY. THEN

AND ONLY THEN, GO AFTER THINGS. YOU WILL BE AMAZED AT THE RESULTS.




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4: The MASSIVE goal principle !


PYRAMIDS ARE SEEN BY MANY PEOPLE AS A SYMBOL OF GREAT POWER AND

STRENGTH. THEY HAVE BEEN MARVELLED THROUGHOUT TIME AS A SIGN OF

MASSIVE ACHIEVEMENT, FOR THE ORIGINALS TOOK MANY YEARS TO BUILD

AND WERE MADE BY HAND WITH ROCK CARRIED MANY MILES BY MANY

HUNDREDS OF MEN. I WONDER IF ANYBODY THOUGHT TO TELL THE GUY

WHO THOUGHT UP THE IDEA FOR A PYRAMID THAT IT WAS A TASK TOO BIG

TO BECOME REALITY?



BUT THINK FOR A MINUTE AS TO HOW A PYRAMID IS BUILT. THEY DO NOT

BRING EVERY ROCK TO THE SITE FOR ERECTION AND BUILD IT ALL IN A DAY.

WHAT THEY DO IS PLACE A FOUNDATION LEVEL OF ROCKS CUT TO SIZE WITH

A TIER ON TOP OF THAT OF SIMILAR SHAPED ROCKS, AND THEN ANOTHER,

AND THEN ANOTHER. THEY KEEP DOING THIS UNTIL THEY HAVE ONLY THE

TOP AND FINAL STONE TO LAY, AND THEN THEIR GOAL HAS BEEN ACHIEVED.



YOUR GOALS OR CHALLENGES CAN BE ACHIEVED OR OVERCOME IN THE SAME

WAY. TREAT EACH BRICK OR EACH LEVEL AS AN INDIVIDUAL OR SPECIFIC

TASK OR LIST OF TASKS THAT WILL FURTHER YOU TOWARDS YOUR

ACHIEVEMENT.


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EACH TASK OR LAYER SEEMS ACHIEVEABLE, AND EVERY BRICK THAT IS LAID

IS A STEP CLOSER TO YOUR BIGGER GOAL, OR CHALLENGE.




REMEMBER WHAT RALPH SAID?

1.SET A LARGE GOAL.

2.THINK OF WHAT YOU MAY HAVE TO DO IN

  ORDER TO ACHIEVE THAT GOAL.

3.PRIORITISE THOSE TASKS IN ORDER OF

  IMPORTANCE.

4.TAKE ACTION EVERY DAY.

5. IF YOU WANT IT THAT BADLY

     – NEVER, EVER GIVE IN.




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5: The pyramid and how to use this model !



                      Title


                                         Goal Description
  The
  MASSIVE
   Goal Principle.




  Most
Important
                                            Positive
                                            Present
                                            Personal
                                            Powerful
            Personal Statement




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HERE IS HOW TO USE THIS MODEL:

Six steps to success.

1:

HOLD A CREATIVE MEETING WITH “LIKE MINDED” PEOPLE AWAY FROM THE

“USUAL” ENVIRONMENT TO LIST AS MANY THINGS OR IDEAS AS YOU CAN

THINK OF THAT YOU MAY HAVE TO DO, WILL HAVE TO DO, OR MUST DO IF

YOU ARE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL

2:

IF YOU HAVE FIFTY THINGS IN YOUR LIST, MAKE A PYRAMID WITH ONE

HUNDRED BLOCKS IN IT AS WHEN YOU ARE ON YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDS

ACHIEVEING THIS GOAL, MANY OTHER “THINGS TO DO“ WILL CROP UP AND

YOU WILL HAVE BLOCKS IN WHICH TO WRITE OR DRAW YOUR ACTION.

3:

PUT THE TASKS INTO AN ORDER OF IMPORTANCE WITH THE MOST URGENT

OR IMPORTANT BEING NUMBER ONE. IN THE BOTTOM BLOCKS OF THE

PYRAMID WRITE OR DRAW SOMETHING THAT REPRESENTS EACH TASK, WITH

THE MOST IMPORTANT TASKS BEING IN THE BOTTOM BLOCKS OR ROWS OF

YOUR PYRAMID.

AFTERALL, A PYRAMID IS A STRUCTURE LIKE A BUILDING, AND WITHOUT

FOUNDATIONS ANY BUILDING WOULD FALL DOWN.



