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Love First Presenters: Jeff Jay and Debra Jay Intervention
www.lovefirst.net Intervention
Interventionworkshop.com
In the beginning... Two women brought two alcoholics together. Alcoholics Anonymous was born.
“ The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so called will power becomes practically nonexistent. We are unable... to bring into our consciousness with sufficient force the memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a week or a month ago.” Big Book  pp 23 Intervention
Normal 3-D Brain  SPECT Images Top-  down surface  view Front-on surface view Side surface  view Underside surface  view Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
Alcohol – 17 years of heavy weekend use Top- down  surface  view Underside  surface view Front-on surface  view Side  surface  view Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
Healthy Brain Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
Twenty-two years of daily drinking. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
Cocaine   Methamphetamine Twenty-four year old.  Using two years frequently. Twenty-eight year old.  Eight year heavy use. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
Marijuana   Opiates Eighteen year old. Using 3 years. Four times week. Forty year old.  Methadone 7 years. Previously, heroin 10 years. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
Before & After Recovery Top down surface view during substance abuse. Same view after one year alcohol and drug free. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
The brain  confabulates . It associates diverse sensations, defies contradictions, and creates coherence. It even seeks explanations for its own unfathomable behavior. -Dr. Gerald M. Edelman Author, “Wider Than the Sky” Intervention
Thinking Brain Emotional  Brain Spiritual Brain
We are not cured of alcoholism. What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. Bill Wilson Intervention
Inebriety As a Disease Scientific American Published 1877 “ Science draws a broad distinction between drunkenness as a vice and drunkenness as a disease.”
Building a Language for Understanding Intervention as communication Intervention the first order of business isn’t talking to alcoholics. The power is in the hands of the families, friends and co-workers.
Language shapes the way we think, and determines what we can think about. Benjamin Lee Whorf Intervention American Linguist
The Three Most Damaging Myths Thinking about our words Intervention
You can’t help an alcoholic ,[object Object],Intervention
If you can’t help an alcoholic until he wants help, what will get him to want help? Intervention A question that changes everything.
“ I hadn’t a clue what an intervention was when I became the focus of one a quarter century ago. The first one didn’t take. I was angry with both my daughter, Susan, and Dr. Joe Cruse, who dared to trespass into my home and suggest I had a problem. I rose up on my high horse and threw them out. I try not to think about it too often, as I feel ashamed and embarrassed when I do.  “ But the second intervention had a different ending....Surrounded by the family who loved me...this intervention saved my life.” -Betty Ford Healing and Hope
Always look for ways to outmaneuver the disease. Spiritual negotiation Intervention
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It’s not how you get into treatment that counts, it’s what happens once you’re there. Intervention
Hazelden Survey Intervention
Statistics Intervention
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Talk about crisis as intervention. Intervention Crisis comes with a choice.
Children’s Brains
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“ The science shows that childhood maltreatment may produce changes in both brain function and structure. These changes are permanent. This is not something people can just get over.” -Dr. Martin H. Teicher McClean Hospital
Among neglected children, the  cortex–the thinking part of the  brain–is 20 percent smaller on  average than in a control group. -Children’s Hospital & Baylor College of Medicine
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Family is our springboard...
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Taking Action: Practical Steps Intervention Building blocks to intervention
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Addiction can no longer trump the welfare of the family. These are the ways I will take care of myself. Intervention Twelve steps for families.
“ Sarah,  We are all committed to you and your health. Each of us would like to share with you the decisions we’ve made. We will not do anything to help you stay sick, but we will do all we can to help you get well. The addiction hurts us, too, so until you get into recovery we must take care of ourselves, and we want to tell you how we plan to do this....” Intervention We love you too much.
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Intervention by Jeff and Debra Jay - September 27, 2011

  • 1. Love First Presenters: Jeff Jay and Debra Jay Intervention
  • 4. In the beginning... Two women brought two alcoholics together. Alcoholics Anonymous was born.
