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How To Get A Girl Back With No Begging Or Pleading At All
1. Has your girl dumped you and you are pretty much at a
loss for what to do to get her back? Have you tried to talk
to her but she is either argumentative or she won't talk to
you at all? This is a pretty difficult situation, you must
admit. You're trying to be understanding and patient but
how will you ever be able to get her back if you can't even
talk to her? With everything so one sided you feel like
your hands are pretty much tied but still you want to get
her back.
2. Actually, getting your girlfriend or wife back is a very
simple task. The problem is your point of view. You are
emotionally involved in this problem so you're not really
thinking right. I could lay out for you exactly what to do
but mentally you probably aren't really ready for that right
now. There is too much at stake and you would probably
balk and not follow through when the moment of truth
came. You want the nice way. You want the caring way to
get her back. Unfortunately, much of what works goes
against what your warm and fuzzy insides feel will actually
work. Either way, I'm going to get you on the path to
getting her back and we'll see where we stand at the end
of the rainbow.
3. First things first! If you are living with your ex you need to
remove yourself from the equation as soon as possible. If
that means packing a bag tonight and going to stay with
some buddies then do it. You can come back for your stuff
later or maybe you really don't have that much stuff other
than some clothes and little stuff in which case you can
pull this off in one shot. Being right there with her is only
killing the attraction and destroying your chances of
getting her back if she is a serious "don't wanter" right
now. No amount of talking or waiting and seeing is going
to get her to change her mind so it is time for you to go
with your head held high.
4. You might not notice it from your point of view but
everything that you are doing including sticking around to
see how things play out is just making you seem needy
and destroying whatever shred of respect that your girl
has for you. She can see it in how you walk, how you
talk, the look in your eye and even the tone of your voice.
Your desire to get back together with someone that has
dumped you isn't helping either, I'm sorry to say. I know
that you think that this kind of devotion should be
admired but I am sorry to say that she doesn't see it this
way. I don't mean to hit you so hard with this stuff but
someone has to tell you the truth.
5. Even though you might want to continue to stay in touch
with her or text her or just touch base with her from time
to time to see if she changed her mind, it is important that
you lock your life down and maintain radio silence. Your
second step in how to get a girl back is to cut off all
communications with her. If you are forced to see her on a
daily basis because you work together or take classes
together then keep things low key. Be polite but don't go
out of your way to talk to her. No unnecessary contact is
the name of the game for a while.
6. There are going to be times when you will come up with
some pretty good excuses for why you need to call her or
text her. You might think that there is no harm in checking
on her or telling her that you still think of her or some
garbage but resist that temptation as if it were kryptonite
to Superman. All these parts are important to your success
in getting your girlfriend or wife back so you need to take
them seriously.
7. Now it is time for the fun part of how to get a girl back.
This is the time for you to get yourself back before you get
back in touch with her again. It is time for you to get your
head together and start living life again. It is time for you
to get back to being that fun guy that she once enjoyed
spending tme with and fell in love with. After all, you're
not going to get her back by being depressed and whiney
or begging her for another chance. Keep your emotions in
check and count on your ability to tweak her own
emotional hot buttons to bring her back to you.
8. Knowing what to say and what to do to get her back is the
most important part of how to get a girl back. You know
that women are emotional by nature. You know that she
can have a range of emotions that runs from crying one
hour to laughing the next hour to wanting to perform a
home vasectomy on you the next, right? You are going to
have to play to those emotions and bring out those
emotions that a woman needs to feel that tells her that
she loves you again. Keying in on her emotional hot
buttons is the key to how to get a girl back as quickly and
easily as possible.