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Counseling Approaches 
 Directive Counseling 
 Non-Directive Counseling 
 Eclectic Counseling 
Stages of Counseling Approaches 
 Initial Disclosure 
 In-depth Exploration 
 Commitment to Action 
Counseling Techniques 
By CeLT Common Counselor’s Response
CLINICAL COUNSELING WILLIAMSON 
INTERVIEW RELATIONSHIP BORDIN 
 COUNSELOR-CENTERED 
 PRESCRIPTIVE COUNSELING 
 FOCAL POINT IS THE PROBLEM 
 COUNSELOR LEADS THE 
INTERVIEW, VERY ACTIVE 
 CLIENT SUBORDINATE TO COUNSELLOR, 
NOT EQUAL 
 COUNSELOR OWNS ENTIRE 
RESPONSIBILITY OF SOLVING THECLIENT’S 
PROBLEM 
 STRESSES ON THE CLIENT’S 
INTELLECTUAL PROCESS,NOT 
THE EMOTIONAL ASPECT
WOLF & WOLF 
FOLLOWS AFTER TESTING OF 
THE STUDENT 
USES TEST DATA 
SCHOOL RECORDS 
REPORTS IN THE INTERVIEW 
COUNSELOR GIVES CLIENT 
 INFORMATION ABOUT 
HIMSELF 
 HIS OPPORTUNITIES & 
 THE GENERAL SITUATION
1. ECONOMICAL IN TERMS OF TIME 
2. COUNSELOR CAN SEE THE CLIENT OBJECTIVELY THAN THE CLIENT 
HIMSELF 
3. INTELLECTUAL PROBLEMS CAN BE SOLVED EASILY 
1. CLIENT IS DEPENDENT 
2. SCARCITY OF INFORMATION REGARDING THE CLIENT CAN CREATE 
THE POSSIBILITY OF WRONG COUNSELING 
3. SOME PROBLEMS (EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS) BEST SOLVED USING 
NON-DIRECTIVE
 CLIENT-CENTERED 
 COUNSELEE-CENTERED 
 PUTS THE RESPONSIBILITY 
ON THE CLIENT 
~FOR EXPLORING HIS 
PROBLEMS 
~HIS POTENTIAL 
ENVIRONMENT 
~HIS ALTERNATIVE 
CARL ROGERS
• CONCERNED WITH THE EMOTIONS 
OF THE CLIENT 
• NOT A GIVER OF ADVICE 
• NOT A MORALIST 
• NOT A JUDGE 
• NOT SYMPATHETIC SENTIMENTALIST 
• NOT A PATRIARCH 
WOOLF: 
VERY EFFECTIVE IN 
EMOTIONAL 
PROBLEMS 
MENTALLY ILL 
COLLEGE STUDENTS 
INDUSTRIAL 
EMPLOYEES
1. CLIENT COMES FOR HELP 
2. COUNSELING SITUATION 
IS DEFINED 
3. COUNSELOR ENCOURAGES 
FREE EXPRESSION OF FEELINGS 
4. COUNSELOR RESPONDS TO THE 
FEELING UNDERLYING CLIENT’S 
WORDS 
5. FULL EXPRESSION OF 
NEGATIVE FEELINGS 
FOLLOWED BY FAINT & 
TENTATIVE EXPRESSION OF 
POSITIVE FEELINGS
6. COUNSELOR ACCEPTS & 
RECOGNIZES + - FEELINGS 
7. PERIOD OF FREE EXPRESSION 
OR RELEASE FOLLOWED BY INSIGHT 
8. CLIENT RECOGNIZES & ACCEPTS 
EMOTIONALLY/INTELLECTUALLY HIS REAL 
ATTITUDES/DESIRES  PERCEIVES 
DECISION 
9.CLIENT BEGINS TO 
TRANSLATE INSIGHT INTO 
ACTION 
10. FURTHER GROWTH 
TAKES PLACE WITH 
DEEPER INSIGHT
11. INCREASINGLY 
INTEGRATED 
POSITIVE ACTIONS 
12. DECREASED NEED FOR HELP 
IS FELT  CLIENT WILL DECIDE 
TO TERMINATE 
RELATIONSHIP
NON-DIRECTIVE 
COUNSELING
DIRECTIVE NON-DIRECTIVE 
BASIC ASSUMPTIONS PROBLEM-BASED CLIENT-BASED 
INDIVIDUAL CAN’T 
OVERCOME THEIR OWN BIAS IN 
VIEWING HIMSELF 
WITHIN EVERY INDIVIDUAL 
ARE GROWTH FORCES, WHICH 
WHEN RELEASED WITHOUT 
RESTRICTIONS WILL PERMIT 
HIM TO ADJUST TO HIS 
ENVIRONMENT 
EMPHASIS ON INTELLECT EMPHASIS ON EMOTIONAL 
ASPECT OF PERSONALITY 
ROLE OF COUNSELOR-COUNSELLEE 
IN 
THE COUNSELING 
PROCESS 
COUNSELOR HAS SUPERIOR 
TRAINING/COMPETENT TO 
SUGGEST OR ADVISE HOW 
PROBLEMS ARE TO BE SOLVED 
COUNSELOR INDICATES HE 
DOES NOT HAVE THE ANSWERS 
BUT PROVIDES ATMOSPHERE 
WHERE CLIENT CAN WORK OUT 
HIS PROBLEMS 
