He's The One

He’s The One
Find Him, Get Noticed and Make Him Yours
By Amy Everhart

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Table Of Contents
Introduction
I. Step One: The Right Woman for the Right Man
II. Step Two: Knowing Your Ideal Man
III. Step Three: Playing the Love Game
IV. Step Four: Keeping the Happy Ending Happy
Conclusion

Introduction
Have you already found Mr. Right? I’m guessing not yet, otherwise you would not have picked up
this book. Do not worry. There are no judgments here. Finding the right person can be a
challenge especially for us women. I certainly had hurdles of my own when I was searching for my
Mr. Right.
But thank goodness I found him. If I didn’t make the effort to set my standards, look for a man
who met those standards and work on my relationship with him, I wouldn’t have someone to call
a loving husband right now.
Because of that experience and my countless encounters with chronically single women, I have
decided to write this book. I don’t only want to help women but I want to shake them up. Shake
them up so that they can see reality.
The reality is that Prince Charming is not coming.
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Step One: The Right Woman for the
Right Man
Before taking the steps to finding the right man, it is important to make yourself become the right
woman first. You need to be the best version of yourself before you can find someone who is best
for you.
A way to do this is by looking at past relationships and determining what traits you have that
might have caused the relationship to fall out. It could have been your short temper that caused
you to pick fights often or your bluntness that led him to feeling disrespected.
There are so many reasons why a relationship could fail. It is easy to point fingers at your ex but
you need to remember that a relationship is made up of two persons so there must have also
been some things you may have done that led to the relationship ending.

Step Two: Knowing Your Ideal Man
Now that we have tackled the four crazy traits that drive a man away, it is time to define what
your ideal man is. We are all different. What might be the perfect man for you might not be so
perfect to me. And what a perfect man is for me might possess all the qualities that are deal
breakers for you.
In order to know what type of man is for you, it is good to ask yourself these three questions:
1. What are my strengths and weaknesses?
2. What are my vulnerabilities?
3. What are my emotional needs?
By finding an answer to these questions, you will better know what type of man will enhance
your strengths rather than your weaknesses. In listing the traits of your ideal man, you also have
to make sure that his qualities will fit your goals and personality. For example, if you are a shy
person, you might want to go for a man who is confident and outspoken. If you are the type who
needs reassurance once in a while, find a man who is sweet and affectionate. Write down the
traits of your ideal man and save yourself from wasting time on the wrong men.

Step Three: Playing the Love Game
Now it is time to initiate the dating game or as what I would like to call it, the love game. In this
chapter, you will learn what to do once you have found the man you might potentially be with for
the long term.
First, we will talk about things that you can do to show him that you are interested. Normally, if
you show a man that you are interested, he will reciprocate and send you the “signals” that he
likes you too. As a result, he might then ask you to go on a date. Although it is typical for a man to
make the first move and ask a woman out, there might be instances where he might not do it
because he is either too shy or he has no clue at all that you are interested.
In this case, you can ask him out yourself. This is the 21st century so it should not come as a
surprise when a woman asks a man out. He might even be impressed and relieved that you made
the first move. If he shows no sign of interest or he rejected your invitation, do not dwell on him
and move on to the next man.

Step Four: Keeping the Happy Ending
Happy
Let us assume that you are already finished with the first three steps. You turned yourself into the
best person that you can. You wrote down your three non-negotiable qualities and you have
avoided the deal breakers. You have spotted Mr. Right and you were able to make him seal the
deal. You may have already been through what seemed like the most difficult part of dating but
you have no idea what you are in for once you are in a committed relationship.
Once you have closed the deal with him, you now need to make sure that you keep the happy
ending happy. Maintaining a healthy, committed relationship takes a lot of work but it is one of
the most satisfying things that you can do. You not only have a partner with you but you also
have a friend, a confidant, and a companion. You have someone that will take on life’s challenges
with you, someone to listen to you when you have problems and someone that you can just be
yourself with and yet they still love you.
All of that sounds nice but you will not reap any of those benefits without putting any work. In
this chapter, you will learn everything there is to know about maintaining a strong relationship.
We will begin by providing you tips on how to make your relationship last. When you have been
with someone long enough, things can get pretty boring.

Conclusion
I am saddened that we have already reached the end of this book. I hope you take my words by
heart and apply them in your love life as I have when I was trying to find my Mr. Right. With
willingness and hard work, I know you will find the man who is for you. Just open your eyes as
well as your heart and look.
Do not be afraid of hurt or rejection because that is a feeling that all of us experience, some even
to a greater degree. Learn to see pain as building blocks that help you become a stronger person:
a person who knows better and is ready to face the man meant for her.
When you are with a man, be courageous enough to tell him what you want and what you do not
want. You are a woman who does not deserve anything less than what you put into the
relationship.
If you are getting less than what you deserve, be brave enough to walk away. You can always find
another man who might just even be a better equal. And when you do find him, hold on tight and
never let him go. You know what they say about fishes in the sea. There are plenty of them but
only a few are truly great catches.

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