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SO CREATE YOUR OWN FOUNDATION BLOCKS THAT YOU KNOW ARE THE

MOST ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SUCCESS AND PLACE THEM IN THE BOTTOM

BLOCKS AND ROWS OF YOUR PYRAMID.

4:

LOOK AT THE TASKS AND SEE WHICH ARE THE BIGEST TASKS AND ASK

YOURSELF THIS QUESTION;

“IF ALL I HAD TO DO WAS “THIS” TASK – COULD I DO IT ?”.

IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN THAT IS OKAY, BUT IF THE ANSWER IS NO,

THEN YOU CAN GO THROUGH THIS PROCESS WITH EACH BLOCK THAT IS

STILL A MAJOR CHALLENGE UNTIL YOU HAVE A MASTER PLAN THAT MAY HAVE

ONE OR MAY HAVE A DOZEN PYRAMIDS – EACH PYRAMID REPRESENTING A

BLOCK OR TASK THAT IS IN ITSELF, A VERY HARD CHALENGE - BUT YOU

KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOOK AT EACH AND EVERY TASK OR BLOCK, THAT

YOU CAN AND WILL ACHIEVE IT.

5:

TAKE ACTION ! – NOW !

–    EVERY DAY ATTEMPT TO DO AT LEAST ONE THING THAT WILL TAKE YOU

     TOWARDS YOUR GOAL. EVEN IF IT IS JUST A PHONE CALL !




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6:

KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTION AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT IT

WOULD MEAN TO YOU IF YOU WERE TO SUCCEED OR FAIL.

ASK YOURSELF IF YOU WANT OR NEED THIS GOAL “THAT BADLY”?

IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN NEVER, EVER, AND I DO MEAN EVER,….. GIVE

IN. KEEP GOING UNTIL YOU HAVE DONE AVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE

YOUR GOAL.



THE PROCESS ……………..


FOCUS ON THE BIG GOAL BUT ACTION THE SMALLER TASKS AND ACTION

STEPS IN EACH BLOCK OF THE PYRAMID.



AS YOU ARE IN A PLACE OF “KNOWING” THAT YOU WILL OR HAVE ACHIEVED

EACH STEP, GET A BIG MARKER PEN AND TAKE A CHILDISH PLEASURE IN

CROSSING OFF OR EVEN COLOURING IN EACH BLOCK AS YOU BUILD YOUR

PYRAMID TOWARDS YOUR GOAL.




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AS YOU BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDS SETTING AND ACHIEVING A

MASSIVE GOAL YOU WILL GET WELL INTENTIONED FRIENDS, ASSOCIATES

AND OTHER PEOPLE WHO THROUGH NOT WANTING YOU OR “ANYTHING ELSE”

TO CHANGE, OR PERHAPS NOT HIGHLIGHT THE FACT THAT THEY ARE FRAID

TO MAKE CHANGES THEMSELVES, WILL SAY THINGS SUCH AS:


“WHAT IF YOU FAIL, YOU WILL NEVER DO THAT, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE” ETC ETC.

DO NOT ALLOW THESE PEOPLE TO STOP YOU AS THESE ARE THE VERY SAME

PEOPLE THAT WHEN SUCEESS BEGINS TO REAR ITS HEAD, WILL BE KNOCKING

ON YOUR DOOR WANTING TO HELP YOU.


                 ENJOY YOUR LIFE AND DARE TO THINK




              MASSIVE !




