I gave a speech about the Giving Tree for the Toastmasters Stortelling Manual, project# 1. This was one of my favorite stroies as a kid and I shared it with my own kids (thanks to a gift from my youngest sister. I gave the speech once at my home club and once at a club in Frankfurt Germany.
1. The Giving Tree:
Story Telling Project# 1
Darryl Heron
http://about.me/darrylheron
18 March, 2013
2. I gave a speech as part of Project #1 from the
Toastmasters Storytelling Manual which is the basis
for this presentation…..
I gave the speech at my home club (Word Weavers of
Wiesbaden, Germany) and at Esprit de Corps of
Frankfurt, Germany
The speech at Esprit de Corps was a target speech
used for their club evaluation contest
About this Presentation
4. As a kid loved I loved to be told & read stories by my
parents
Good parents put a little of themselves in the stories
they tell & read
My sister gave a copy to my oldest daughter & I‘ve read
it to my daughters
Introduction
5. Books‘ meaning can change as we change
The story of „The Giving Tree“ is one that we can all
relate to
The story is more bittersweet for those of us with kids
Introduction continued
6. As you experience the story you might think about the
impact of man on nature and the world around us
How do our decissions impact the world around us?
What happens when all of our resources are no longer
available for other people and nature to use?
Now I begin the story, I hope that you enjoy it!
One More Point
8. There once was a tree & she loved a boy very much…..
The boy played with the tree every day
And the boy loved the tree
And the tree was happy….
9. The boy becomes a teenager & visits less & less
often…..
The boy comes back & wants money
Tree has no money but offters her apples for the boy to
sell
Boy takes apples
And the tree was happy….
10. The boy stays away a long time…..
Now he wants a house
The tree offers her branches to build a house
Boy takes branches & builds house
And the tree was happy….
11. The boy stays away along time…..
He comes back & wants a boat
Tree offers trunk for boat
Boy takes trunk and builds boat
And the tree was happy….But not really….
12. After a long long time the boy returns…..
Tree has nothing left to offer the boy
Boy only wants to sit & rest
Tree tells boy to sit & rest…Boy does
And the tree was happy….
13. Parents can relate to the scarfices of the tree, we‘d do
most anything for them, we want them to be happy, &
we want to be a part of their lives as they grow
older…..
Maybe you were in a relationship, either the one
hanging on or the one looking for more
Conclusion
14. Controversy about interpretation of ths story:
Was the tree self-sacraficing or selfless?
Is the boy selfish or reasonable in his demands from the
tree?
How do you see the relationship betwen the tree and
the boy?
Conclusion Continued
15. What elements of the story ring with environmental
topics that we talk about today?
What role does stewardship play with people today?
What is man‘s responsibility towards other people and
nature?
Are there other environmental questions that the story
raises for you?
Environmental Impact of the Story?
16. I really like this project from the Storytelling manual. I
could see that the audience connected with the story
on the two times that I delivered it as a Storytelling
speech.
I hope that you can find a story that you can deliver with
heart and feeling, you‘ll then have a good chance to
connect with your audience...
Final Words
As a kid I loved it when my mom or dad would take the time read to me and my sisters or tell us a story. While the story was important it wasn't nearly as important as my parents taking the time to tell us a story, or that they put a little something of themselves in the story. The Giving Tree was written by ShelSiverstein in 1964. It was one of my favorite books as a kid. My youngest sister gave a copy of it to my oldest daughter, so I've read it to my daughters a few times.
A book can change over the course of our lives. The meaning it has when you're younger changes as you have kids and your life changes.
As you tell the story you have the ability to use your voice so that the audience can eaisly distinguish between the tree and the boy. In this part of the story the tree is the center of the boy‘s world and the tree can not imagine that this relationship with change, nor that the boy will change...
When the boy wants money to buy stuff, the tree first thinks that it doesn‘t have any money but later realizes that the boy could sell the tree‘s apples and have money. You should start to notice that "And the tree was happy...“ is repeated throughout the story, so you can change your voice to add some emotion as you say this part and the audience will probably come to expect this line.
This is not the time where the boy has become a man and is trying to make his way in the world, so of course the boy is thinking about lots of other tings besides the tree. You can express the sadness of the tree when you say that "The boy stays away for a long time...“
Now the boy, really a middle-aged man at this point, wants a boat. The once vibrant tree becomes a stump so that her boy can have his boat. This is quite a scrafice. The tree gives the boy his boat, but this time the tree isn‘t really happy.
When the boy finally returns to the tree his is an old man. The tree has come to expect that the only time she sees her boy that he wants something so she initally responds back that she has nothing left to give. In the boy‘d old age the tree can offer him companionship, something that the tree has wanted all along and that the boy gave without reservation when he was a boy.
For those of us who are parents we can relate to the sacrifice of the tree, we'd do most anything for our kids, we want them to be happy and as they grow older we want to be part of their lives and to spend time with them. For those of us who aren't parents, maybe you can relate to a relationship that changed. Maybe you were the one trying to keep the relationship as it was, or maybe you were the one that was changing and looking for things beyond the relationship.
There has been some controversy about the interpretation of the story, is the tree self-sacrificing or merely selfless, and is the boy selfish or reasonable in his demands from the tress? Ultimately, you'll need to decide for yourself. How do you see the relationship between the tree and the boy?
After giving the speech at Esprit de Corps, a fellow Toastmaster suggested that she would have appoached the storytelling looking at the environmental aspects. I‘ve noted a few questions that the story raises to me what environmental questions does it raise to you?