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How to Flirt With a Girl Over
Text – 3 Text Flirting Examples
and Techniques
By: Frankie Cola
Alright, let's recap a bit… if you've seen my other
presentations, you have learned by now that the 2 Basic
Principles of texting a girl, are 1. to Trigger her Emotions, and
2. to Get Her Out.
Triggering her emotions is required to at least get a
response… and once you've triggered enough of her
emotions, you've raised what's called her “buying
temperature” ...and THEN you successfully ask her to meet up
with you.
And with that, let's repeat our main PURPOSE of
texting: To get a girl OUT with you face-to-face, so
you can kiss her.
Now text flirting, is a way to handle the 1st Principle of
texting: Triggering her Emotions.
When you get into a flirty...playful... "horsing around"
mindset with a girl over text... and she follows along, then
you know IT'S ON.
The HUGE mistake guys make is to send too many
"formal" and "logical" let's get to know each other texts.
And it bores the girl to death!
It rarely leads to a date because it doesn't create the FUN
required to excite a girl's emotions.
The girl will not be motivated enough to go out with you,
because she won't expect a fun date.
If a girl can't see herself having fun with you in person...
chances are she will avoid going out with you, to avoid a
boring and awkward date that makes her cringe.
So don't wait for a specific moment to push the "fun"
button (even if there's risk involved). Instead, push the
"fun" button right from the start!
That's what text flirting is all about... jumping right into the
fun
Some Ways to Create the "FUN" in
Text Flirting
- Funny reference to your last encounter or
last conversation (callback humor)
- Funny anecdote about your day
- Joint compliment
Funny Reference (Callback humor)
When you get a girl's number, sometimes you get
stuck with what to say in your first text (and you don't
want to just sending a lame, boring text)
When that happens to me, I find that the easiest way
to come up with “text ammunition” to spark her
emotions, is to reference something funny me and
the girl talked about or connected on before. So go
back and think of something she laughed at... and
reference it again in a funny way.
If she laughs or reacts positively, you have
successfully sparked her emotions.
Funny Anecdote
If you think about your day, you can always pull out
something funny or interesting if you look at it in the
right way.
For example, if you just had a cup of coffee, you can
take that experience and add an "edge" to it.
Instead of just saying "I just had coffee"
say, "Just had a cup of coffee that must have
been brewed by the hand of GOD... delicious!"
(credit Rob Judge)
Joint Compliment
When most guys compliment a woman, they either go
way over the top and creep her out... or they put her
on a pedestal and give all their power away.
You don't want your compliment to lie in any of those
extremes, therefore, here's the "TRICK" to giving out
compliments: Make it a JOINT compliment.
This means compliment HER, while complimenting
yourself at the same time.
Here are some examples...
Example of a Joint Compliment
One way to make at a “joint compliment” is that you
make a cocky statement about yourself while giving
her a compliment.
For example:
"We must spawn Zoolander children. Keep your
day planner open for tomorrow"
This text (credit Rob Judge) is a perfect example of a
text that is both cocky, and compliments her. You are
implying that both you and her are good looking, plus
suggesting sex in a cocky way. (Note: you aren't
being explicit or graphic either, you are hinting
about sex in a cute or “cheeky” but confident way)
(More on joint compliments and expressing interest to
a girl over text in this other slideshare presentation)
To Summarize...
● The 2 basic principles of texting a girl are to 1. Trigger
her emotions to catch her attention and 2. To always
keep in mind your purpose of getting her out face-to-
face with you.
● Flirting is just part of principle #1 - to trigger her
emotions, and catch her attention
● Flirting is something you can do naturally, but if you
don't do it a lot, you can get stuck and it might feel
awkward... which is why it's handy to have a few
techniques here and there to get you jumpstarted.
● In this presentation, I provided 3 of these flirting
techniques. 1. Funny reference 2. Funny anecdote
about your day 3. Joint compliment
If you want my 3 magic flirty texts that get a girl
responding to you even if she hasn't texted you
back in MONTHS, then you need to read my
girl doesn't text back cheat sheet report.
Specifically, the texts on page 4 of the report are
very effective in getting a girl to text you back.
