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CHEATING SPOUSES
           The Truth About Investigating Infidelity


At PInow, we surveyed our network of trusted infidelity
 investigators to find out what (in their experience) are
  some common indications of infidelity in a relationship.
PART 1:
        The Top 5




According to Investigators
1 Changes in Intimacy
            Private investigators in
            our study listed either an
            increase or decrease in
            intimacy and affection as
            the most common sign
            of a cheating spouse.
2 Suspicious Phone Habits
     “A common denominator is the
     cell phone. Spouses hiding their
     cell phones do so for a reason.”
                        	 Larry	 Polte	 
                                      	 
                         PPS Investigations
3 Changes in Appearance...
      “Although each case is very
     unique, the clearest indicator
     that we have found has been a
        change in appearance.”
                 DK	 Holzworth,	 CFS
               Investigative Information Brokers
... or Bathing Habits
      “They either start dressing
         differently, are more
     concerned about appearance
        or change their style of
      intimate wear. This, along
       with a change in physical
     appearance and hygiene, are
           good indicators.”
                    Quentin	 Estey
                       Estey Associates
4 Suspicious Internet Use
    “Staying up late to
  work on the computer
     is a big indicator.
    Excessive Internet
   usage– especially late
  at night– is a red flag.”
         Jodi	 LaBorde
         Nola Detective Agency
5 Changes in Work Routine
      Many investigators agree that
        changes in work routine
      including a new job, recent
      layoff, or a sudden need to
       work late regularly can be
         indicators of infidelity.
PART 2:
            Infidelity by the Numbers

When someone suspects infidelity in a relationship it
can be difficult to determine whether or not those
  suspicions are valid– and if so, what to do next
Married People Who Cheat:

                45%Wife   Anywhere between
Husband 55%
                          30%-60%
                          of married people cheat
   Breakdown of which
  spouse cheated when        Statistics vary due to an
                             unwillingness to admit
    infidelity occurred        infidelity in studies
Is Your Intuition Correct?
Wives who suspect their
husbands of cheating are correct
 85% of the time


                                   Husbands who suspect their
                                    wives of cheating are correct only
                                     50% of the time
Who Would Cheat?



Of Husbands                Of Wives



         Say that they would cheat if they
         knew they wouldn’t get caught.
PART 3:
              Investigating infidelity

When someone has decided to solicit the services of a
professional investigator, it’s hard to know what to
expect. Here are some facts & Figures that might help
Average Cost




  Is the average cost of investigating an infidelity case.
Prices were listed as low as $500 and as high as $5,500
Length of Investigation



            Hours               Months
Our survey revealed that an infidelity investigation can
last anywhere from just a few hours to over 6 months
Success Rates?

     Over


   62% of the investigators we surveyed say
that infidelity is confirmed in over 75% of cases
Sources:
Statistics not derived directly from PInow’s
in-house survey of investigators come from:

              American Association for
             Marriage and Family Therapy

                  Indiana University

                   BusinessWeek

                 The New York Times

               The Wall Street Journal
For More Information



For questions or comments regarding our infidelity survey or
 to find a pre-screened & qualified investigator in your area
              Visit us at PInow.com

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Signs of a Cheating Spouse

  • 1. CHEATING SPOUSES The Truth About Investigating Infidelity At PInow, we surveyed our network of trusted infidelity investigators to find out what (in their experience) are some common indications of infidelity in a relationship.
  • 2. PART 1: The Top 5 According to Investigators
  • 3. 1 Changes in Intimacy Private investigators in our study listed either an increase or decrease in intimacy and affection as the most common sign of a cheating spouse.
  • 4. 2 Suspicious Phone Habits “A common denominator is the cell phone. Spouses hiding their cell phones do so for a reason.” Larry Polte PPS Investigations
  • 5. 3 Changes in Appearance... “Although each case is very unique, the clearest indicator that we have found has been a change in appearance.” DK Holzworth, CFS Investigative Information Brokers
  • 6. ... or Bathing Habits “They either start dressing differently, are more concerned about appearance or change their style of intimate wear. This, along with a change in physical appearance and hygiene, are good indicators.” Quentin Estey Estey Associates
  • 7. 4 Suspicious Internet Use “Staying up late to work on the computer is a big indicator. Excessive Internet usage– especially late at night– is a red flag.” Jodi LaBorde Nola Detective Agency
  • 8. 5 Changes in Work Routine Many investigators agree that changes in work routine including a new job, recent layoff, or a sudden need to work late regularly can be indicators of infidelity.
  • 9. PART 2: Infidelity by the Numbers When someone suspects infidelity in a relationship it can be difficult to determine whether or not those suspicions are valid– and if so, what to do next
  • 10. Married People Who Cheat: 45%Wife Anywhere between Husband 55% 30%-60% of married people cheat Breakdown of which spouse cheated when Statistics vary due to an unwillingness to admit infidelity occurred infidelity in studies
  • 11. Is Your Intuition Correct? Wives who suspect their husbands of cheating are correct 85% of the time Husbands who suspect their wives of cheating are correct only 50% of the time
  • 12. Who Would Cheat? Of Husbands Of Wives Say that they would cheat if they knew they wouldn’t get caught.
  • 13. PART 3: Investigating infidelity When someone has decided to solicit the services of a professional investigator, it’s hard to know what to expect. Here are some facts & Figures that might help
  • 14. Average Cost Is the average cost of investigating an infidelity case. Prices were listed as low as $500 and as high as $5,500
  • 15. Length of Investigation Hours Months Our survey revealed that an infidelity investigation can last anywhere from just a few hours to over 6 months
  • 16. Success Rates? Over 62% of the investigators we surveyed say that infidelity is confirmed in over 75% of cases
  • 17. Sources: Statistics not derived directly from PInow’s in-house survey of investigators come from: American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Indiana University BusinessWeek The New York Times The Wall Street Journal
  • 18. For More Information For questions or comments regarding our infidelity survey or to find a pre-screened & qualified investigator in your area Visit us at PInow.com