4. 13 years old
Dolly Parton married Carl Dean, May 1966
5.
6. It’s Sure Gonna Hurt (1962)
written by Dolly Parton and
Bill Owens (her uncle) It may not kill me, but it's sure gonna hurt
Since my baby left me, I don't know what to do
Just couldn't believe my eyes,
when I saw him with you
He left me for you, oh he's treating me like dirt
It may not kill me, but it's sure gonna hurt
Chorus:
It's sure gonna hurt to lose you
My poor heart's in pain
Don't see how you could abuse me
It's driving me insane
Oh you're both out paintin' the town red,
well I'm paintin' it too
But I'm not paintin' the town red, I'm paintin' it blue
It hurts to lose everything to such a little flirt
It may not kill me, but it's sure gonna hurt
7. Don't try to cry your way out of this Dumb Blonde (1967)
Don't try to lie or I'll catch you in it
Don't try to make me feel sorry for you
Just because I'm blonde
Don't think I'm dumb
Cause this dumb blonde ain't nobody's fool
When you left you thought I'd sit
An' you thought I'd wait
An' you thought I'd cry
You called me a dumb blonde
Ah, but somehow I lived through it
And you know if there's one thing
this blonde has learned
Blondes have more fun
You flew too high up off the ground
It's stormy wheater an' had to come back down
But I've found new thread for my old spool
Just because I'm blonde
Don't think I'm dumb
Cause this dumb blonde ain't nobody's fool
9. I can see you're disappointed
By the way you look at me
And I'm sorry that I'm not
The woman you thought I'd be
Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman
So when you look at me
Don't feel sorry for yourself
Just think of all the shame
1968 You might have brought somebody else
Just let me tell you this
Then we'll both know where we stand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman
10. Now a man will take a good girl
And he'll ruin her reputation
But when he wants to marry
Well, that's a different situation
He'll just walk off and leave her
To do the best she can
While he looks for an angel
To wear his wedding band
Now I know that I'm no angel
If that's what you thought you'd found
I was just the victum of
A man that let me down
Yes, I've made my mistakes
But listen and understand
My mistakes are no worse than yours
Just because I'm a woman
11. Back through the years
I go wanderin' once again
Back to the seasons of my youth
I recall a box of rags that someone gave us
And how my momma put the rags to use
There were rags of many colors
Every piece was small
And I didn't have a coat
And it was way down in the fall
Momma sewed the rags together
Sewing' every piece with love
She made my coat of many colors
That I was so proud of
1971 As she sewed, she told a story
From the bible, she had read
About a coat of many colors
Joseph wore and then she said
Perhaps this coat will bring you
Good luck and happiness
And I just couldn't wait to wear it
And momma blessed it with a kiss
12. And oh I couldn't understand it
My coat of many colors
For I felt I was rich
That my momma made for me
And I told them of the love
Made only from rags
My momma sewed in every stitch
But I wore it so proudly
And I told 'em all the story
Although we had no money
Momma told me while she sewed
I was rich as I could be
And how my coat of many colors
In my coat of many colors
Was worth more than all their clothes
My momma made for me
But they didn't understand it
So with patches on my britches
And I tried to make them see
Holes in both my shoes
That one is only poor
In my coat of many colors
Only if they choose to be
I hurried off to school
Now I know we had no money
Just to find the others laughing
But I was rich as I could be
And making fun of me
In my coat of many colors
In my coat of many colors
My momma made for me
My momma made for me
Made just for me
13. If I should stay
I would only be in your way
So I'll go, but I know
I'll think of you each step of the way
And I will always love you
I will always love you
Bittersweet memories
That's all I am taking with me
Good-bye, please don't cry
We both know that I'm not what you need
I hope life will treat you kind
from the album, And I hope that you have all
“Jolene” (1974) That you ever dreamed of
And I wish you joy and happiness
But above all of this, I wish you love
And I will always love you
14. Here you come again
Just when I'm about to make it work without you
You look into my eyes
And light those dreamy eyes
And pretty soon I'm wonderin'
How I came to doubt you
All you gotta do
Is smile that smile
And there go all my defenses
Just leave it up to you
And in a little while
You're messin' up my mind
Here You Come Again An' fillin' up my senses
1977
Here you come again
Here you come again Lookin' better than a body
Just when I'm about to make it work Has a right to
without you An' shakin' me up so
You waltz right in the door That all I really know
Just like you done before Is here you come again
And wrap my heart 'round your little An' here I go
finger
15. To Know Him Is To Love Him
1987
To know know know him
Is to love love love him
Just to see him smile
Makes my life worthwhile
To know know know him
Is to love love love him
And I do
I'll be good to him
I'll bring love to him
Everyone says there'll come a day
When I'll walk alongside of him
Yes just to know him
Is to love love love him
And I do
Why can't he see
How blind can he be
Someday he will see
That he was meant for me
16. As I sit here tonight the jukebox playing
A tune about the wild side of life
As I listen to the words you are saying
It brings mem'ries when I was a trusting wife
It wasn't God who made honky tonk angels
As you said in the words of your song
1993
Too many times married men think they're still single
That has caused many a good girl to go wrong
It's a shame that all the blame is on us women
It's not true that only you men feel the same
From the start most every heart that's ever broken
Was because there always was a man to blame
17. Well I met a boy from Grassy Branch
Fine as he can be
I met him at the big barn dance
And he took a shine to me
Sky-blue eyes, a big wide smile
And tall as a sycamore tree
He's real smart with a real big heart
And he's gonna marry me
He's gonna marry me
And we're gonna go to town
2001
We're gonna buy some real good car
And we're gonna drive around
We'll hold hands an' touch 'n' hug
He talks so sweet to me
Cause he knows a lot about love and stuff
And he's gonna marry me
18. His momma don't like me one little bit
But you know I don't care
Let her pitch her hissy-fit
Cause I ain't a'marryin' her
He's always been a momma's boy
It's just plain jealousy
She's as mad as an old wet hen
Cause he's gonna marry me
Oh, an' he's gonna marry me
An' he's gonna buy me a ring
We're gonna be so free
Cut momma's apron strings
He's gonna build me a pretty little house
Have a pretty little bed-for-three
Cause he done kiss me on the mouth
An' he's gonna marry me
23. Now we don't know what heaven looks like
But we've seen enough hell right here and right now
But when the road is the roughest
And the problems are the toughest
Or when the times are the hardest
And that ol' sky turns the darkest
You gotta keep the faith 'cause I believe there's a better day
And those ol' blues, why they're gonna just roll right on away
I know they are, listen to me...
