So many people put stress on the relationships they are in, wondering whether the person they are with is right. Here's some advice on how to handle these challenging thoughts.

1. How Can You Tell When
You Have Found The
Right Person

2. Love is such a wonderful thing that
when shared by two people, the
feelings become mutual and the
gratification’s achieved. All of these
feelings are recognised throughout the
dating period.

3. Dating becomes the primary selection
ground for people who wish to end up
with somebody they can grow old with.
It provides them the means to find the
right person whom they can share
their life with. We all want someone
we are compatible with.

4. Normally, the stages of dating
illustrate continuous experiences.
The couple get to know each other
more, and even begin to notice
certain traits each possess, either in
common or not.

5. However, even if the couple share
mutual feelings towards each other,
sometimes it is questionable
whether the relationship should
blossom or head more towards the
“friendzone”, due to challenges that
may arise.

6. We can sometimes feel that we are
happy at the moment but when the
concept of finding the right person
sinks in; a lot of questions take place.
We begin to get into our own head and
have to analyse the whole relationship.

7. Even if everything seems to be in
perfect condition and the dates are
always pleasurable and gratifying,
sometimes we like to be on the safe
side and not take the risk of getting
too deep into a relationship without
being certain the person is right.

8. So, for people who wish to know if the
person they are dating right now is
the right person and are fearful about
trusting your instincts, here are some
tips that may put your mind at ease
and clarify if your relationship is going
in a positive direction.

9. Dig deep into your true emotions,
how do you truly feel about this
person? When you think about them,
how do you feel? How do you feel
when you get a text, call or see this
person? Positive or negative?
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10. Think about the qualities and habits
this person has. Although you might
feel a certain way about them now as
you spend shorter amounts of time
together, are they something you can
potentially live/grow old with?

11. It might help if you establish
whether you accepts this person,
flaws and all. Are you willing to
accept this person exactly as they
are? Even the parts of them that may
be irritating at times?

12. It is an idea to notice the things that
you find undesirable and compare
them to yourself. Are these traits that
you also have but maybe have not
noticed?

13. We can not change someone else, but if
we notice and change ourselves, our
outside world changes too. You may
notice those traits begin to fade or you
simply don’t get irritated anymore.

14. If you are willing to accept the
differences, flaws, habits and qualities in
this person, this is love. If they make you
feel accepted and like you can be
yourself and happy, relax and enjoy
experiencing the relationship as it
unfolds. You have found the right
person.

15. Do you truly accept the other person’s
faults? Or do you think that, as you
stay in this relationship, over the years
you can change them into your right
person? If you’re wishing and hoping
to change someone into someone else,
they are simply not the right person for
you.
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16. Finding the right person shouldn’t be hard
work. You shouldn’t need to use someone
as a project, something to create and
mould into your soulmate. Accepting
somebody should never be conditional.
This person may not be a replica of your
dream person, but you either accept them
or move on.

17. If you feel like this is the action you wish
to take when approaching your
relationship, just know you may end up
very disappointed in the future. It can be
hard to let go of a relationship you have
high hopes for it, but I guarantee your
dream relationship and partner are right
around the corner, waiting. Are you
ready?

18. What type of person do you want to
be with? What is it that you want
from the right person? Do you
yourself possess the qualities that
you are looking for in someone else?
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19. I recommend you write down a list of
the qualities you want in the right
person and how you want that person
to make you feel. Even the things that
your current partner might not
do/have. Then spend some time going
through the list, making sure you have
those qualities and can make yourself
feel those emotions.

20. Only you are in control of your
feelings, feel great for yourself and
you will radiate happiness to others.
Therefore, strengthen the
relationship with your partner, you’ll
both feel happier and more fulfilled.

21. Remember, If you are wanting what is
on your list, surely the right person will
be wanting positive qualities too. But if
they or you can not deliver, the
relationship won’t be working the way
you want it to.

22. As many people say, “Communication is
key”. In all types of relationships, you
need to able to communicate properly if
you’re wanting to progress and go to
new levels.
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23. If you’re feeling doubts or, have
questions about certain elements of this
person’s life. Maybe there are specific
people that you a weary of. Tell you
partner exactly how you feel.

24. Many people would rather not say
anything because they don’t want to
seem jealous or paranoid. But, how much
do you want to be happy and know for
sure you are with the right person?

25. It is better to speak up, then feel you can
not express yourself. This in turn will
make you even more unsure of whether
this is the the right person. If the
response to your opinions is blaming,
judgmental, or makes you feel unworthy.
This person is not for you.

26. If the response to the honesty of your
feelings gets a reaction of support, love
and complete understanding. You have
found the the right person.

27. Relationships are about a mutual
growth, happiness, trust and
support no matter what may be
happening. No person is 100%
perfect , but the differences, flaws
and challenges are what makes life
more exciting. Enjoy your
relationship journey.

28. Finally, follow your heart. Sometimes a
relationship won’t seem so straight
forward and will have its challenges.
Relax and give it time. You might be
surprised with the outcome if you just
think positively and truly enjoy the
company of that particular person.

29. In the perfect time, you’ll be in a happy
loving relationship with the right person.
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