What emotions determine what we say and do? Love or fear. These two opposites help create our reality and our experience. Many times, our thoughts and behavior is controlled by fear. We fear failure so we don’t take risks, we fear attachment so we don’t let love in. Many of Leslie Jo Saul's clients have forgotten the ability to get past fear and act from a place of love. They’ve forgotten that it’s always a choice. Some have even forgotten what love is.

1. Love
vs.
Fear:
Your
Choice
By
Leslie
Jo
Saul
November
3,
2013
What
emotions
determine
what
we
say
and
do?
Love
or
fear.
These
two
opposites
help
create
our
reality
and
our
experience.
Many
times,
our
thoughts
and
behavior
is
controlled
by
fear.
We
fear
failure
so
we
don’t
take
risks,
we
fear
attachment
so
we
don’t
let
love
in.
Many
of
my
clients
have
forgotten
the
ability
to
get
past
fear
and
act
from
a
place
of
love.
They’ve
forgotten
that
it’s
always
a
choice.
Some
have
even
forgotten
what
love
is.
People
say,
“I’m
looking
for
love.”
“I
want
to
find
love.”
But
the
truth
is
love
isn’t
to
be
found,
it
is
to
be
shared.
The
truth
is
you
are
love
and
love
is
you.
Fear
is
the
opposite
of
love
in
just
about
every
way.
While
love
is
unselfish,
fear
is
selfish.
The
more
we
let
fear
limit
our
experience,
the
more
it
cuts
us
off
until
we
are
alienated
and
miserable.
The
more
we
are
alienated
and
miserable,
the
more
we
let
fear
take
control.
This
vicious
cycle
won’t
stop
until
we
decide
enough
is
enough.
Recently,
a
client
of
mine
realized
he
was
trapped
in
this
cycle,
and
he
wanted
very
badly
to
break
out
of
it
but
didn’t
know
how.
I
reminded
him
that
love
is
only
given
when
it
is
all
you.
You
must
feel
you
need
to
share
your
love
with
someone
or
something,
and
there’s
just
no
other
way.
To
get
past
this
client’s
fear,
we
needed
to
find
the
root
of
it.
I
let
him
know
he
was
in
a
safe
place
to
explore
this
fear
and
learn
how
to
change
his
reality.
We
found
that
the
source
of
his
fear
really
wasn’t
as
big
and
scary
as
he
believed
it
to
be,
and
once
he
was
able
to
relax,
we
seized
the
moment
and
filled
his
mind
with
love.
He
thought
about
all
the
people
that
made
him
feel
protected
and
safe,
and
let
it
fill
him
until
there
was
no
room
for
fear.
In
this
environment,
he
was
able
to
see
his
potential
to
live
in
love
and
trust,
to
break
the
vicious
cycle
of
fear
and
anxiety.
It
turns
out
it
really
is
true
that
all
you
need
is
LOVE.