2. There's a very small difference
between somebody who's really funny,
and somebody who has a well
practiced routine.

3. Like if you watch comedians a lot, they
speak like they're just jabbering away
off the top of their heads.

4. But if you meet them in person, you
might get a different idea.

5. I had a friend once who took his kid
see this famous TV comic perform at
local fair.

6. They watched him, and really enjoyed
his routine.

7. But then they went backstage to see
him, and he was TOTALLY different.
Withdrawn, closed off, smoking a
cigarette, and not very pleasant to talk
to.

8. Of course, not all comics are like this.

9. In fact, the most famous ones can
generally turn it on or off at a
moment's notice, but even then it's
not what it appears.

10. A lot of the great "improv" comics can
spin a funny story based on pretty
much anything.

11. So it seems like they're in the moment.

12. But in reality, they have TONS of small,
memorized bits based on pretty much
every topic.

13. Which means they only need to
connect anything anybody says to ONE
of these memorized bits, and then it's
off to the races.

14. To make their "game" even tighter,
they are ALWAYS coming up with new
material.

15. Meaning they'll see some woman with
a red hat in line at the grocery store,
then they'll come up with a funny
story associated with that particular
woman, real or not, and file it away for
further use.

16. Now, this sounds like a LOT of work,
and it is!

17. But remember, these are the guys that
are world famous, and make millions
of dollars a year.

18. Many, many people see game, as in
talking to girls, they same way.

19. They feel they need to have a whole
collection of memorized patterns and
topics, so they can always riff of
whatever she says.

20. This is kind of true, but not really.

21. Meaning this is the way humans are
hard wired to communicate anyway.

22. Meaning if you make it a habit of
talking to as many people as you can,
just to talk to them, you'll
automatically be collecting a lot of
stories based on a lot of different
situations.

23. And your genius brain will
AUTOMATICALLY start to bring those
stories to mind whenever you're
talking to people. Which, of course,
will create a self-fulfilling loop.

24. You talk to people, and they'll remind
of other people, and you'll then use
those old stories to mix in with that
current situation.

25. Your experience and anecdotes will
grow.

26. Your social comfort will grow.

27. Your ability to be "in the moment"
without fear or nervousness will grow.

28. All you've got to do is make a decision
to simply start being more social with
people.

29. Then when you're talking to that cute
girl, about whatever, you'll be the
most interesting person she's talked to
in a long, long time.

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