To get the free PDF report, Click HERE
3 Types of Hook Texts That Get Her to
Text Back

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How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text - 3 Text Flirting Examples and Techniques

  • 1. How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text – 3 Text Flirting Examples and Techniques By: Frankie Cola
  • 2. Alright, let's recap a bit… if you've seen my other presentations, you have learned by now that the 2 Basic Principles of texting a girl, are 1. to Trigger her Emotions, and 2. to Get Her Out. Triggering her emotions is required to at least get a response… and once you've triggered enough of her emotions, you've raised what's called her “buying temperature” ...and THEN you successfully ask her to meet up with you.
  • 3. And with that, let's repeat our main PURPOSE of texting: To get a girl OUT with you face-to-face, so you can kiss her.
  • 4. Now text flirting, is a way to handle the 1st Principle of texting: Triggering her Emotions. When you get into a flirty...playful... "horsing around" mindset with a girl over text... and she follows along, then you know IT'S ON.
  • 5. The HUGE mistake guys make is to send too many "formal" and "logical" let's get to know each other texts. And it bores the girl to death! It rarely leads to a date because it doesn't create the FUN required to excite a girl's emotions. The girl will not be motivated enough to go out with you, because she won't expect a fun date.
  • 6. If a girl can't see herself having fun with you in person... chances are she will avoid going out with you, to avoid a boring and awkward date that makes her cringe.
  • 7. So don't wait for a specific moment to push the "fun" button (even if there's risk involved). Instead, push the "fun" button right from the start! That's what text flirting is all about... jumping right into the fun
  • 8. Some Ways to Create the "FUN" in Text Flirting - Funny reference to your last encounter or last conversation (callback humor) - Funny anecdote about your day - Joint compliment
  • 9. Funny Reference (Callback humor) When you get a girl's number, sometimes you get stuck with what to say in your first text (and you don't want to just sending a lame, boring text) When that happens to me, I find that the easiest way to come up with “text ammunition” to spark her emotions, is to reference something funny me and the girl talked about or connected on before. So go back and think of something she laughed at... and reference it again in a funny way. If she laughs or reacts positively, you have successfully sparked her emotions.
  • 10. Funny Anecdote If you think about your day, you can always pull out something funny or interesting if you look at it in the right way. For example, if you just had a cup of coffee, you can take that experience and add an "edge" to it. Instead of just saying "I just had coffee" say, "Just had a cup of coffee that must have been brewed by the hand of GOD... delicious!" (credit Rob Judge)
  • 11. Joint Compliment When most guys compliment a woman, they either go way over the top and creep her out... or they put her on a pedestal and give all their power away. You don't want your compliment to lie in any of those extremes, therefore, here's the "TRICK" to giving out compliments: Make it a JOINT compliment. This means compliment HER, while complimenting yourself at the same time. Here are some examples...
  • 12. Example of a Joint Compliment One way to make at a “joint compliment” is that you make a cocky statement about yourself while giving her a compliment. For example: "We must spawn Zoolander children. Keep your day planner open for tomorrow" This text (credit Rob Judge) is a perfect example of a text that is both cocky, and compliments her. You are implying that both you and her are good looking, plus suggesting sex in a cocky way. (Note: you aren't being explicit or graphic either, you are hinting about sex in a cute or “cheeky” but confident way)
  • 13. (More on joint compliments and expressing interest to a girl over text in this other slideshare presentation)
  • 14. To Summarize... ● The 2 basic principles of texting a girl are to 1. Trigger her emotions to catch her attention and 2. To always keep in mind your purpose of getting her out face-to- face with you. ● Flirting is just part of principle #1 - to trigger her emotions, and catch her attention ● Flirting is something you can do naturally, but if you don't do it a lot, you can get stuck and it might feel awkward... which is why it's handy to have a few techniques here and there to get you jumpstarted. ● In this presentation, I provided 3 of these flirting techniques. 1. Funny reference 2. Funny anecdote about your day 3. Joint compliment
  • 15. If you want my 3 magic flirty texts that get a girl responding to you even if she hasn't texted you back in MONTHS, then you need to read my girl doesn't text back cheat sheet report. Specifically, the texts on page 4 of the report are very effective in getting a girl to text you back. To get the free PDF report, Click HERE 3 Types of Hook Texts That Get Her to Text Back