1. 先喝杯茶，才 - - - - - Have a cup of tea, before you - - - - - -

3. 急事，慢慢的说 . Urgent matter, tell slowly.

4. 大事， 清楚的说。 Important matter, tell clearly.

5. 小事，幽默的说。 Small matter, tell humorously.

6. 没把握的事，谨慎的说。 Uncertain, tell cautiously.

7. 没发生的事，不要胡说。 What has not happened, don’t talk about it.

8. 做不到的事，别乱说。 Unable to accomplish, do not talk indiscreetly .

9. 伤害人的事，不能说。 If it hurts, do not tell.

10. 讨厌的事，对事不对人的说 。 Talking in an unpleasant situation, deal with the matter itself and not the person.

11. 开心的事，看埸合说 。 Talk about your pleasant experiences at the right place.

12. 伤心的事，不要见人就说 。 Do not tell everybody your sadness.

13. 别人的事，小心的说 。 Be cautious when talking about others.

14. 自己的事，听听自己的心怎么说 。 Listen to what the heart says about own problems.

15. 现在的事，做了再说 。 Talk about it after finishing the job doing now.

16. 未来的事，未来再说 。 What is going to take place in future, talk about it in future.

17. 如果有对我不满意的地方，请一定要对我说。 Please tell me if you are not happy with me.