COUNSELOR MAKES 
DECISIONS FOR THE CLIENT 
CLIENT COMES UP WITH HIS 
OWN DECISION 
COUNSELOR BELIEVES PEOPLE 
IN NEED OF COUNSELING DO 
NOT KNOW ENOUGH TO MAKE 
THEIR OWN DECISIONS 
COUNCELOR ACCEPTS, 
REFLECTS & CLARIFY NEW 
FEELINGS & CHOICES OF CLIENT 
LEADING TO FUTURE PLANS
DIRECTIVE NON-DIRECTIVE 
METHODS USED COLLECTS & USES DATA OF 
THE CLIENT AND THEN 
ORGANIZES AND SUMMARIZES 
IT ON A RECORD FORM 
EMPHASIZES CLIENT’S 
EXPRESSION OF EMOTIONS IN 
THE COUNSELING PROCESS 
DIAGNOSTIC INSTRUMENTS 
ARE NOT USED 
USES CLIENT FOLLOW-UP AS 
WELL AS REFERRAL TO OTHER 
PERSONAL WORKERS. 
NO NEED FOR FURTHER 
COUNSELING WHICH THEY 
VIEW AS A “TEMPORARY 
CRUTCH.” 
 IF THE CLIENT HAS GAINED 
THE PROPER INSIGHT, HE WILL 
BE ABLE TO MAKE HIS OWN 
DECISIONS, GOALS AND TAKE 
POSITIVE STEPS. 
INDIVIDUALS NEED & WANT 
INFORMATION 
EMPHASIS ON FREE 
EXPRESSION OF FEELING OR 
“PERMISSIVENESS”
F.C. THORNE
F.C. THORNE
F.C THORNE, “PRINCIPLES OF PERSONALITY COUNSELING
 CLIENT AND COUNSELOR DO NOT KNOW EACH OTHER 
CLIENT IS ANXIOUS ON HOW THE COUNSELOR WILL ACCEPT 
NEITHER OF THEM KNOWS IN ADVANCE THE DIRECTION WHERE 
THEIR DISCUSSION WILL ULTIMATELY TAKE 
WITHOUT DISCLOSURE COUNSELING IS AN EMPTY PROCESS 
TRUST-PROMOTING CONDITIONS (ROGERS, 1951) 
1. EMPATHY – Understanding/ putting yourself in the shoes of the counselee 
2. GENUINENESS OR CONGRUENCE – Being as dependable and consistent 
3. UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE REGARD – Caring without conditions attached 
4. CONCRETENESS (EGAN,1988) – Using CLEAR LANGUAGE to describe the 
client’s life situation
 TRUST SHOULD HAVE BEEN DEVELOPED 
COUNSELOR BEGINS TO SUBTLY TELL HIS DIAGNOSTIC IMPRESSIONS 
ON THE CLIENT’S DYNAMICS & COPING BEHAVIOR 
AS RELATIONSHIP BECOMES SECURE  COUNSELOR TALKS ON HIS 
CLIENT’S GOALS BEHAVIOR 
 SOMETIMES BECOME MORE EMOTIONALLY STRESSFULL TO THE 
CLIENT
1. CONSTRUCTIVE CONFRONTATION > Client’s EXTERNAL BEHAVIOR 
based on the counselor’s observations is discussed 
2. IMMEDIACY (EGAN)  Counselor discusses the PROGRESS of the 
counseling 
 Counselor gives an immediate response to the 
client’s statements 
 Counselor shares personal experiences 
relevant to the discussion
TRY SOME 
NEW 
BEHAVIOR 
COUNSELOR + 
COUNSELEE 
MONITORS NEW 
BEHAVIOR 
CLIENT REINFORCED 
TO BEHAVE IN 
NEW WAYS
LISTEN FOR MEANING 
LISTEN FOR MEANING 
COUNSELOR SPEAKS LITTLE BUT 
CONVEYS MUCH INTEREST 
COUNSELOR SPEAKS LITTLE BUT 
CONVEYS MUCH INTEREST
TO GET LOTS OF 
INFORMATION 
TO GET LOTS OF 
INFORMATION 
CLOSED 
QUESTION: 
CLOSED 
QUESTION: 
can 
can 
normally be 
answered 
with either 
a single 
word or a 
normally be 
answered 
with either 
a single 
word or a 
short 
phrase 
short 
phrase 
http://www.esdproj.org/site/DocServer/Counseling_Techniques_FINAL_11-12-08.pdf?docID=2282
So let’s say counselor Joan is seeing client Mary. Mary, has been 
speaking for 20 minutes – she is depressed, failing school, concerned 
about her boyfriends dedication to her, and overwhelmed by parents’ 
demands. Here is what a succinct, tentative summary would sound 
like. 
