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SELFIMAGE
A POSITIVE AND
NEGATIVE OUTLOOK
o Positive thinking isa mental attitude that
admits into the mind thoughts, words
and images that are conducive to
growth,expansion and success.
o Itisa mental attitude that expects good
and favorable results.
o A positive mind anticipates happiness,
joy,health and a successful outcome
of every situation and action.
o Positive thinking helps with stress
management and caneven improve
one’shealth.
POSITIVE THINKING
𝗈 Self-image is how you view yourself,
your characteristics and abilities.
𝗈 It is the value you place on
yourself and how worthy you feel.
𝗈 Self-image is influenced by your
self- esteem and your body image.
SELF IMAGE
FACTORS THAT
AFFECT ONE’S
SELF-IMAGE
 Peers
 Friends
 Mentors
 Parents
 Teachers
 Media
 Television
 Movies
 Magazines
 S
uc c esses
 Failures
Women In The Media
•Women are used much more than men
•Media teaches women to measure themselves in terms of physical
appearance
•Standards of beauty are unattainable for most women
•Media uses young females who are on strict diets or starving to portray
the images of beauty
•Young women see models in the media and feel the need to look like
them to be attractive
TWO TYPES OF FUNCT
IONS:
Latent Function
• Unrecognized by the
media Consumers can
view any fashion
magazine and see
multiple adds with
subliminal, if not direct,
messages “In 1992, the
ten most popular
magazines most
commonly read by men
and women were
reviewed for ads and
articles related to weight
loss. The women’s
magazines contained 10.5
times more articles
related to dieting and
weight loss than did the
man’s magazines.”
Manifest Function
• Can be applied to the desired intent
of the advertiser
• They use the human image and its
sexuality to create interest in a
product by appealing to the desires
of the person
• Pictures of beautiful models are
shown in hopes that the viewer will
see it and think that they need the
product to obtain that level of
human perfection
• Has proven itself over time to be
effective
Research
MediaE
mphasis
13%
87%
P
hysicalT
raits
Personality
Characteristics
Research
Are appearances misusedin the
media?
11%
17%
72%
Yes
No
UnDecided
Research
Has fashion in media affected you?
26%
55%
19%
Yes
No
Sometimes
SELF-IMAGE:
The way we see
ourselves
SELF-ESTEEM:
The way we feel about
ourselves
SELF CONFIDENCE:
Belief about our
ability to do
something
Causes of poor Self-Image
Negative Environment
Unfair or Unnecessary Comparison
Lack of self awareness
Negative Self talk
Unrealistic Expectations
STEPS TO BUILD A
POSITIVE SELF
IMAGE:
 Take inventory: Make a list
of all your strengths and
weaknesses.
 Set goals.
 Associate with people of
high moral character.
 Accept responsibility.
 Give yourself positive
autosuggestions.
DEFINITION:
SELF
CONFIDENCE
 Self confidence relates to self-
assuredness in one’s personal judgment,
ability ,power etc.
 Freedom from doubt; belief in yourself
and your abilities.
 Famous Quote on Self Confidence by
Raj Persaud “Promise yourself, no matter
how difficult the problem life throws at you,
that you will try as hard as you can to help
yourself. You acknowledge that sometimes
your efforts to help yourself may not result
in success, as often being properly
rewarded is not in your control”.
How to build Self Confidence: 12 Steps
1. RECOGNIZE YOUR
INSECURITIES
o Whatever is making
you feel unworthy,
ashamed, or inferior,
identify it, give it a
name, and write it
down. You can also
tear these written
pieces to start
feeling positive on
those points.
2. TALK TO FRIENDS
AND LOVED ONES
o Get to the root of the
problem, speak to
someone to let it out
and make it easier.
Learn to accept
yourself.
3.BOUNCE BACK FROM
YOUR MISTAKES
o Remember that no one
is perfect. Even the most
confident people have
insecurities. At some
point in any of our lives,
we may feel we lack
something. That is
reality.
o Everyone isgood at
something, so discover
the things at whichyou
excel, thenfocus on
your talents.Give
yourself permissionto
take pride inthem.
Giveyourself creditfor
your successes.
4. IDENTIFY YOUR
SUCCESSES
 A lot of the times, at
the root of insecurity
and lack of
confidence is a
feeling of not
having enough of
something, whether
it's emotional
validation, good
luck, money, etc.