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David Hyner - Goals Booklet

  • 1. The MASSIVE Goal Principle - Inside the minds of top achievers - By David Hyner A proven way of getting more effective results based upon many years of research interviews with highly effective people and top achievers from all walks of life. An invaluable coaching tool that is easily applied to career, business and personal goals. This e-book is designed as a high level introduction to “how to set goals”. For further information, coaching or training in this area please contact David Hyner directly at Stretch Development Ltd. 1: Evolve or revolve ! 2: Why massive goals ? 3: The “Aha” moment ! 4: The MASSIVE goal principle ! 5: The pyramid and how to use this model ! 1
  • 2. 1: EVOLVE OR REVOLVE ! WHERE WOULD MANKIND BE NOW IF WE HAD NEVER OVERCOME OUR FEAR OF CHANGE AND THE UNKNOWN. WE PERHAPS WOULD STILL BE SWINGING IN THE TREES OR LIVING IN CAVES. FOR WITHOUT EVOLUTION, WE WOULD NOT HAVE GROWN AND DISCOVERED THE TRULY GREAT ACHIEVEMENTS OF MANKIND. WE WOULD BE DOING THE SAME THINGS THAT WE HAD ALWAYS DONE; - GOING ROUND IN CIRCLES! THE SAME PRINCIPLE APPLIES TO YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND PERSONAL LIFE AS IT DOES TO MANKIND’S EVOLUTION. IF YOU DO NOT EVOLVE AND GROW, THEN HOW WILL YOU EVER FURTHER YOURSELF. YOU WILL FOR YOUR LIFESPAN SIMPLY RESPOND TO WHAT LIFE THROWS AT YOU AND GO ROUND IN CIRCLES. BECOME AN EVOLUTIONARY AND NOT “A PERSON GOING ROUND IN CIRCLES.” IT IS A BIT PERVERSE DON`T YOU THINK THAT WHEN WE SAY THINGS LIKE OH GOOD OLD SHIELA, SHE DOESN`T EVER CHANGE”, OR “SUCCESS WOULDN`T CHANGE ME”, WE THINK THAT AS A POSITIVE STATEMENT WHEN OUR WHOLE REASON FOR BEING ALIVE IS TO EVOLVE AND GROW. 2
  • 3. IF THE EXPERTS ARE TO BE BELIEVED, WE ARE ONLY SCRATCHING THE SURFACE OF OUR TRUE POTENTIAL IN ALMOST EVERY ASPECT OF OUR LIVES. OUR BRAINS CAPACITY FOR KNOWLEDGE AND CREATIVE THOUGHT GENERATION GOES FAR BEYOND OUR CURRENT COMPREHENSION. TO CHANGE IS TO HAVE NEW FEELINGS, CHALLENGES, EMOTIONS AND EXPERIENCES. IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF HEIGHTS, AND YOUR OBJECTIVE IS TO GET TO THE TENTH FLOOR OF AN OFFICE BLOCK “and look over the edge”, YOU WILL HAVE A DOUBLE EDGED SWORD TO DEAL WITH. YOU WANT TO GET UP THERE, BUT ARE AFRAID OF THE CHANGE THAT WILL BE FORCED UPON YOU IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL. YOUR COMFORT ZONE IS ON THE GROUND FLOOR, BUT YOUR GOAL IS ON THE TENTH FLOOR. TO REACH YOUR GOAL YOU MUST STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE AND GROW. BY GROWING AND EXPERIENCING NEW EXPERIENCES AND EMOTIONS, YOU INCREASE THE SIZE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE, AND TO REACH THAT STAGE AGAIN WILL BE EASIER SECOND TIME AROUND THAN IT WAS THE FIRST TIME. THIS PROCESS CAN BE REPEATED UNTIL YOU ARE RUNNING UP THE STAIRS TO THE TENTH FLOOR AND ADMIRING THE VIEW FROM THE TOP. 3