1. You came in today because you are feeling depressed. 
2. Your school work is not going well. 
3. You worry your boyfriend doesn’t love you. 
4. You are also unhappy with the amount of stress your parents are 
putting on you to get A’s. 
Would you say this is accurate?
COUNSELEE: A good day for me at work is being able to 
get around and talk to people, and even when I’m 
talking to them, I’m not really that relaxed. I feel 
COUNSELEE: A good day for me at work is being able to 
get around and talk to people, and even when I’m 
talking to them, I’m not really that relaxed. I feel 
inferior around a number of people. 
inferior around a number of people. 
COUNSELOR: You feel uncomfortable 
because of the job situation – your lack 
COUNSELOR: You feel uncomfortable 
because of the job situation – your lack 
of education. 
of education. 
COUNSELEE: Yes, my education. My 
COUNSELEE: Yes, my education. My 
education is what’s really stopping me from 
being able to hold a conversation, a good 
education is what’s really stopping me from 
being able to hold a conversation, a good 
conversation and feeling comfortable. 
conversation and feeling comfortable. 
COUNSELOR: Ok, now at the same time 
though, don’t most of the people at the 
COUNSELOR: Ok, now at the same time 
though, don’t most of the people at the 
shop have the same educational 
shop have the same educational 
background? 
background?
COUNSELEE: There’s a wide variety of people there. Different 
nationalities and different ages, too. It’s really a mixed up thing. 
Some people I can talk to and other people I can’t. I don’t feel I am 
able to talk with enough people there. The people that I find things 
in common with me, I can talk pretty easily. But with the people that 
I don’t have anything in common with, it’s really uncomfortable. I 
find it hard to strike up a conversation with them, to say something 
comfortable. Lots of times I say things but afterwards I say, “Well 
COUNSELEE: There’s a wide variety of people there. Different 
nationalities and different ages, too. It’s really a mixed up thing. 
Some people I can talk to and other people I can’t. I don’t feel I am 
able to talk with enough people there. The people that I find things 
in common with me, I can talk pretty easily. But with the people that 
I don’t have anything in common with, it’s really uncomfortable. I 
find it hard to strike up a conversation with them, to say something 
comfortable. Lots of times I say things but afterwards I say, “Well 
why did I say that? You know, that really seemed stupid.” 
why did I say that? You know, that really seemed stupid.” 
embarrassed because you can’t 
communicate with the people you 
don’t have something directly in 
COUNSELEE: Yep, it’s really hard to 
COUNSELEE: Yep, it’s really hard to 
communicate with them... 
communicate with them... 
COUNSELOR: Ok, you feel 
COUNSELOR: Ok, you feel 
embarrassed because you can’t 
communicate with the people you 
don’t have something directly in 
common with. 
common with.
COUNSELOR: We have five minutes left. If 
you want to come back next week, we can 
COUNSELOR: We have five minutes left. If 
you want to come back next week, we can 
talk a little bit more about it. 
talk a little bit more about it. 
COUNSELEE: OK. Do you think this 
is going to be something easy, or is 
it, ah, going to be a long hard thing? 
