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Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
Seattle Girls’ School
What Boys and Girls Are Made of:
Supporting Healthy Gender Identities of Children
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About Seattle Girls’ School
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Agenda
• Gender Differences
• Gender Bias
• Gender Bias and Girls
• Gender Bias and Boys
• When the Binary Doesn’t Work
• What Can We Do?
• Discussions
• Resources
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Gender Unpacked
Disclaimers and
Other Food for Thought
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Gender Differences
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Brash
Troublemaker
Strong
Competitive
Physical
Silent
Clever
Mistake-Prone
Belligerent
Intuitive
Well-Behaved
Delicate
Cooperative
Emotional
Verbal
Pretty
Perfect
Nice
Gender Bias
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Girls and Gender Bias
Where Does it Lead?
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The “Good Girl” in Conflict
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The “Good Girl” in the Workplace and Home
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Beauty
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Beauty, Perfection, and Shame
Boys and Gender Bias
Where Does it Lead?
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The “Tough Guy” in Conflict
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The “Tough Guy” in the Workplace and the Home
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Psychic Dissonance, Health, and Violence
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Process Break
What are the positives and negatives of where your child is,
as far as you can tell? What are the specific questions or
concerns that come up for your child?
My child is MOSTLY:
-internalizing and conforming to gender
norms and stereotypes
-feeling pressured to conform to gender
stereotypes
-little affected by gender stereotypes
-actively non-conforming to gender
stereotypes
Please gather in affinity groups.
Meet, chat, clarify.
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What Can We Do?
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What Can We Do for Girls?
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• Teach the difference
between self-sacrificing and
good.
• Talk about or compliment
something besides her looks.
• Value the quality of her
relationships, not the
quantity.
• Give her access to diverse
women mentors.
• Role-Play difficult
conversations with her.
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What Can We Do for Boys?
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• Teach the difference
between strong and
tough.
• Talk about feelings and
relationships.
• Make it okay to be
vulnerable.
• Give him access to
diverse male mentors.
• Help them understand
societal homophobia.
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What Can We Do for Gender Diverse Kids?
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• Minimize gendered
language.
• Interrupt gender exclusive
behavior.
• Make gender insignificant
in grouping.
• Mix up gender
stereotyped activities.
• Believe what they tell you.
• Normalize their
experience.
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What Can We Do for All?
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• Help them develop strong interaction and social skills.
• Discuss nontraditional family and relationship models.
• Show them diverse role models of all genders.
• Respect and nurture their true selves.
• Teach “norm”, “normal”, and “good”.
• Teach about gender diversity.
• Share your stories.
• Model the way.
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Teach Media Literacy
• Choose media FOR youth when possible.
• Engage in media WITH youth.
• Help youth understand the hidden messages of media.
• Help youth think about how they want to internalize or
reject these messages.
Undoing Gender Bias
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Questions and Comments
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Presenter Information
Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee
6th Faculty and
Professional Outreach
Seattle Girls’ School
2706 S Jackson Street
Seattle WA 98144
(206) 805-6562
rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org
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Resources
• Joshua M. Aronson, Ph.D., “Improving Achievement &
Narrowing the Gap,” Learning and the Brain
Conference, Cambridge, MA, November 2003
• Allan G. Johnson, Privilege, Power, and Difference.
• Miss Representation, documentary film on media and
women
• United Nations Population Fund Statistics on Gender
Equality as of 2005
http://www.unfpa.org/swp/2005/presskit/factsheets/facts
_gender.htm
• Learning to be critically literate of mass media
http://www.medialit.org/
• Media Guide for Parents and Educators
http://www.commonsensemedia.org/
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Gender Specific Resources
• Brené Brown, Men, Women, and Worthiness
• Jennifer Bryan, From the Dress Up Corner to the Senior
Prom
• JoAnn Deak, Ph.D., Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confident
and Courageous Daughters, How Girls Thrive
• Jackson Katz, Tough Guise, Wrestling with Manhood,
The Macho Paradox
• John Medina, Talaris Research Institute, various studies
on early gender differences in competition and play
• Mary Pipher, Ph.D., Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves
of Adolescent Girls
• Rachel Simmons, Odd Girl Out, Odd Girl Speaks Out,
Curse of the Good Girl
• Michael Thompson, Raising Cain, Speaking of Boys, It’s
a Boy!