  • 4. “You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you do not try.” - Beverly Sills. 2: WHY MASSIVE GOALS ? IF YOU HAVE EVER READ A BOOK ON GOAL SETTING, OR BEEN ON COURSES OR HEARD SPEAKERS TALK ABOUT GOAL SETTING, THEN YOU WILL HAVE HEARD THE TWO WORDS MOST USED IN THE LANGUAGE OF GOAL SETTING. THEY SAY THAT YOUR GOALS SHOULD BE - “REALISTIC AND ACHIEVABLE”. WELL I USED TO BELIEVE THAT TO, - UNTIL THE UNQUESTIONABLE VOLUME OF RESEARCH THAT I HAVE UNDERTAKEN HAS PROVEN THAT TOP ACHIEVERS DO NOT SET REALISTIC AND ACHIEVABLE GOALS. FAR FROM IT ! MOST USE WORDS SUCH AS MASSIVE, LARGE, DREAM, AMBITION, HUGE, ENORMOUS, AND ONE MILLIONNAIRE BUSINESSMAN EVEN SAID - “BIG …… FAT …… HAIRY GOALS”. 4
  • 5. IN FACT, I CAN REMEMBER ONE RESEARCH INTERVIEW WITH A NEURO-SCIENTIST WHERE HE POPINTED OUT: “CAN YOU THINK OF MANY (OR ANY?) OF MAN OR WOMANKINDS GREATEST ACHIEVEMENTS THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN ACHIEVED IF THEY HAD SET “REALISTIC AND ACHIEVABLE GOALS?” I WAS SO CHALLENGED BY THIS THAT I QUESTIONED ITS VALIDITY AND DESIGNED A MODEL THAT MADE IT EASY TO APPLY WHAT TOP ACHIEVERS HAD TOLD ME ABOUT THE WAY IN WHICH THEY SET GOALS. TO TEST THIS BIZZARRE THEORY, I WENT TO A LOCAL CANCER RESEARCH CHARITY THAT WAS PART OF THE NATIONAL CANCER RSEEARCH CAMPAIGN BASED HERE IN THE U.K. I WENT TO THEM WITH AN OFFER OF RAISING £50’000 IN ONE EVENT TO TEST MY RESEARCHED MODEL I EXPECTED THEM TO WELCOME ME WITH OPEN ARMS BUT I FOUND THAT THEY GREETED MY OFFER OF APPLYING MY GOAL SETTING MODEL WITH A STATEMENT THAT SOUNDED LIKE THIS: “you are on your own, you have no experience of fund raising, you are using a model that has not been proven, you only have your spare time 5
  • 6. and it took seven of our experienced part time fundraisers over six Months to organise our biggest event which raised just over £48’000. With respect, what makes you think that you can raise £50’000 in one event, on your own in your spare time, using an unproven model?” IT WAS AT THIS POINT THAT I REMEMBERED THE WORDS OF KRISS AKABUSI mbe. WHEN I INTERVIEWED KRISS HE SAID THAT HE BELIEVED THAT “TOP ACHIEVERS SHOULD BE LOOKED INTO AND NOT UP TO !” THIS STUCK IN MY MIND AND I THOUGHT THAT IF THESE TOP ACHIEVERS WERE RIGHT ABOUT MASSIVE GOALS, THEN I MUST PROVE IT TO BE RIGHT OR WRONG. I TEAMED UP WITH ONE OF THE PART TIME CHARITY WORKERS AND TOGETHER WE DID NOT BREAK THE CHARITIES FUNDRAISING RECORD. WHAT WE ACTUALLY DID WAS BREAK THE RECORDS OF THE FULL TIME FUNDRAISING TEAM AT CANCER RESEARCH UK. IN ONE EVENT “on our own, with no experience of fund raising, using a model that had not been proven, and in our spare time” WE RAISED OVER £288’000 IN ONE EVENT. 6
  • 7. SINCE THIS TIME THE MASSIVE GOAL MODEL HAS HELPED BUSINESSES AND INDIVIDUALS IN MANY WAYS TO FAR EXCEED WHAT WAS BELIEVED TO BE THE MAXIMUM OR “REALISTIC” GOAL THAT COULD BE ACHIEVED. PEOPLE HAVE USED THE MODEL TO IMPROVE OFFICE EFFICIENCY, INCREASE SALES, STOP SWEARING, RAISE MASSES OF MONEY FOR CHARITIES, ACHIEVE LIFE LONG GOALS, SWIM WITH SHARKS, BECOME A PUBLISHED AUTHOR, START A BUSINESS, GET QULIFICATIONS, SAVE THEIR MARRIAGE, GET FIT AND LOOSE WEIGHT, TO NAME BUT A FEW. RIGHT NOW IT IS BEING USED IN BUSINESSES, SCHOOLS, PERSONAL LIVES AND IN THE SPORTS ARENA TO INCREASE EFFECTIVENESS, ACHIEVE MORE, AND PUSH BOUNDARIES OF CONVENTION AND LIMITING BELIEF. 7