COUNSELEE: OK. Do you think this 
is going to be something easy, or is 
it, ah, going to be a long hard thing? 
COUNSELOR: It’s difficult to say, 
COUNSELOR: It’s difficult to say, 
you know. 
you know. 
COUNSELEE: We have to talk some 
COUNSELEE: We have to talk some 
more and everything. 
more and everything. 
COUNSELOR: Yes, I want to get to know you a little 
better. Why don’t we go set up an appointment for 
COUNSELOR: Yes, I want to get to know you a little 
better. Why don’t we go set up an appointment for 
next week, and we can talk further. 
next week, and we can talk further. 
CCOOUUNNSSEELLEEEE:: O OKK..
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Guiding Learners Through Counseling

  • 1. Counseling Approaches  Directive Counseling  Non-Directive Counseling  Eclectic Counseling Stages of Counseling Approaches  Initial Disclosure  In-depth Exploration  Commitment to Action Counseling Techniques By CeLT Common Counselor’s Response
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  • 3. CLINICAL COUNSELING WILLIAMSON INTERVIEW RELATIONSHIP BORDIN  COUNSELOR-CENTERED  PRESCRIPTIVE COUNSELING  FOCAL POINT IS THE PROBLEM  COUNSELOR LEADS THE INTERVIEW, VERY ACTIVE  CLIENT SUBORDINATE TO COUNSELLOR, NOT EQUAL  COUNSELOR OWNS ENTIRE RESPONSIBILITY OF SOLVING THECLIENT’S PROBLEM  STRESSES ON THE CLIENT’S INTELLECTUAL PROCESS,NOT THE EMOTIONAL ASPECT
  • 4. WOLF & WOLF FOLLOWS AFTER TESTING OF THE STUDENT USES TEST DATA SCHOOL RECORDS REPORTS IN THE INTERVIEW COUNSELOR GIVES CLIENT  INFORMATION ABOUT HIMSELF  HIS OPPORTUNITIES &  THE GENERAL SITUATION
  • 5. 1. ECONOMICAL IN TERMS OF TIME 2. COUNSELOR CAN SEE THE CLIENT OBJECTIVELY THAN THE CLIENT HIMSELF 3. INTELLECTUAL PROBLEMS CAN BE SOLVED EASILY 1. CLIENT IS DEPENDENT 2. SCARCITY OF INFORMATION REGARDING THE CLIENT CAN CREATE THE POSSIBILITY OF WRONG COUNSELING 3. SOME PROBLEMS (EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS) BEST SOLVED USING NON-DIRECTIVE
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  • 7.  CLIENT-CENTERED  COUNSELEE-CENTERED  PUTS THE RESPONSIBILITY ON THE CLIENT ~FOR EXPLORING HIS PROBLEMS ~HIS POTENTIAL ENVIRONMENT ~HIS ALTERNATIVE CARL ROGERS
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  • 9. • CONCERNED WITH THE EMOTIONS OF THE CLIENT • NOT A GIVER OF ADVICE • NOT A MORALIST • NOT A JUDGE • NOT SYMPATHETIC SENTIMENTALIST • NOT A PATRIARCH WOOLF: VERY EFFECTIVE IN EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS MENTALLY ILL COLLEGE STUDENTS INDUSTRIAL EMPLOYEES
  • 10. 1. CLIENT COMES FOR HELP 2. COUNSELING SITUATION IS DEFINED 3. COUNSELOR ENCOURAGES FREE EXPRESSION OF FEELINGS 4. COUNSELOR RESPONDS TO THE FEELING UNDERLYING CLIENT’S WORDS 5. FULL EXPRESSION OF NEGATIVE FEELINGS FOLLOWED BY FAINT & TENTATIVE EXPRESSION OF POSITIVE FEELINGS
  • 11. 6. COUNSELOR ACCEPTS & RECOGNIZES + - FEELINGS 7. PERIOD OF FREE EXPRESSION OR RELEASE FOLLOWED BY INSIGHT 8. CLIENT RECOGNIZES & ACCEPTS EMOTIONALLY/INTELLECTUALLY HIS REAL ATTITUDES/DESIRES  PERCEIVES DECISION 9.CLIENT BEGINS TO TRANSLATE INSIGHT INTO ACTION 10. FURTHER GROWTH TAKES PLACE WITH DEEPER INSIGHT
  • 12. 11. INCREASINGLY INTEGRATED POSITIVE ACTIONS 12. DECREASED NEED FOR HELP IS FELT  CLIENT WILL DECIDE TO TERMINATE RELATIONSHIP
