With your relationship over you can't shake the feeling that your ex is the person you must be with. This is anxious and exciting territory, but if you're not careful you could make getting your ex back even worse. There is a lot of ways you can mess this up, but the good news is there are also a lot of ways you can do it right. Keep reading for how to get your ex back:
2. With your relationship over you can't
shake the feeling that your ex is the
person you must be with.
3. This is anxious and exciting
territory, but if you're not careful you
could make getting your ex back even
worse. There is a lot of ways you can
mess this up
4. but the good news is there are also a
lot of ways you can do it right. Keep
reading for how to get your ex back:
5. 1. Obsession is bad. This lands under
one of the things you need to avoid
doing. They will not be interested if
you come off to them as needy or
obsessive.
6. You may know it in your heart that you
and your ex belong together but your
ex may not see it the same way, not
yet.
7. Use this as an opportunity to show your
maturity and not annoy them with
obsession.
8. 2. Change in yourself. Remember the
breakup happened for a reason.
Figure out how you can change to
prevent it from happening again.
9. Make that change! You don't want to
end up where you are now at second
time because you were unable to
change what caused the breakup
within yourself.
10. If you want them back you need to also
change yourself at a deep level to
prevent it from happening again.
11. 3. Talk to your ex face to face. Your ex
needs to see and experience the
changes you make face-to-face. You
have to talk to them, which can be
intimidating after a bad breakup
12. but it must be done if you are to
demonstrate the changes you have
made. Communication with them
must be done clearly, kindly, and
honestly.
13. You cannot use impersonal ways of
communication. No Facebook, no text
messages, no phone tag or other tag
between mutual friends.
14. This is a small one-on-one get
together to show how you've changed.
You may have heard “I'll believe it
when I see it.” Well, this is your
chance.
15. They need to see how different you are
from the last time and show them that
you are ready for commitment.
16. 4. Show don't tell. The magic in
relationships is not something that
happens overnight, but is something
worked for and worked on.
17. If you can make a statement to them
somehow about how you feel it will go
a long way.
18. Send a gift to them at work, serenade
them, most of all, be original and be
creative.
19. 5. Pay attention to their needs. This can
take many forms but the most obvious
is that you and your ex may need to
have some space apart first.
20. One thing you definitely do not want to
do is give them the impression that
you're returning to the old
relationship.
21. When the time comes they need to do
that this is a fresh start and that this
time it will be different.
22. There is no hard formula to get your ex
back. What's important is that you are
improving and growing yourself and
that your ex can see that.
23. Stick to these tips and you'll be well on
your way to getting back your ex.
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