  • 8. 3: The “Aha” moment ! DO YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW THIS MODEL WORKS ? I WAS THE OWNER OF A SMALL BUT QUALITY CATERING AND EVENT MANAGEMENT BUSINESS THAT HAD A SUPERB RECORD IN CUSTOMER SERVICE AND YET STRUGGLED TO GROW, AND I WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE OR SOMETHING TO BLAME FOR THIS. AFTER MUCH PROBING, TESTING AND RESEARCH I DECIDED TO MY SURPRISE THAT IT WAS MYSELF THAT WAS LIMITING THE GROWTH OF MY BUSINESS AS I WAS A CONTROL BASED MANAGER WHO WOULD NOT EASILY DELEGATE IMPORTANT JOBS AND SO BECAUSE I WAS DOING EVERYTHING, THE BUSINESS WAS NOT GROWING. AFTER GOING ON MNAY COURSES, READING MANY BOOKS AND GETTING CONSULTANTS INTO MY BUSINESS, I GREW FRUSTRATED AT THE TIRED AND MALIGNED THEORIES THAT WERE LITTLE MORE THAN “ONE PERSONS OPINION” OR WORSE STILL, JUST A RE-HASH OF LOTS OF OTHER PEOPLES MANAGEMENT MATERIAL. 8
  • 9. SO….. I STARTED TO INTERVIEW TOP ACHIEVERS TO FIND OUT FORMYSELF WHAT IT IS THAT THEY DO AND HOW THEYTHINKA ND BEHAVE THAT MADE THEM (SEEMINGLY) SO MUCH MORE EFFECTIVE THAN OTHERS AROUND THEM. WHAT I LEARNT HAS CHANGED MY LIFE FOR EVER…….. AND MANY OTHERS WHO HAVE TRIED TO PROVE THE THEORIES RIGHT…. OR WRONG. WELL IT WAS DURING A RESEARCH INTERVIEW WITH A WEALTHY AND HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL BUSINESSMAN (AT THE TIME HE WAS IN THE TOP 30 RICHEST MEN IN THE UK) THAT THE “PENNY DROPPED”. I ASK ALL OF MY INTERVIEWEES A QUESTION AROUND THEIR GOALS THAT I HOPE WILL DRAW OUT AN ANSWER THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD FOR EVER, AND AFTER (AT THE TIME) NEARLY FOUR YEARS OF INTERVIEWS I WAS GETTING PRETTY CHEESED OFF WITH WHAT I THOUGHT WERE VERY MEDIOCRE AND AVERAGE ANSWERS TO SUCH AN IMPORTANT QUESTION. THE INTERVIEWEE SHALL BE CALLED RALPH…….. I ASKED RALPH WHAT IT WAS HE DID THAT MADE HIM SO CONSISTANTLY EFFECTIVE AND MORE SUCCESSFUL THAN OTHERS AROUND HIM. THE CONVERSATIION WENT SOMETHING LIKE THIS: 9
  • 10. “I suppose all I do is …………… well I suppose what I do is………. I set very large goals…….. I think of things I might have to do to achieve that goal…………., I put them in an order of priority, and then I take action. Every day I try to do something towards that goal, even if it is just a phone call or a letter, I do something. …… And if I want the goal badly enough I will never, ever give in………………. yeah, I suppose that is what I do” NOW MY BRAIN LEFT MY BODY AND PUT MY MOUTH IN CHARGE FOR A FEW MOMENTS AND I HEARD MYSELF SAYING BACK TO RALPH…. “do you expect me to believe that your MASSIVE achievements” AND LIKE AN IDIOT I READ HIS ACHIEVEMENTS BACK TO HIM…. LIKE HE DIDN’T KNOW THEM ALREADY?…….. “these MASSIVE achievements are down to you setting large goals, thinking of things you might have to do to achieve those goals, prioritising them, taking action and never giving in…………..… …………………. REALLY ?!?!?!?!?!?!?” THERE WAS A SILENCE THAT SEEMED TO LAST FOR EVER…….. RALPH THEN ALMOST SHOUTED “DO YOU DOUBT ME YOUNG MAN !!!!!!!!” I APPOLOGISED AT ONCE AND WE MOVED ON WITH THE INTERVIEW. THERE WAS NO DOUBTING THE CONVICTION OF THIS MAN. 10