  • 14. DIRECTIVE NON-DIRECTIVE BASIC ASSUMPTIONS PROBLEM-BASED CLIENT-BASED INDIVIDUAL CAN’T OVERCOME THEIR OWN BIAS IN VIEWING HIMSELF WITHIN EVERY INDIVIDUAL ARE GROWTH FORCES, WHICH WHEN RELEASED WITHOUT RESTRICTIONS WILL PERMIT HIM TO ADJUST TO HIS ENVIRONMENT EMPHASIS ON INTELLECT EMPHASIS ON EMOTIONAL ASPECT OF PERSONALITY ROLE OF COUNSELOR-COUNSELLEE IN THE COUNSELING PROCESS COUNSELOR HAS SUPERIOR TRAINING/COMPETENT TO SUGGEST OR ADVISE HOW PROBLEMS ARE TO BE SOLVED COUNSELOR INDICATES HE DOES NOT HAVE THE ANSWERS BUT PROVIDES ATMOSPHERE WHERE CLIENT CAN WORK OUT HIS PROBLEMS COUNSELOR MAKES DECISIONS FOR THE CLIENT CLIENT COMES UP WITH HIS OWN DECISION COUNSELOR BELIEVES PEOPLE IN NEED OF COUNSELING DO NOT KNOW ENOUGH TO MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS COUNCELOR ACCEPTS, REFLECTS & CLARIFY NEW FEELINGS & CHOICES OF CLIENT LEADING TO FUTURE PLANS
  • 15. DIRECTIVE NON-DIRECTIVE METHODS USED COLLECTS & USES DATA OF THE CLIENT AND THEN ORGANIZES AND SUMMARIZES IT ON A RECORD FORM EMPHASIZES CLIENT’S EXPRESSION OF EMOTIONS IN THE COUNSELING PROCESS DIAGNOSTIC INSTRUMENTS ARE NOT USED USES CLIENT FOLLOW-UP AS WELL AS REFERRAL TO OTHER PERSONAL WORKERS. NO NEED FOR FURTHER COUNSELING WHICH THEY VIEW AS A “TEMPORARY CRUTCH.”  IF THE CLIENT HAS GAINED THE PROPER INSIGHT, HE WILL BE ABLE TO MAKE HIS OWN DECISIONS, GOALS AND TAKE POSITIVE STEPS. INDIVIDUALS NEED & WANT INFORMATION EMPHASIS ON FREE EXPRESSION OF FEELING OR “PERMISSIVENESS”
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  • 19.
  • 20. F.C THORNE, “PRINCIPLES OF PERSONALITY COUNSELING
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  • 22.
  • 23.
  • 24.  CLIENT AND COUNSELOR DO NOT KNOW EACH OTHER CLIENT IS ANXIOUS ON HOW THE COUNSELOR WILL ACCEPT NEITHER OF THEM KNOWS IN ADVANCE THE DIRECTION WHERE THEIR DISCUSSION WILL ULTIMATELY TAKE WITHOUT DISCLOSURE COUNSELING IS AN EMPTY PROCESS TRUST-PROMOTING CONDITIONS (ROGERS, 1951) 1. EMPATHY – Understanding/ putting yourself in the shoes of the counselee 2. GENUINENESS OR CONGRUENCE – Being as dependable and consistent 3. UNCONDITIONAL POSITIVE REGARD – Caring without conditions attached 4. CONCRETENESS (EGAN,1988) – Using CLEAR LANGUAGE to describe the client’s life situation
  • 25.  TRUST SHOULD HAVE BEEN DEVELOPED COUNSELOR BEGINS TO SUBTLY TELL HIS DIAGNOSTIC IMPRESSIONS ON THE CLIENT’S DYNAMICS & COPING BEHAVIOR AS RELATIONSHIP BECOMES SECURE  COUNSELOR TALKS ON HIS CLIENT’S GOALS BEHAVIOR  SOMETIMES BECOME MORE EMOTIONALLY STRESSFULL TO THE CLIENT
  • 26. 1. CONSTRUCTIVE CONFRONTATION > Client’s EXTERNAL BEHAVIOR based on the counselor’s observations is discussed 2. IMMEDIACY (EGAN)  Counselor discusses the PROGRESS of the counseling  Counselor gives an immediate response to the client’s statements  Counselor shares personal experiences relevant to the discussion
  • 27. TRY SOME NEW BEHAVIOR COUNSELOR + COUNSELEE MONITORS NEW BEHAVIOR CLIENT REINFORCED TO BEHAVE IN NEW WAYS
  • 28. LISTEN FOR MEANING LISTEN FOR MEANING COUNSELOR SPEAKS LITTLE BUT CONVEYS MUCH INTEREST COUNSELOR SPEAKS LITTLE BUT CONVEYS MUCH INTEREST
  • 29. TO GET LOTS OF INFORMATION TO GET LOTS OF INFORMATION CLOSED QUESTION: CLOSED QUESTION: can can normally be answered with either a single word or a normally be answered with either a single word or a short phrase short phrase http://www.esdproj.org/site/DocServer/Counseling_Techniques_FINAL_11-12-08.pdf?docID=2282
  • 30. So let’s say counselor Joan is seeing client Mary. Mary, has been speaking for 20 minutes – she is depressed, failing school, concerned about her boyfriends dedication to her, and overwhelmed by parents’ demands. Here is what a succinct, tentative summary would sound like. 1. You came in today because you are feeling depressed. 2. Your school work is not going well. 3. You worry your boyfriend doesn’t love you. 4. You are also unhappy with the amount of stress your parents are putting on you to get A’s. Would you say this is accurate?
