This is a slide deck from my Spring 2021 section of The Art of Self-Coaching at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. Course materials are archived at https://www.edbatista.com/the-art-of-self-coaching-course.html.
5. āLesser lossesā
Not what you expected in Fall 2019 (or 2020)
This course isnāt a solution (but it can help)
āThis Quarter is what we make it.ā
~Matt Madden, Class of 2020
7. Help me improve
Youāve done more virtual classes than I have
Iām still learningāIāll need your feedback
If itās essential, feel free to interrupt me
If itās not, email me after class
8. Intro 25 mins
An exercise 20 mins
Coaching tools 10 mins
Partnership #1 20 mins
Logistics 5 mins
Outside of class 15 mins
Todayās agenda
Photo by Theresa Thompson [link]
23. Warm-up
Iāll randomly assign you to breakout rooms
Discuss: Why is this my spirit animal?
3 minutes total, 1:30 per person
Iāll announce when itās halfway
Look for a 1 min countdown
Then Iāll see you back here
41. Write down 3 statements about yourself
Write LARGE & legibly
This will be SHARED
You have 1 minute
Getting to know
you
I am ___________
I am ___________
I am ___________
42. I will send you back to your breakout rooms
Discuss your sheets, 2 minutes per person
Iāll announce when itās halfway (switch)
Watch for the 60-second countdown
Then Iāll see you back here
Instructions
44. Consider all the choices youāve been making
What did you write down? What did you say?
What did you think about writing down?
What did you think about saying?
Now reflect
46. Discuss your sheets, again
2 minutes per person, again
Push yourself to be a little more candid
One more time
47. Discuss your sheets, 2 minutes per person
Iāll announce when itās halfway (switch)
Watch for the 60-second countdown
Then Iāll see you back here
Instructions
59. Modes of inquiry
1. Humble inquiry
Open-ended
Avoid presumptive questions
Adapted from Edgar Schein [link]
60. Modes of inquiry
1. Humble inquiry
2. Diagnostic inquiry
Focus & redirect
Feelings, motives, actions
Adapted from Edgar Schein [link]
61. Modes of inquiry
1. Humble inquiry
2. Diagnostic inquiry
3. Confrontational inquiry
Challenge their narrative
Introduce new ideas & hypotheses
Adapted from Edgar Schein [link]
62. Modes of inquiry
1. Humble inquiry
2. Diagnostic inquiry
3. Confrontational inquiry
We tend to move too quickly
Critical to check our assumptions
Adapted from Edgar Schein [link]
81. 2 separate relationships
People youāll work with all Quarter
Iāve randomly assigned both partners
Waitlisted students will be paired with each other
Partners
82. Issues youāre working on
Both Professional & Personal
Distill these lists down to 3 items each
Pre-work
84. A natural response
Want to make the most of this experience
High expectations, for yourself & for them
I have confidence in our collective commitment
Anxiety
86. With a Sharpie on a fresh sheet of paper
Partners, Part 1
87. Write down 3 Professional issues
Write LARGE & legibly
This will be SHARED
You have 2 minutes
Partners, Part 1
1) _____________
2) _____________
3) _____________
88. Discuss your sheets, 5 minutes per person
Iāll announce when itās halfway (switch)
Watch for the 60-second countdown
Then Iāll see you back here
Instructions
94. Repeat this exercise with your OTHER partner
Meet for 15 minutes (video, phone, IRL?)
BEFORE next weekās class
Partners, Part 2
95. Photo by Glyn Lowe [link]
Course logistics
Everything is on Canvas
Syllabus = Home page & PDF
All readings are PDFs or websites
Possible to bulk download all course files
Canvas issues? Contact
101. Written work
The content is up to you*
*Look ahead to the upcoming class
Responses to course materials & experiences
No specific questions, prompts, requirements
102. Written work
4 grading criteria
Timely Submission
Depth of Personal Learning
Conceptual Rigor
Overall Quality