Blow Job Romance by Arhata

1. Blow Job Romance
October 8, 2009
Romance is ʻlove motivatedʼ and not about ʻoral sexʼ motivation!
Yesterday on the number two most popular talk show on TV, ʻDr. Philʼ,
the topic concerned teenagers (13-17) having a new approach to the
ʻkissʼ by the hundreds of thousands. What use to be ʻkissing or
making outʼ by those old folks over 25 or 30, is now significantly
replaced by the males pressure to kiss his ʻtool of selfishnessʼ instead!
Is former President Bill Clinton and his non-sexual relations claimʼ with
Monica Lewinsky a motivator or, is the ʻporno internetʼ a larger factor?
In any case, sex for gratification among teenagers, with emphasis on
ʻsocial pressuresʼ to relieve the ʻboysʼ, is apparently on the upswing of
popularity. Parents are completely in the dark about the ʻfadʼ! Males have always been
genetically programmed through higher sex needs (testosterone) to impregnate the female for
survival of the species. Still the 13 year old today with the new influence of ʻoutside forcesʼ,
including greater alcohol and drug use (marijuana included), is ʻrevertingʼ to ʻearlier man back to
the neanderthalʼ in his sexual practices. Supporting that is his awareness that families have
more divorces, excessive life styles, more couples
working and, parents who show no where near
enough love among themselves. The causes of
making sexual gratification more important than
love are numerous.
I have always been aware of the majority of males
avoiding love contact for ʻbiological need
satisfactionʼ and, females being confused and
accepting while they sometimes enjoy but,
unconsciously miss the ʻsupernatural/conscious
loveʼ that is there for those who put it as a priority.
Meaningless sex has itʼs place with consensual
mature people, particularly if people already have a deep connection with each
other. Superconscious sex means ʻdeep loveʼ with no inhibitions to a total merger
with the other.
Itʼs common to avoid deep contact with oneʼs partner in lieu of ʻhaving funʼ not realizing that one
or both (particularly the male) is just satisfying primordial urges like any animal. Even closing the
eyes when facing each other is common instead of the cultivation of deep love through looking
into each others eyes for long periods. Advice to females - if a guy doesnʼt spend considerable
time in sex with deep looking in your eyes, look other wheres! Teenager girls: most guys donʼt
care who you are and you are nothing more than a passing memory with nothing resembling
ʻunconditionalʼ. Always be open to deep love and, compassion for the other, when itʼs not there.
Yesss Self Love Center
Est. 1991
ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com
310 880-2020
Port Townsend, Washington USA