5. BE THANKFUL
FOR WHAT YOU
HAVE
 By acknowledging and
appreciating what you do
have, you can combat the
feeling of being incomplete
and unsatisfied. Finding
that inner peace will do
wonders for your
confidence.
6. BE POSITIVE
o Avoid self-pity, or the pity
and sympathy of others.
Never allow others to
make you feel inferior--
they can only do so if you
let them. If you continue
to loathe and belittle
yourself, others are going
to do and believe likewise.
o Instead, speak
positively about
yourself, about your
future, and about your
progress.
7. ACCEPT COMPLAINTS
GRACEFULLY
o Don't roll your eyes and
say, "Yeah, right," or
shrug it off. Take it to
heart and respond
positively("Thank you"
and a smile works well).
8. LOOK AT THE MIRROR
AND SMILE
o Studies surrounding
what's called the "facial
feedback theory" suggest
that the expressions on
your face can actually
encourage your brain to
register certain emotions.
o So by looking in the
mirror and smiling every
day, you might feel
happier with yourself and
more confident in the
long run.
9. FAKE IT
o Along the same lines of
smiling to make yourself
feel happy, acting
confident might actually
make you believe it.
Pretend you're a
completely confident
version of you; go
through the motions and
see how you feel!
10. STICK TO YOUR
PRINCIPLES
o It might be tough, but if
you don't have something
you can believe in, you
don't have anything. If you
don't stand for something,
you will fall for anything.
o No matter what's
happened in your life, you
can always lay claim to
the fact that from this day
forward, you've followed
your principles to the best
of your ability.
11. HELP OTHERS
o When you know you're
kind to the people around
you, and are making a
positive difference in
other people's lives (even
if it's just being kinder to
the person who serves
you coffee in the
morning), you'll know that
you are a positive force in
the world--which will
boost your self
confidence.
12. AVOID PERFECTIONISM
o Perfectionism paralyzes you and keeps you
from accomplishing your goals.
BASIC NEEDS THAT FORM
OUR IDENTITY
Need to Feel
Loved & Accepted:
•sense of Belonging
1
Need to Feel
Valued &
Acceptable:
•A sense of
Worthiness
2
Need to Feel
Adequate:
•A sense of
Competence
3
SUMMING UP…
The'self-image'isthekey tohuman
personalityandhumanbehavior
.Changethe
self imageandyouchangethepersonalityand
thebehaviour
.
Maxwell Maltz

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Self Image.pdf

  • 2. o Positive thinking isa mental attitude that admits into the mind thoughts, words and images that are conducive to growth,expansion and success. o Itisa mental attitude that expects good and favorable results. o A positive mind anticipates happiness, joy,health and a successful outcome of every situation and action. o Positive thinking helps with stress management and caneven improve one’shealth. POSITIVE THINKING
  • 3. 𝗈 Self-image is how you view yourself, your characteristics and abilities. 𝗈 It is the value you place on yourself and how worthy you feel. 𝗈 Self-image is influenced by your self- esteem and your body image. SELF IMAGE
  • 4.
  • 5. FACTORS THAT AFFECT ONE’S SELF-IMAGE  Peers  Friends  Mentors  Parents  Teachers  Media  Television  Movies  Magazines  S uc c esses  Failures
  • 6. Women In The Media •Women are used much more than men •Media teaches women to measure themselves in terms of physical appearance •Standards of beauty are unattainable for most women •Media uses young females who are on strict diets or starving to portray the images of beauty •Young women see models in the media and feel the need to look like them to be attractive
  • 7. TWO TYPES OF FUNCT IONS: Latent Function • Unrecognized by the media Consumers can view any fashion magazine and see multiple adds with subliminal, if not direct, messages “In 1992, the ten most popular magazines most commonly read by men and women were reviewed for ads and articles related to weight loss. The women’s magazines contained 10.5 times more articles related to dieting and weight loss than did the man’s magazines.” Manifest Function • Can be applied to the desired intent of the advertiser • They use the human image and its sexuality to create interest in a product by appealing to the desires of the person • Pictures of beautiful models are shown in hopes that the viewer will see it and think that they need the product to obtain that level of human perfection • Has proven itself over time to be effective
  • 9. Research Are appearances misusedin the media? 11% 17% 72% Yes No UnDecided
  • 10. Research Has fashion in media affected you? 26% 55% 19% Yes No Sometimes
  • 11. SELF-IMAGE: The way we see ourselves SELF-ESTEEM: The way we feel about ourselves SELF CONFIDENCE: Belief about our ability to do something
  • 12. Causes of poor Self-Image Negative Environment Unfair or Unnecessary Comparison Lack of self awareness Negative Self talk Unrealistic Expectations
  • 13. STEPS TO BUILD A POSITIVE SELF IMAGE:  Take inventory: Make a list of all your strengths and weaknesses.  Set goals.  Associate with people of high moral character.  Accept responsibility.  Give yourself positive autosuggestions.