  • 5. “ The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so called will power becomes practically nonexistent. We are unable... to bring into our consciousness with sufficient force the memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a week or a month ago.” Big Book pp 23 Intervention
  • 6. Normal 3-D Brain SPECT Images Top- down surface view Front-on surface view Side surface view Underside surface view Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
  • 7. Alcohol – 17 years of heavy weekend use Top- down surface view Underside surface view Front-on surface view Side surface view Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
  • 8. Healthy Brain Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
  • 9. Twenty-two years of daily drinking. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
  • 10. Cocaine Methamphetamine Twenty-four year old. Using two years frequently. Twenty-eight year old. Eight year heavy use. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
  • 11. Marijuana Opiates Eighteen year old. Using 3 years. Four times week. Forty year old. Methadone 7 years. Previously, heroin 10 years. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
  • 12. Before & After Recovery Top down surface view during substance abuse. Same view after one year alcohol and drug free. Photos: Dr. Daniel Amen Intervention
  • 13. The brain confabulates . It associates diverse sensations, defies contradictions, and creates coherence. It even seeks explanations for its own unfathomable behavior. -Dr. Gerald M. Edelman Author, “Wider Than the Sky” Intervention
  • 14. Thinking Brain Emotional Brain Spiritual Brain
  • 15. We are not cured of alcoholism. What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. Bill Wilson Intervention
  • 16. Inebriety As a Disease Scientific American Published 1877 “ Science draws a broad distinction between drunkenness as a vice and drunkenness as a disease.”
  • 17. Building a Language for Understanding Intervention as communication Intervention the first order of business isn’t talking to alcoholics. The power is in the hands of the families, friends and co-workers.
  • 18. Language shapes the way we think, and determines what we can think about. Benjamin Lee Whorf Intervention American Linguist
  • 19. The Three Most Damaging Myths Thinking about our words Intervention
  • 20.
  • 21. If you can’t help an alcoholic until he wants help, what will get him to want help? Intervention A question that changes everything.
  • 22. “ I hadn’t a clue what an intervention was when I became the focus of one a quarter century ago. The first one didn’t take. I was angry with both my daughter, Susan, and Dr. Joe Cruse, who dared to trespass into my home and suggest I had a problem. I rose up on my high horse and threw them out. I try not to think about it too often, as I feel ashamed and embarrassed when I do. “ But the second intervention had a different ending....Surrounded by the family who loved me...this intervention saved my life.” -Betty Ford Healing and Hope
  • 23. Always look for ways to outmaneuver the disease. Spiritual negotiation Intervention
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  • 25. It’s not how you get into treatment that counts, it’s what happens once you’re there. Intervention
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  • 29. Talk about crisis as intervention. Intervention Crisis comes with a choice.
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  • 32. “ The science shows that childhood maltreatment may produce changes in both brain function and structure. These changes are permanent. This is not something people can just get over.” -Dr. Martin H. Teicher McClean Hospital
  • 33. Among neglected children, the cortex–the thinking part of the brain–is 20 percent smaller on average than in a control group. -Children’s Hospital & Baylor College of Medicine
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  • 36. Family is our springboard...
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  • 38. Taking Action: Practical Steps Intervention Building blocks to intervention
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  • 59. Addiction can no longer trump the welfare of the family. These are the ways I will take care of myself. Intervention Twelve steps for families.
  • 60. “ Sarah, We are all committed to you and your health. Each of us would like to share with you the decisions we’ve made. We will not do anything to help you stay sick, but we will do all we can to help you get well. The addiction hurts us, too, so until you get into recovery we must take care of ourselves, and we want to tell you how we plan to do this....” Intervention We love you too much.
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Editor's Notes

  1. Ann Smith, Mayflower Hotel, Bill at an AA meeting
  2. Not so obscure anymore...science
  3. Brain disease Spiritual, ultimately Brain needs the soul, soul needs the brain
  4. Reduce the amount of brain tissue - less active, more shriveled Increase the size of the ventricles Johns Hopkins Study
  5. Science learning what AA has always known AA–get your brain back in 5 years
  6. Give fictitious accounts of past events, believing they are true, in order to fill a gap in memory
  7. Cerebrum–advanced functions such as reasoning & emotion
  8. The language of intervention changes the way families think We must promote a language of recovery that promotes action Difficulty - counter-intuitive
  9. Our thoughts are influenced by the language we have available If our language tells us there is nothing we can do...
  10. Seems to ring the bell of truth until we carefully listen to what we are saying
  11. How do we get past the disease & reach the person trapped by addiction? Learn spiritual negotiation: Read p. 175 and 176 (bottom) NMLG Negotiation styles: Ambassador p. 179
  12. Demonstrates a misunderstanding of the dynamics of addiction Denial continues to resurface Truth: It takes time in treatment to learn to want it–clear the brain
  13. When people say their loved one went to treatment, ask what they mean by treatment When people say they did an intervention, ask them what they did
  14. How to think about statistics for success
  15. Giving the disease precedence over the welfare of the family Truth: Create a turning point Tough cases: Leverage crisis–instruct families on how this is done
  16. Families knee-jerk reaction vs. offering only one solution: treatment
  17. Keep families working as a team–no individual decisions Spiritual correctness–manageability We are all accountable
  18. Bottom lines focus on the family Returning to our integrity