  • 11. I WENT HOME AND TRAWLED THE INTERVIEW NOTES FROM THE RESEARCH I HAD DONE TO DATE AND THERE, LEAPING FROM THE PAGES WAS MY ANSWER THAT I HAD MISSED BEFORE. MOST TOP ACHIEVERS ARE AWARE OF DELIBERATELY SETTING MASSIVE GOALS,…. HUGE GOALS…….., BIG FAT HAIRY GOALS ! ISN`T IT FUNNY HOW THROUGHOUT HISTORY, WE HAVE LEARNT OF TOP ACHIEVERS WHO OVERCAME SEEMINGLY INCREDIBLE ODDS TO ACHIEVE THEIR GOALS. WERE THEY SPECIAL PEOPLE WITH HIDDEN POWERS THAT WE CAN NOT ATTAIN? NO ! - THEY WERE MERE MORTALS LIKE YOU AND I WHO BEHAVED AND THOUGHT IN A SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT WAY TO MOST OTHERS. WELL, LET US TAKE ONE FINE EXAMPLE. A GREAT AMERICAN PRESIDENT, AND A MAN WHO (DEPENDING UPON YOUR POLITICAL PERSUASION) IS REVERED AND REMEMBERED BY A NATION WHICH RATE HIM AS POSSIBLY THE BEST LEADER OF THEIR COUNTRY TO DATE. THE VALUE OF COURAGE, PERSISTENCE, AND PERSEVERANCE HAS RARELY BEEN ILLUSTRATED MORE CONVINCINGLY THAN IN THE LIFE STORY OF THIS GREAT MAN. 11
  • 12. SHOWN HERE IS THE RECORD OF ONE ABRAHAM LINCOLN. Abraham Lincoln; FAILED IN BUSINESS AGED 22 YEARS RAN FOR LEGISLATURE - DEFEATED AGAIN FAILED IN BUSINESS ELECTED TO LEGISLATURE SWEETHEART DIED HAD A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN DEFEATED FOR SPEAKER DEFEATED FOR ELECTOR DEFEATED FOR CONGRESS ELECTED TO CONGRESS DEFEATED FOR CONGRESS DEFEATED FOR SENATE DEFEATED FOR VICE PRESIDENT DEFEATED FOR SENATE ELECTED PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES AGED 51 YEARS REMEMBER – NEVER, EVER GIVE IN ! 12
  • 13. FAILURE IS, AFTERALL, THE PRICE OF IMPROVEMENT, FOR NOTHING WOULD EVER HAVE BEEN IMPROVED, CREATED OR INVENTED IF SOMEONE HAD NOT FIRST DRAWN UP PLANS, BUILT MODELS, FAILED, RE-DRAWN PLANS, AND THEN MADE BETTER MODELS. A FEW BUTS, MUST DO’S AND PRE-REQUISITES. WHEN I INTERVIEWED ONE OF THE WORLDS LEADING COACHING MENTORS HE TOLD ME OF HIS CLIENT BASE THAT HAD IN IT SOME OF THE WORLDS LEADING ENTREPRENEURS AND BUSINESMEN AND WOMEN. TO MY SHOCK AND AMAZEMENT HE WENT ON TO EXPLAIN HOW HE BEGAN HIS COACHING PROCES BY GETTING THE COACHEE TO UNDERSTAND A FEW BASIC PRINCIPLES OF “LIFE”, TAKEN FROM HIS PRIOR EXPERIENCES OF THE BHUDDIST FAITH. BUTS ………. SURE, SET A LARGE GOAL, BUT MAKE SURE THAT IT STRETCHES YOU IN WAYS THAT WILL HELP YOU TO LEARN AND GROW AND GET NEW EXPERIENCES, MEET NEW PEOPLE, OR CHANGE OTHERS LIVES FOR THE BETTER. 13