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  • 32. COUNSELEE: A good day for me at work is being able to get around and talk to people, and even when I’m talking to them, I’m not really that relaxed. I feel COUNSELEE: A good day for me at work is being able to get around and talk to people, and even when I’m talking to them, I’m not really that relaxed. I feel inferior around a number of people. inferior around a number of people. COUNSELOR: You feel uncomfortable because of the job situation – your lack COUNSELOR: You feel uncomfortable because of the job situation – your lack of education. of education. COUNSELEE: Yes, my education. My COUNSELEE: Yes, my education. My education is what’s really stopping me from being able to hold a conversation, a good education is what’s really stopping me from being able to hold a conversation, a good conversation and feeling comfortable. conversation and feeling comfortable. COUNSELOR: Ok, now at the same time though, don’t most of the people at the COUNSELOR: Ok, now at the same time though, don’t most of the people at the shop have the same educational shop have the same educational background? background?
  • 33. COUNSELEE: There’s a wide variety of people there. Different nationalities and different ages, too. It’s really a mixed up thing. Some people I can talk to and other people I can’t. I don’t feel I am able to talk with enough people there. The people that I find things in common with me, I can talk pretty easily. But with the people that I don’t have anything in common with, it’s really uncomfortable. I find it hard to strike up a conversation with them, to say something comfortable. Lots of times I say things but afterwards I say, “Well COUNSELEE: There’s a wide variety of people there. Different nationalities and different ages, too. It’s really a mixed up thing. Some people I can talk to and other people I can’t. I don’t feel I am able to talk with enough people there. The people that I find things in common with me, I can talk pretty easily. But with the people that I don’t have anything in common with, it’s really uncomfortable. I find it hard to strike up a conversation with them, to say something comfortable. Lots of times I say things but afterwards I say, “Well why did I say that? You know, that really seemed stupid.” why did I say that? You know, that really seemed stupid.” embarrassed because you can’t communicate with the people you don’t have something directly in COUNSELEE: Yep, it’s really hard to COUNSELEE: Yep, it’s really hard to communicate with them... communicate with them... COUNSELOR: Ok, you feel COUNSELOR: Ok, you feel embarrassed because you can’t communicate with the people you don’t have something directly in common with. common with.
  • 34. COUNSELOR: We have five minutes left. If you want to come back next week, we can COUNSELOR: We have five minutes left. If you want to come back next week, we can talk a little bit more about it. talk a little bit more about it. COUNSELEE: OK. Do you think this is going to be something easy, or is it, ah, going to be a long hard thing? COUNSELEE: OK. Do you think this is going to be something easy, or is it, ah, going to be a long hard thing? COUNSELOR: It’s difficult to say, COUNSELOR: It’s difficult to say, you know. you know. COUNSELEE: We have to talk some COUNSELEE: We have to talk some more and everything. more and everything. COUNSELOR: Yes, I want to get to know you a little better. Why don’t we go set up an appointment for COUNSELOR: Yes, I want to get to know you a little better. Why don’t we go set up an appointment for next week, and we can talk further. next week, and we can talk further. CCOOUUNNSSEELLEEEE:: O OKK..