This is a short seminar outlines on 7 Qualities to Look for in a Partner. The basic notes are taken from City Harvest Sermon series

1. Introduction
Personality Character
Good Character

2. Character is the Foundation of any
healthy partnership

3. 7 Qualities To Look For :
 1. Committed to Personal Growth
 Committed to God’s Word & Life Style
 Willing to receive Help & Guidance
 Conscious of his blind spots and
emotional handicap
 Setting personal goals for real change

4. 7 Qualities To Look For :
 2. Emotional Openness

5. … based on sharing of feeling

6. …a form of punishment

7. Emotional openness is also
emotional generosity

8. 7 Qualities To Look For :
 3. Integrity

9. Integrity is the consistency of
your character

10. Emotional Stinginess

11. Honest with himself, others & YOU

12. 7 Qualities To Look For :
 4. Maturity & Responsibility
Outward Inward
Responsible
Responsibility isn’t a concept…It’s an Action

13. 7 Qualities To Look For :
 5. Healthy Self-Esteem

14. Healthy Self-Esteem
Knows who he is in Christ Takes good care of himself
Doesn’t allow others to abuse Takes action in his life

15. 7 Qualities To Look For :
 6. Positive Attitude

16. 7 Qualities To Look For :
 7. Personal Chemistry

17. Gradual attraction is
usually more genuine
because you are not
focusing on physical
looks
You are attracted to
the whole person

18. … Friends before they are became
romantically involved …

19. You can’t Create personal chemistry