  • 14. MUST DO’S …… HE SAID THAT “I TEACH ALL OF MY CLIENTS THAT IF YOU GO AFTER THINGS TO MAKE YOU HAPPY THEN YOU ARE DOOMED TO MISERY” WHEN I ASKED HIM TO EXPLAIN HE WENT ONTO SAY HOW TRULY HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL MEN AND WOMEN HAVE A WORK LIFE BALANCE AND DO THINGS FOR THE RIGHT REASONS. ETHICS, MORALS, PRINCIPLES, WHATEVER YOU WOULD CALL THEM. IF YOU ARE UNHEALTHY, UNHAPPY OR GRUMPY AND YOU GO AFTER A GOAL YOU “MIGHT” JUST GET IT, BUT WHEN YOU GET IT YOU WILL STILL BE THE SAME OLD UNHEALTHY, UNHAPPY, AND GRUMPY PERSON THAT STARTED ON LIFES JOURNEY OF ACHIEVEMENT AND SO YOU THEN GO AFTER SOMETHING ELSE IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS AND YOU NEVER FIND IT. THE SECRET IS TO GET HAPPY, AND THEN GO AFTER THINGS. THAT WAY YOU ARE FAR MORE LIKELY TO ENJOY THE ACHIEVEMENT PROCESS AND THE HARD WORK THAT IT TAKES TO ACHIEVE. THE ACTUAL ACHIEVEMENT IS A DIRECT CONSEQUENCE OF BEING HAPPY AND YOU ARE NOT PINNING YOURHAPPINESS ON THE ACHIEVEMENT. PRE-REQUISITES ……….. LOOK AT YOUR PERSONAL AND CORPOARET GOALS AND ASKYOURSELF WHY AM I/ARE WE DOING THIS. CHOOSE YOUR ATTITUDE AND GET HAPPY. THEN AND ONLY THEN, GO AFTER THINGS. YOU WILL BE AMAZED AT THE RESULTS. 14
  • 15. 4: The MASSIVE goal principle ! PYRAMIDS ARE SEEN BY MANY PEOPLE AS A SYMBOL OF GREAT POWER AND STRENGTH. THEY HAVE BEEN MARVELLED THROUGHOUT TIME AS A SIGN OF MASSIVE ACHIEVEMENT, FOR THE ORIGINALS TOOK MANY YEARS TO BUILD AND WERE MADE BY HAND WITH ROCK CARRIED MANY MILES BY MANY HUNDREDS OF MEN. I WONDER IF ANYBODY THOUGHT TO TELL THE GUY WHO THOUGHT UP THE IDEA FOR A PYRAMID THAT IT WAS A TASK TOO BIG TO BECOME REALITY? BUT THINK FOR A MINUTE AS TO HOW A PYRAMID IS BUILT. THEY DO NOT BRING EVERY ROCK TO THE SITE FOR ERECTION AND BUILD IT ALL IN A DAY. WHAT THEY DO IS PLACE A FOUNDATION LEVEL OF ROCKS CUT TO SIZE WITH A TIER ON TOP OF THAT OF SIMILAR SHAPED ROCKS, AND THEN ANOTHER, AND THEN ANOTHER. THEY KEEP DOING THIS UNTIL THEY HAVE ONLY THE TOP AND FINAL STONE TO LAY, AND THEN THEIR GOAL HAS BEEN ACHIEVED. YOUR GOALS OR CHALLENGES CAN BE ACHIEVED OR OVERCOME IN THE SAME WAY. TREAT EACH BRICK OR EACH LEVEL AS AN INDIVIDUAL OR SPECIFIC TASK OR LIST OF TASKS THAT WILL FURTHER YOU TOWARDS YOUR ACHIEVEMENT. 15
  • 16. EACH TASK OR LAYER SEEMS ACHIEVEABLE, AND EVERY BRICK THAT IS LAID IS A STEP CLOSER TO YOUR BIGGER GOAL, OR CHALLENGE. REMEMBER WHAT RALPH SAID? 1.SET A LARGE GOAL. 2.THINK OF WHAT YOU MAY HAVE TO DO IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE THAT GOAL. 3.PRIORITISE THOSE TASKS IN ORDER OF IMPORTANCE. 4.TAKE ACTION EVERY DAY. 5. IF YOU WANT IT THAT BADLY – NEVER, EVER GIVE IN. 16
  • 17. 5: The pyramid and how to use this model ! Title Goal Description The MASSIVE Goal Principle. Most Important Positive Present Personal Powerful Personal Statement 17
