This session at the Stanford University School of Medicine "Medicine X 2013" conference examined the perception gap between patients and their spouses about severity of disease and suffering, with insights from a cancer patient, Maggie Heim, and her husband, Paul Hoffman, and from Aanand Naik, MD. Healthcare professionals need to be more attuned to the potential for a communications disconnect between a patient and his/her caregiver, which could lead to inadequate treatment. We discussed several studies, including a survey that Inspire conducted in 2012 in collaboration with Novartis, illustrating this gap: "Perceptions of stage IV NSCLC patients and caregivers regarding severity of symptoms and willingness to participate in supportive care trials."