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3. None of them are true, but they are
things about ourselves are hope that
nobody finds out.
4. This is why a friendly conversation can
sometimes turn adversarial, when one
or both parties feels like the other
person is getting close to that "secret"
part of us.
5. This can sometimes come across as
feeling on some level that we are
"faking it" or that we are somehow an
imposter and people knew the truth
they'd kick us out.
6. This is one of the main reasons behind
self-sabotage.
7. Whenever you start becoming
successful, you start to feel like you're
"playing above your skill level."
8. Maybe you start making some money,
start losing weight, or start doing
social things you didn't do before.
9. But part of you is terrified of being
found out.
10. Of people looking at you and saying
something like, "What are YOU doing
here? You don't belong!"
11. This is common, no matter who you
are, or what you've accomplished.
12. Paradoxically, for many ultra-successful
people, the more successful they
become, the worse this fear gets.
13. It's as if they are always running away
from an invisible demon always right
behind them.
14. Of course, this is just a mental
construct. Everybody has a hard time
understanding themselves, let alone
being able to look into your soul with
x-ray vision.
15. Which is why when you accept others,
you will be like a super hero.
16. When you radiate an aura that says, "I
like you, and I accept you JUST the way
you are," people will be drawn to you
like bees to honey.
17. Of course, in order to first accept
others, you've got to completely
accept yourself.