Online Dating Tips from author and "baby boomer honeymooner" Caryl Westmore's Amazon Kindle book "Online Dating Success Secrets for Women 40/50+ ...How to Find True Lasting Love - Attract your Love Hero - Dump the Love Villains - Like I did!

1. 10 ONLINE DATING TIPS
FOR BOOMERS
BY CARYL WESTMORE

2. Women over 40 - You can Change
your Lonely Life with Online Dating
Did you know…

1 in 3 Americans now meet their
spouses online

Seniors 50+ are the fastest growing
groups of subscribers for on-line dating
(Lehman Brothers Equity Research, 2007)

3. 10 TOP TIPS FROM
NEW KINDLE BOOK

4. Tip #1:
Dump the Love Villains

5. How ?

Become a love detective and track back your
worst dates and relationship nightmares … on a
timeline

Write a most “Not-Wanted” online dating ad

Learn from your ad what you don’t want in a
date or relationship

6. Love Villains –
What you don’t want

You don’t want to repeat old patterns
make the same choices you made in the
past

or
Do the inner clearing work (EFT-Matrix
Reimprinting) to BREAK FREE from the negative
beliefs and patterns learned in early childhood
and your teens that are sabotaging you now
Once you support and release that Younger You, the
Adult You will miraculously heal.

7. Now compare familiar traits from these
Love Villains to things you
remember from …

Mother

Father

Important Care-givers

Child hood relationship models

8. Tip #2: Get Clear
Forgive them – and yourself
 BOOK A FREE SESSION with
Goal Success Love Coach Caryl
Westmore to learn how you are
unconsciously attracting in
Love Villains.
 Resolve to get clear of
resentment, anger, pain and
self-sabotage keeping you
lonely and victimised.
 www.attractlovemidlife.com

9. You can heal your broken heart
and BREAK-FREE
Hint – Resentment keeps
the ties alive
Hint – Own the part you
play in allowing Love
Villains into your life!

10. AFFIRMATION
I choose to treat myself with love and
respect – and demand the same of Life
and Love….
Love Villains be-gone!

11. Tip #3
Attract your Love Hero

12. Law of Attraction Love Secrets

Cosmic ordering – make your list of characteristics
for your ideal romantic Love Hero

You will attract whatever you think about, feel and
focus your attention on, whether consciously or
unconsciously.

Work on yourself to become these ideal
characteristics

13. Tip #4
Heal 6 Top Love Killer Beliefs
These can ruin your chances of love:
1.
I’m not good enough to be loved
2.
I am not a success in life without the romantic
love-of-my-life
3.
Love is Scarce
4.
Rejection is too painful and must be avoided
at all costs
5.
Failure means I wasted my love on him (and
should give up)
6.
I’m too old/fat/poor to attract love midlife

14. Tip #5
Pinpoint what you do want

Make a list of Wants and not-wants in a partner

Re-frame and raise your expectations

Create a great love future in your heart

Picture this future with him already in your life

Create your Love Treasure Map.

15. Tip #6
Build a Winning Profile
Before writing your Profile…

Prepare by doing a round of EFT Tapping

Tap in positive empowering words and feelings to boost
your self confidence and feelings of self-worth

Have a winning picture

Wow them in 20 seconds! Be brief enough to pique
interest. It’s been proven that men look at photos first
and then skim the information in your profile.

16. Tip #7
Choose a PAID Online Dating Site
You may think it’s best to try a free online dating site
first – after all, you’ve got nothing to lose, right?
Wrong!
Paid subscription sites are less likely to have creepy or
dishonest users. Go with a tried-and-tested site and
pay at least one months’ subscription. Later you can
consider a 3 or 6 month investment, which will
reduce your monthly subscription.

17. Tip #8
Expect a Downside but stay Focused

It’s a numbers game - Don’t expect to be
successful 100% of the time. You win
some…you lose some (or many)

Never give up - Your longing is there for a
reason and you must keep going

Don’t take ‘No’ or rejection personally;

Move on - Don’t ask yourself what you did
wrong or how you could have done it
differently.

18. Tip #9
Commitment
Experts say you need a minimum of three
ingredients to make a relationship work in the
long-term …
1.
Chemistry,
2.
Compatibility
3.
Commitment
So spot the warning signs of the man who
is a “Commitment-Phobe” and stay far
away!
But make sure it’s not YOU who is scared
to commit and thus putting out bad vibes!

19. Tip #10:
Checklist for a serious relationship
Look for…

Commitment to personal
growth

Commitment to me, and our
relationship

Emotional openness and communication

Integrity

Maturity and financial stability

High self esteem

Positive attitude towards life

Good sexual chemistry

Harmonious soul mate vibe

20. A Happy Ending
Boomers Caryl & Nick Westmore
met online and married
in 2007
Let Caryl help you attract
YOUR LOVE HERO
Free Attract True Love and your Soul Mate
coaching session (value $200) on Skype:
www.attractlovemidlife.com