One of the key reasons a large amount of folk have a little
bit of fun on the side is they are dis-satisfied with their
current relationship. It may sound like a noticeable
statement but there are a lot of different types of affairs,
and differing reasons behind every one. Think about why
it is you're thinking about how to have an affair.

One that I see folk enter into inside my circle of
assosciates is the 'exit plan ' affair. Basically their looking
around for a way out of their relationship, and they have
not got the bravery to break it off with their
partner/partner. It's such a daft way of going about things,
as they're endeavoring to get caught, which can only
end badly for just about everyone concerned. Why put
yourself thru it!? !

Think about why you're thinking of doing it? Me?
Well, I do it for the sex manifestly. And not just sex, but
'the excitement of getting to know someone ' sex, the kind
that you have in those first few months of lust. That is the
type of sex that is impossible to maintain (the uniqueness
of it) over the long run, with any lover, let alone the one
that you commit to share your life with. Attempting to
keep it spontaneous just feels forced after a bit.

Which is why this is not the kind of affair I'm having.
If you are thinking about having an affair as a way to get
out of your current relationship it is not the way to go.
Especially if you are thinking of having an affair with
someone you'd like to be with in a rather more
permanent relationship. This is truly sticky territory.

You're far better off seeking marraige/relationship
counselling and seeing if that can mend what's gone
wrong in your present relationship (I mean, you liked one
another once, right?). Then if that does not work, or you
partner doesn't want to do it, learn how to live with
them, or leave them. It's a massive decision it truly
reduces down to one simple choice.

If you use the exit plan affair it will do a lot of harm, but
maybe that is what you are after? Only you can dig down
and think about why you'd wish to do that to somebody
you once cared about. Ensure you do not do it with
someone that you would like to pursue a proper
relationship with, and make sure your new interest
doesn't find. If they know you had an affair to get
out of your relationship, then in their mind there's nothing
to stop you from doing it to them. After you exhibit the
facts about your nature, there's no going back.

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