  • 14. DEFINITION: SELF CONFIDENCE  Self confidence relates to self- assuredness in one’s personal judgment, ability ,power etc.  Freedom from doubt; belief in yourself and your abilities.  Famous Quote on Self Confidence by Raj Persaud “Promise yourself, no matter how difficult the problem life throws at you, that you will try as hard as you can to help yourself. You acknowledge that sometimes your efforts to help yourself may not result in success, as often being properly rewarded is not in your control”.
  • 15. How to build Self Confidence: 12 Steps 1. RECOGNIZE YOUR INSECURITIES o Whatever is making you feel unworthy, ashamed, or inferior, identify it, give it a name, and write it down. You can also tear these written pieces to start feeling positive on those points. 2. TALK TO FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES o Get to the root of the problem, speak to someone to let it out and make it easier. Learn to accept yourself.
  • 16. 3.BOUNCE BACK FROM YOUR MISTAKES o Remember that no one is perfect. Even the most confident people have insecurities. At some point in any of our lives, we may feel we lack something. That is reality. o Everyone isgood at something, so discover the things at whichyou excel, thenfocus on your talents.Give yourself permissionto take pride inthem. Giveyourself creditfor your successes. 4. IDENTIFY YOUR SUCCESSES
  • 17.  A lot of the times, at the root of insecurity and lack of confidence is a feeling of not having enough of something, whether it's emotional validation, good luck, money, etc. 5. BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE  By acknowledging and appreciating what you do have, you can combat the feeling of being incomplete and unsatisfied. Finding that inner peace will do wonders for your confidence.
  • 18. 6. BE POSITIVE o Avoid self-pity, or the pity and sympathy of others. Never allow others to make you feel inferior-- they can only do so if you let them. If you continue to loathe and belittle yourself, others are going to do and believe likewise. o Instead, speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about your progress. 7. ACCEPT COMPLAINTS GRACEFULLY o Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively("Thank you" and a smile works well).
  • 19. 8. LOOK AT THE MIRROR AND SMILE o Studies surrounding what's called the "facial feedback theory" suggest that the expressions on your face can actually encourage your brain to register certain emotions. o So by looking in the mirror and smiling every day, you might feel happier with yourself and more confident in the long run. 9. FAKE IT o Along the same lines of smiling to make yourself feel happy, acting confident might actually make you believe it. Pretend you're a completely confident version of you; go through the motions and see how you feel!
  • 20. 10. STICK TO YOUR PRINCIPLES o It might be tough, but if you don't have something you can believe in, you don't have anything. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything. o No matter what's happened in your life, you can always lay claim to the fact that from this day forward, you've followed your principles to the best of your ability. 11. HELP OTHERS o When you know you're kind to the people around you, and are making a positive difference in other people's lives (even if it's just being kinder to the person who serves you coffee in the morning), you'll know that you are a positive force in the world--which will boost your self confidence.
  • 21. 12. AVOID PERFECTIONISM o Perfectionism paralyzes you and keeps you from accomplishing your goals.
  • 22. BASIC NEEDS THAT FORM OUR IDENTITY Need to Feel Loved & Accepted: •sense of Belonging 1 Need to Feel Valued & Acceptable: •A sense of Worthiness 2 Need to Feel Adequate: •A sense of Competence 3
  • 23. SUMMING UP… The'self-image'isthekey tohuman personalityandhumanbehavior .Changethe self imageandyouchangethepersonalityand thebehaviour . Maxwell Maltz