8 Simple and Powerful Tips To Attract and Keep a Man By Ori Ben

3. Eat Men For Breakfast
8 Simple and Powerful Tips To Attract
and Keep a Man
By Ori Ben
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4. 16 Powerful Ways To Attract Men
by Nick Bastion
How To Attract The Men You Want
1. Manage your mood
2. Have fun
3. Don’t compare yourself to other women
4. Do what feels comfortable
5. Know yourself
6. Makeup
7. Fitness/Diet
8. Clothing
9. Hair
10. Smell
11. Hair “down there”
12. Touch yourself in front of him and let him watch
13. Be a lady in the streets and a “freak” in the sheets
14. Make your pleasure a priority too
15. Tease him
16. Don’t be afraid to be yourself
+ Some Really Blunt (And Explicit)
Tips To Attract The Men You Want
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5. Contents
Introduction 7
Who am I Not 9
Men are different, accept it!
12
So what drives men? 15
Tip #1-Do not make the first
move! 16
Tip #2- Pay him a compliment,
but… 18
Tip #3- Act dumb in front of his
friends. 21

6. Tip #4- Chill out! 23
Tip #5 Do not take relationship advice
from the following… 26
Tip #6 Space is of the Essence
28
Tip # 7 Stay Fresh 31
Tip # 8 Sex on the first date?
Really? 32
Final Note 35
Please Review 36

7. Introduction
The key to success in any battle is
knowing your enemy. Now in the
classic, never ending battle of the sexes,
an enemy might be too strong of a word,
but any woman who desires to have
more success with men, must know and
understand, how men think and what
drives them in order to make herself
more appealing to them. Some of the

8. tips mentioned in this e-book are just
plain stating the obvious. That being
said, this book will show you how to
take advantage of this information and
use it successfully. A lot of times in life,
people (not just women) have the
knowledge of something but they don’t
really understand it or know how to use
it properly. You may know that men
want sex most of the time, but do you
understand how to use this knowledge to

9. your advantage? (And no, the answer
isn’t giving it to him whenever he feels
like it). Hopefully this humble e-book
will help you understand some of the
basics facts and truths about the inner
lives men, and how to use this
information to come on top.

13. Who am I Not
Dear Ladies (and some Gentleman
maybe?). I’m not a relationship
doctor/Guru. I wasn’t featured on the
NY Times or the Today Show and I
didn’t conduct any scientific research at
a fancy university about the nature of
relationship between men and women.
I’m just a man who knows what men

14. look for in women. What buttons you
need to push and which behaviors you
need to avoid when interacting with
men. I mean, if you want to know how to
get a man and keep him you need to ask a
man right? Some of the stuff you will
read here might not be politically correct
or in line with the feminist movement,
but I’m not a feminist (Not a chauvinist
either) and I don’t believe in saying

15. what’s politically correct (I rather say
what’s correct). I believe some things in
the relationships between men and
women have not changed since the
beginning of time; they are just wrapped
differently today. The purpose of this
book is to help women to better
understand a men’s mind so they can
have more success in their interactions
and relationships with men. I see women
every day making silly mistakes when

16. dealing with men and I think it’s a shame
because both sides are potentially losing
great, long term relationships if it
weren’t for these mistakes. Don’t get me
wrong, men have responsibility and they
make mistakes too, but I can only write
and give my opinion on relationship as a
man and from a man’s point of view.
When I want to know how women think,
I’m seeking for a woman’s advice. Of

17. course this e-book is general guide and
can’t give an answer to every situation
you encounter with men, and of course
this e-book doesn’t apply to all men, but
it will definitely give you some
important pointers . So, start paying
attention, we’re getting started!

20. Men are different,
accept it!
The first thing you must understand and
accept when interacting with men is that
men are different than women, period, 3
exclamation points. When a woman
looks at a men she can tell a lot about
him by his body language, dress style ton

21. of voice. Some women do it consciously
some subconsciously but they still can
make a fairly good judgment on a man’s
character on a first impression.
Men on the other hand are different; they
are more visual and generally speaking,
are not as intuitive as women and not as
good in reading nonverbal
communication. Does that mean men are
attracted to women based on just looks?

