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ACHIEVING OUR SUCCESS AND HAPPINESS
Dr.T.V.Rao MD
If you ask any person in the world, what makes a life happier, the first answer certainly is the
Success, however if one asks people what is success the answer is definitely different, everyone has
a different definitions and expectations. Today we are more pleased to say that if we have
materialistic things you are identified as successful man,however if you ask a successful man he has
many reasons for all the achievements, and more reasons to the happy and unhappy in life. However
I consider Success is process which we should try with manyways – just visualise your life close your
eyes and imagine yourself accomplishing your goals. Where are you? How did you get there? How
do you feel? Do this often. Don’t get swayed easily with the noises and happenings going on around
you. Today many discourage you and few encourage you, in this process many good thoughts die.
Think you are for yourself, and your partner, children and few good friends are your well-wishers,
listen to their voices, Ask for guidance. No one can really tell you exactly what you should do to
achieve your goal, but one of the best sources for guidelines is to ask those who have done what you
hope to achieve. When I was in high school I have generated a dream to become a Doctor with my
observations of our family Physician who was precise, ethical and accurate to treat us, when I fall
sick with repeated respiratory infections, at one time I thought it may hamper my education. My
ideal was to become a Doctor, none of the difficulties could hinder my ambitions and parents and
the almighty were with me to achieve the desired goals in Life. Learn from the experience of others
without trying to imitate them. Any success has beginning with the role model. Put your attention on
what you are trying to achieve. Remember the goal, and you will have control over the discomforts
and difficulties. A good way to visualize is to practice self-hypnosis.Seek help from many, Find the
information, skills and knowledge that you need from other people, books, and audio or video
programs. Speed up your learning process by emulating what other successful people have done.
You save time and get results faster. Read a book on achieving success, so many in the market and
take few thoughts which can be powerful ways to help us to get fast, permanent results. I was lucky
to be encouraged by life partner who was more than my self, she will never think negative, was a
great driving forcefor many success and coming out of many challenges in life. Always believe that
you will achieve your goal. As soon as you stop believing, you have already failed. Never forget Life is
war, Leverage the power of small wins. Bring to mind the small wins you have achieved in your life.
Let them give you the feel and the motivation of a conqueror. Let these motivate you to set higher
and hitherto unreachable goals, and the courage to achieve them. This will help you win many a
battle in your life and ultimately the war. Many foundations in every one’s life is guided by failures,
Learn from mistakes. Making mistakes should be a subject at school to teach all children how to
learn from them, instead of trying to avoid them. In the pursuit of a goal, you are likely to make
some mistakes. Don't see them as bad or get angry. They are important to correct you and to lead
you to success. If you ask me question what makes one humble it is certainly our concern for the
humanity, be passionate to less privileged. Striving toward a goal without passion is like a fire which
slowly runs out of fuel to burn. Get excited; this will mean that you will love what you are doing.
Never forget we are all children within ourselves however we are growing and becoming old with
age. Always share the child within amongst your potential peers. This empowers the Law of
Attraction that shapes the dreams of the child into the creative force of the adult. In this uncertain
world we should always be prepared for change either in job or life style.Take contingency plans.

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Never forget about the problems that might come up on the way, and prepare for them. Positive
thinking is important, but preparedness is better than being shocked or devastated when obstacles
appear. The best way to live in the world preserve you identity, Now that you have the momentum
going, don't let it stop! Some steps may seem less exciting than others seem, but make sure to stick
to your plan until the end! Avoid distractions and stay focused. Don't allow yourself to be distracted
by other energy consuming efforts. In the past we are putting our thoughts in books and ourselves,
now we have many opportunities with Social networking and never forget to motivate many with
positive though just share your thoughts many may be benefited. Put it in writing. Writing reinforces
thoughts. Even if you are the only one to see what you've written, writing down your goals can give
more power to your intentions. Don't forget the words of Lao-Tze: "A journey of a thousand miles
begins with a single step." Make sure, your goal is SMART, SPECIFIC Measurable Achievable include
Realistic Team-oriented Time-related. Life goes on in spite of many happenings in the world, just
keep moving with positive thoughts to survive in the turbulent world.
Dr.T.V.Rao MD Professor of Microbiology, Freelance writer