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2. Many guys look at relationships the
wrong way.

3. So do many women.

4. A common belief is that there is
something "missing" and that once we
get into a relationship with the right
person, that missing piece will be
filled, and we'll be more complete.

5. That's sort of true, but not in the way
we think.

6. Part of that comes from our natural
tendency to mix metaphors.

7. We think in terms of creating like going
somewhere.

8. And what happens when you are going
somewhere?

9. There's the going part, and the arriving
part.

10. What happens after the arriving part?

11. We usually think of sitting around and
not doing much.

12. Even when we talk about becoming
"successful" in life (whatever THAT
means) we use terms like "I've
arrived!"

13. Meaning all the "work" is done, and
you just need to enjoy the fruits of
your labor.

14. Unfortunately (or fortunately,
depending on how you look at it) it
doesn't really work like that.

15. In reality, we never really "arrive"
anywhere.

16. We get to new levels, new situations,
expanded responsibilities and skills,
but we never get to a point were we
just get to kick back and enjoy life.

17. Even sports teams that win major
championships don't rest too long.

18. They know after a couple weeks, they
need to start getting in shape to
defend their title.

19. If you're in any kind of business, every
successful product launch is the start
of researching something even better.

20. A lot of problems guys have with girls
is that they can't find a girl who will fit
into their ideal model of their ideal
partner.

21. But here's the thing.

22. Humans are hard wired to see sexual
partners as wealth creating partners.

23. For the longest time in human history,
the main requirement to human
bonding was a shared responsibility in
finding and accumulating wealth,
whatever "wealth" meant at the time.

24. Which means if you are looking for a
partner, she's at least got to have an
understanding by what you mean by
"finding and accumulating wealth."

25. Now, this is a very vague term, and I
don't mean "money" when I say
"wealth."

26. I mean whatever it is you are creating
with your life. Whatever goals or
careers you've got lined up.

27. The happiest couples compliment and
support each other.

28. It's not a one way street.

29. This can only come naturally when
there are two things present.

30. One is there must be real attraction.

31. You can't just hand her your resume
and hope she's convinced by your
stats.

32. You've got to talk to her in a way that
gets her juices flowing.

33. Not just once, but consistently.

34. The second thing you must have is an
absolute faith in yourself that your
plan for your life is important and
worthy.

35. Sadly, most guys have neither of these.

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