2. Chances are unless you are very lucky you will go thru
many different relationships before you find your special
someone. Finding your sole mate is like gambling. In poker
and blackjack you may have to play dozens of hands until
you get a winning hand, and it is the same with
relationships.
3. During your life you will probably meet some people who
seem like they may be the one, or that they are close, but
still have the feeling that something else is missing. My
advice is that if you are not happy, because something
seems like it is missing, then it usually is not right.
4. Before I found my special someone, I was in a relationship
for over 10 years, and I thought everything was great, until
I started to seriously consider getting married. Then I
noticed that we had so little in common and in reality
wanted so many different things out of life and one day
we both realized there was much about each of us that we
both wanted from someone, but it was not us that we
wanted.
5. Then one day I decided I had enough of trying to go to
clubs and bars to meet people. I was sick and tired of
trying to find someone in the time it takes to finish a
drink. It always seemed the ladies I would meet were all
wrong for me, or they seemed great after talking to them
for 5 minutes but they seemed to have no interest in me.
6. Then one day I had an idea, it was not an original idea but
I decided to use the internet to try to find the right person
for me. So I proceeded to make a myspace profile. On this
page I tried to put the real me and not the funny guy
trying to be charming that was looking for love at the bar.
7. And as I would at the poker rooms I went all in, I poured
my heart and sole into this. I wrote what I wanted and
wrote down who I truly think I am and not who I want to
be, and I was rewarded by 1 email responding to my site.
8. It was amazing; the response I got was like a dream.
Imagine you are sitting in a Las Vegas casino playing poker.
You are down to your last few dollars, you go all in and
you wind up being dealt a Royal Flush, and suddenly the
sky is bluer, the grass is greener, and all your worries seem
to just fade away.
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10. The key to finding happiness is realizing you are going to
bust more then you are going to get blackjack, but you
must keep trying, trying to remember you only need to
find the real thing once.