  • 18. HERE IS HOW TO USE THIS MODEL: Six steps to success. 1: HOLD A CREATIVE MEETING WITH “LIKE MINDED” PEOPLE AWAY FROM THE “USUAL” ENVIRONMENT TO LIST AS MANY THINGS OR IDEAS AS YOU CAN THINK OF THAT YOU MAY HAVE TO DO, WILL HAVE TO DO, OR MUST DO IF YOU ARE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL 2: IF YOU HAVE FIFTY THINGS IN YOUR LIST, MAKE A PYRAMID WITH ONE HUNDRED BLOCKS IN IT AS WHEN YOU ARE ON YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDS ACHIEVEING THIS GOAL, MANY OTHER “THINGS TO DO“ WILL CROP UP AND YOU WILL HAVE BLOCKS IN WHICH TO WRITE OR DRAW YOUR ACTION. 3: PUT THE TASKS INTO AN ORDER OF IMPORTANCE WITH THE MOST URGENT OR IMPORTANT BEING NUMBER ONE. IN THE BOTTOM BLOCKS OF THE PYRAMID WRITE OR DRAW SOMETHING THAT REPRESENTS EACH TASK, WITH THE MOST IMPORTANT TASKS BEING IN THE BOTTOM BLOCKS OR ROWS OF YOUR PYRAMID. AFTERALL, A PYRAMID IS A STRUCTURE LIKE A BUILDING, AND WITHOUT FOUNDATIONS ANY BUILDING WOULD FALL DOWN. 18
  • 19. SO CREATE YOUR OWN FOUNDATION BLOCKS THAT YOU KNOW ARE THE MOST ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SUCCESS AND PLACE THEM IN THE BOTTOM BLOCKS AND ROWS OF YOUR PYRAMID. 4: LOOK AT THE TASKS AND SEE WHICH ARE THE BIGEST TASKS AND ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION; “IF ALL I HAD TO DO WAS “THIS” TASK – COULD I DO IT ?”. IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN THAT IS OKAY, BUT IF THE ANSWER IS NO, THEN YOU CAN GO THROUGH THIS PROCESS WITH EACH BLOCK THAT IS STILL A MAJOR CHALLENGE UNTIL YOU HAVE A MASTER PLAN THAT MAY HAVE ONE OR MAY HAVE A DOZEN PYRAMIDS – EACH PYRAMID REPRESENTING A BLOCK OR TASK THAT IS IN ITSELF, A VERY HARD CHALENGE - BUT YOU KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOOK AT EACH AND EVERY TASK OR BLOCK, THAT YOU CAN AND WILL ACHIEVE IT. 5: TAKE ACTION ! – NOW ! – EVERY DAY ATTEMPT TO DO AT LEAST ONE THING THAT WILL TAKE YOU TOWARDS YOUR GOAL. EVEN IF IT IS JUST A PHONE CALL ! 19
  • 20. 6: KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTION AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT IT WOULD MEAN TO YOU IF YOU WERE TO SUCCEED OR FAIL. ASK YOURSELF IF YOU WANT OR NEED THIS GOAL “THAT BADLY”? IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN NEVER, EVER, AND I DO MEAN EVER,….. GIVE IN. KEEP GOING UNTIL YOU HAVE DONE AVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL. THE PROCESS …………….. FOCUS ON THE BIG GOAL BUT ACTION THE SMALLER TASKS AND ACTION STEPS IN EACH BLOCK OF THE PYRAMID. AS YOU ARE IN A PLACE OF “KNOWING” THAT YOU WILL OR HAVE ACHIEVED EACH STEP, GET A BIG MARKER PEN AND TAKE A CHILDISH PLEASURE IN CROSSING OFF OR EVEN COLOURING IN EACH BLOCK AS YOU BUILD YOUR PYRAMID TOWARDS YOUR GOAL. 20
  • 21. AS YOU BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDS SETTING AND ACHIEVING A MASSIVE GOAL YOU WILL GET WELL INTENTIONED FRIENDS, ASSOCIATES AND OTHER PEOPLE WHO THROUGH NOT WANTING YOU OR “ANYTHING ELSE” TO CHANGE, OR PERHAPS NOT HIGHLIGHT THE FACT THAT THEY ARE FRAID TO MAKE CHANGES THEMSELVES, WILL SAY THINGS SUCH AS: “WHAT IF YOU FAIL, YOU WILL NEVER DO THAT, IT IS IMPOSSIBLE” ETC ETC. DO NOT ALLOW THESE PEOPLE TO STOP YOU AS THESE ARE THE VERY SAME PEOPLE THAT WHEN SUCEESS BEGINS TO REAR ITS HEAD, WILL BE KNOCKING ON YOUR DOOR WANTING TO HELP YOU. ENJOY YOUR LIFE AND DARE TO THINK MASSIVE ! 21