All that's blue ain't sky and sea
Some of that blue's bound to get on me
But the blues don't come to stay
They'll move away on a better day
Troubles and woes and misery
Ain't gonna get the best of me
Lift the shades, fix my gaze
On a better day clear away
24. Better days just up ahead
When sorrow ain't sleepin' in my bed
When people ain't messin' with my head
There's a better way, there's a brighter day
Oh, there's a better day with clearer skies
Hope and promise on the rise
Oh, the future, well, it's lookin' bright, on a better day
Look away, look away
There's a better day
Oh better day just up ahead
When sorrow ain't sleepin' in my bed
And people ain't messin' with my head
There's a better day, there's a better day
Oh, all that's blue, it ain't sky and sea
Some of that blue's gonna fall on me
Oh, the future's lookin' bright
There's a better day, look away, look away
26. Faith on Tap
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Editor's Notes
Dolly was #4 of 12 childrenRobert andAvie Lee PartonFather was a tobacco farmerDolly said they were “dirt poor”Sevierville and later TN home in the Smoky Mtns of east TN
album photo (1973) – house where they lived late 40s-early 50s in Locust Ridge, TNGrandfather was a Pentecostal preacher1951 – wrote first song “Little Tiny Tassle Top”1953 – made a guitar from old mandolin9 yrs. oldbegan performing as a regular singer on Knoxville radio WIVK, WBIR
Dolly’s uncle, Henry Owens stationed at a military base in Lake Charles, LAHenry’s friend, Eddie Shuler, owned Goldband Recordsage 13Henry invited Dolly to come to LA took a bus from TN to LA made her first record, “Puppy Love,” written by Dolly and another uncle, Billappeared on the Grand Ole Opry-met Johnny Cash “go where your heart takes you don’t worry about what others think”-introduced by JC, she performed his song You Gotta Be My Baby 3 encores1964graduated from high school, moved to BNAmet Carl Dean on her first day in BNA at the Wishy Washy Laundromat“I met him the day I got to BNA in 1964, I wasn’t a star then, so I’ve never had to worry that he loves me because I’m a star and I’ve got money. I know he loves me for me”Carl has always shunned the spotlightDolly and Carl married in 1966Dolly says respect for her husband's character is the reason Carl lives his life out of the spotlight. "Early on in my career, I'd won [Song of the Year] in 1966, and I asked him to go with me. ... He was so uncomfortable," she says. "He said: 'Now I want you to do everything you want to do. I want you to enjoy every minute of your life. But don't you ever ask me to go to another one of these things. Because I am not going.'" Dolly says she never asked him to make another public appearance. "He's proud of me. He's just basically shy about things like that. He doesn't like crowds," she says. "And I respect his privacy. I respect the fact that he loves to be out of the limelight. That's one of the reasons I think we've lasted so long.“Carl runs an asphalt road surface paving business in BNADP says he’s only seen her perform onceThey have no childrenpartly raised some of DP’s younger siblingsDP is godmother of Miley CyrusOn May 30, 2011, they celebrated their 45th anniversary. Later, she said, "We're really proud of our marriage. It's the first for both of us. And the last."