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Trevor Day Gender Diversity

  • 1. Trevor Day School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee Seattle Girls’ School What Boys and Girls Are Made of: Supporting Healthy Gender Identities of Children Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 2. About Seattle Girls’ School Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 3. Agenda • Gender Differences • Gender Bias • Gender Bias and Girls • Gender Bias and Boys • When the Binary Doesn’t Work • What Can We Do? • Discussions • Resources Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 4. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 5. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Gender Unpacked
  • 6. Disclaimers and Other Food for Thought Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 7. Gender Differences Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 9. Girls and Gender Bias Where Does it Lead? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 10. The “Good Girl” in Conflict Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 11. The “Good Girl” in the Workplace and Home Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 12. Beauty Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee) Beauty, Perfection, and Shame
  • 13. Boys and Gender Bias Where Does it Lead? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 14. The “Tough Guy” in Conflict Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 15. The “Tough Guy” in the Workplace and the Home Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 16. Psychic Dissonance, Health, and Violence Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 17. Process Break What are the positives and negatives of where your child is, as far as you can tell? What are the specific questions or concerns that come up for your child? My child is MOSTLY: -internalizing and conforming to gender norms and stereotypes -feeling pressured to conform to gender stereotypes -little affected by gender stereotypes -actively non-conforming to gender stereotypes Please gather in affinity groups. Meet, chat, clarify. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 18. What Can We Do? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 19. What Can We Do for Girls? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee • Teach the difference between self-sacrificing and good. • Talk about or compliment something besides her looks. • Value the quality of her relationships, not the quantity. • Give her access to diverse women mentors. • Role-Play difficult conversations with her. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 20. What Can We Do for Boys? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee • Teach the difference between strong and tough. • Talk about feelings and relationships. • Make it okay to be vulnerable. • Give him access to diverse male mentors. • Help them understand societal homophobia. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 21. What Can We Do for Gender Diverse Kids? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee • Minimize gendered language. • Interrupt gender exclusive behavior. • Make gender insignificant in grouping. • Mix up gender stereotyped activities. • Believe what they tell you. • Normalize their experience. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 22. What Can We Do for All? Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee • Help them develop strong interaction and social skills. • Discuss nontraditional family and relationship models. • Show them diverse role models of all genders. • Respect and nurture their true selves. • Teach “norm”, “normal”, and “good”. • Teach about gender diversity. • Share your stories. • Model the way. Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 23. Rosetta Eun Ryong LeeRosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://sites.google.com/site/sgsprofessionaloutreach/) Teach Media Literacy • Choose media FOR youth when possible. • Engage in media WITH youth. • Help youth understand the hidden messages of media. • Help youth think about how they want to internalize or reject these messages.
  • 24. Undoing Gender Bias Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 25. Questions and Comments Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 26. Presenter Information Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee 6th Faculty and Professional Outreach Seattle Girls’ School 2706 S Jackson Street Seattle WA 98144 (206) 805-6562 rlee@seattlegirlsschool.org http://tiny.cc/rosettalee Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 27. Resources • Joshua M. Aronson, Ph.D., “Improving Achievement & Narrowing the Gap,” Learning and the Brain Conference, Cambridge, MA, November 2003 • Allan G. Johnson, Privilege, Power, and Difference. • Miss Representation, documentary film on media and women • United Nations Population Fund Statistics on Gender Equality as of 2005 http://www.unfpa.org/swp/2005/presskit/factsheets/facts _gender.htm • Learning to be critically literate of mass media http://www.medialit.org/ • Media Guide for Parents and Educators http://www.commonsensemedia.org/ Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)
  • 28. Gender Specific Resources • Brené Brown, Men, Women, and Worthiness • Jennifer Bryan, From the Dress Up Corner to the Senior Prom • JoAnn Deak, Ph.D., Girls Will Be Girls: Raising Confident and Courageous Daughters, How Girls Thrive • Jackson Katz, Tough Guise, Wrestling with Manhood, The Macho Paradox • John Medina, Talaris Research Institute, various studies on early gender differences in competition and play • Mary Pipher, Ph.D., Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls • Rachel Simmons, Odd Girl Out, Odd Girl Speaks Out, Curse of the Good Girl • Michael Thompson, Raising Cain, Speaking of Boys, It’s a Boy! Rosetta Eun Ryong Lee (http://tiny.cc/rosettalee)