Initial success was in songwriting-Bill Phillips, Put It Off Until Tomorrow-Skeeter Davis, Fuel To The Flame-Hank Williams, Jr, I’m In No Condition
Mercury Recordsfirst single on a major labeldid not reach hit chartsParton and Owens were dropped by Mercury
one of the few songs she recorded early that she didn’t write-written by Curly Putman1, 2, 3 -- 2, 3reached #24 on Country Chart
1967, Porter Wagonerafter featuring DP, offered her a regular spot on weekly showPW got RCA to sign DPFirst single was a duet with PW-”The Last Thing On My Mind” (1967)reached top 10six year streak of top-ten singles for PW and DP
“signature” song#4 1971 – Country Singlescomposed in 1969 while on tour with PWwrote in on the back of a dry cleaning receipt from PW suitObv. connection to Josephexcited to wear it, sad to be made fun ofMoral of the story: only poor as you choose to bethe coat is on display at the Chasing Rainbows Museum, Dollywood
I Will Always … (1974)about her professional break with PW#1 on Country charts the song "speaks about the breakup of a relationship between a man and a woman that does not descend into unremitting domestic turmoil, but instead envisions parting with respect -- because of the initiative of the womanBusiness sense…Elvis wanted to cover the songDP was interested but Col. Tom Parker suggested it was standard procedure for the songwriter to sign over 50% of publishing rights to any song EP recorded. DP walked away from the deal, a decision that preserved many millions in royalties from the song over the years. Hearing a lot lately following the death of Whitney Houston, who recorded and had another huge hit with the songOn February 11, 2012, after the sudden death of Whitney Houston, Dolly Parton stated, "Mine is only one of the millions of hearts broken over the death of Whitney Houston. I will always be grateful and in awe of the wonderful performance she did on my song, and I can truly say from the bottom of my heart, “Whitney, I will always love you. You will be missed.
1976-1986 – branching into pop musicI can vouch for this, in 1977 we started listening (Jolene, esp.)8 singles reached #1TV show, Dolly!featured some of her siblings who went on to have recording contractsHere You Come Again, 19771st million –selleron Country and Pop charts80s were also a time for another popular run of duet hits, this time with Kenny Rogers
80s – return to County rootsTrio album with L Ronstadt and EmmyLou HarrisTo Know …by Phil SpectorTrio won Grammy for Best Country Duo or Groupnominated for Album of the Year
Originally recorded by Kitty Wells, 1952response to “The Wild Side of Life” bu Hank ThompsonIn "The Wild Side of Life," Thompson expresses regret that his bride-to-be has left him for another man whom she met in a roadhouse, stating "I didn't know that God made honky tonk angels." That song and its appeal to people who "thought the world was going to hell and that faithless women deserved a good deal of the blame ... just begged for an answer from a woman," wWells’ release began the story — which blamed unfaithful men and women for creating unfaithful women[1] — became the first No. 1Billboard country hit for a solo female artist. In addition to helping establish Wells as country music's first major female star, "It Wasn't God ..." paved the way for other female artists, particularly Dolly Parton, Patsy Cline, Loretta Lynn and Tammy Wynette,[1]and songs where women defied the typical stereotype of being submissive to men and putting up with their oft-infidel ways.
36th studio albumbluegrass, folk#12 Country chart, DP’s highes chart in almost 10 yearsDedicated to her fahteralso certidfied as silver albim in UK
Playboy, 1978interview only, no photos inside
Her literacy program, "Dolly Parton's Imagination Library",[58] a part of the Dollywood Foundation, mails one book per month to each enrolled child from the time of their birth until they enter kindergarten. It began in Sevier County but has now been replicated in 566 counties across 36 U.S. states (as well as in Canada).[59] In December 2007 it expanded to Europe with the South Yorkshire town of Rotherham, United Kingdom, being the first British locality to receive the books. The program distributes more than 2.5 million free books to children annually.Jobs and tax revenues to depressed region in E Tenn.American Red Cross, HIV/AIDS charitiespledged $500k plus benefit concert for hospital and cancer center in Sevierville
one of most honored female country performers ever25 gold, silver, platimum records26 #1 hits42 top 10 albums8 Grammy awardsGrammy Lifetime AchievementCMA Entertainer of the YearHollywood Walk of Fame starGrand Ole Opryindictionnasvhille songwriters hall of fameLibrary of Congress, Living Legend MedalNational Medal of Artsmost proud of statue on courthouse lawn in Sevierville, “because it came from the people that knew her” "If I see something sagging, bagging, and dragging, I'm going to nip it, suck it and tuck it. Why should I look like an old barn yard dog if I don't have to?" and "It takes a lot of money to look this cheap."Parton is a successful songwriter, having begun by writing country-music songs with strong elements of folk music, based upon her upbringing in humble mountain surroundings, and reflecting her family's evangelical-Christian background. Her songs "Coat of Many Colors", "I Will Always Love You" and "Jolene" have become classics in the field, as have a number of others. As a songwriter, she is also regarded as one of country music's most-gifted storytellers, with many of hernarrative songs based on persons and events from her childhood. On November 4, 2003, Dolly Parton was honored as a BMI Icon at the 2003 BMI Country Awards.[34]She has earned over 35 BMI Pop and Country Awards throughout her prolific songwriting career.[35] In 2001, she was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame.[36]In a 2009 interview with CNN's Larry King Live, Parton indicated that she had written "at least 3,000" songs, having written seriously since the age of seven. Parton went on to say that she writes something every day, be it a song or an idea