22. Absolutely not , but most of the thoughts
that goes through a man’s mind when he
sees a women are related to sex, while
with women most thoughts are related to
what kind of father, provider and
protector of me and our future family this
guy will be. These thoughts may be
subconscious but they are there. In
dummy language:
Men see women- Piece of meat.

23. Woman sees man- Tarzan.
Men feel closer to women through
activities that are more physical and
“active” in nature, i.e. sports,
competition, outdoor activities or sexual
activities. Women, on the other hand,
feel closer through dialogue and intimate
sharing of experience. Many men tend to
find such sharing activities
uncomfortable, and sometimes

24. overwhelming.
Another example to demonstrate how
men think and behave differently is
related to problem solving. For men,
solving a problem presents an
opportunity to demonstrate their
competence (think about the infamous
not asking for directions instance). For
women solving a problem presents an
opportunity to share and discuss the

25. problem, it presents an opportunity to
explore, deepen or strengthen the
relationship with the people involved in
the process. So when you and a man you
are interested in/in a relationship with
encounter a problem, he needs to feel
that he is the dominant factor in solving
that problem.
I’m sure that when you are reading this
you are nodding your head and recalling

26. incidents in the past with men that make
more sense now with this information in
mind. Fully digest and remember these
differences. It will help you a great deal.

29. So what drives men?
Yes I know it is 2012, but some things
are so innate that they never change. Men
still need to feel like they are the
breadwinners, hunters and protectors of
their women and generally speaking the
ones who are more dominant in the
relationship. If you don’t give your men
the feeling that he is THE MAN, than
you won’t have a chance of creating or

30. sustaining a relationship. You need to
make a man feel like he is the hunter,
breadwinner, and protector.
Each and every one of the tips listed in
this e-book is playing on these
sentiments men have.
Let’sthink about it from an advertiser
point of view. Whenever you see an
advertisement selling a product or
service for a man, what emotions is the

31. advertiser trying to appeal?
Whether it’s a sports car, Protein
powder or deodorant, advertisers know
what buttons to push in order to make
men buy their product or service. The
message, or the subtext is always the
same: Our product will make you more
appealing because they shows that you
have the money to buy it (breadwinner),
makes you smell better (improves your

32. hunting), or make you stronger
(protector) .
So you need to know how to press these
buttons effectively just like an advertiser
so you can attract a man and keep him.
When dealing with a man start thinking
what he is looking to buy and how you
are selling it to him.

34. Tip #1-Do not make
the first move!
Men say they like a woman to ask a guy
out? I don’t think so. Yes it is a nice
boost on a men’s ego but it also takes the
chase away from the equation and
remember men need to feel like hunters.
Men think that a woman who ask a guy
out is too easy to get or probably too

35. desperate for attention, both sentiments
are not good for you. You need to make
him work for your affection and hunt you
down. Now I know sometimes you
might see a cute guy at a bar and you
want to get his attention. There are
subtle ways to do it without approaching
him and asking him out or asking for his
number. One way is body language
signals, now I know I said men are not
as good as women in reading nonverbal

36. communication but that don’t mean they
can’t read at all! Body language is huge
topic of its own and I recommend
reading more about it in this excellent
book. The other way to make him notice
you is to initiate a friendly conversation:
“Hi, it’s my first time here, do you know
where the restrooms are?” or “Knicks
fan? (assuming he’s wearing a Knicks
shirt) they alright I guess but the Nets are

37. the best!” Trust me it the men you’re
after is interested in you he’ll know how
to keep the conversation going from
these small initiatives without thinking
you made a move on him, just find a
way to engage him by saying something
controversial, related to something he
wears/doing or use body language
signals.

40. Tip #2- Pay him a
compliment, but…
Everyone likes a compliment, But men
unlike women, think all compliments
addressed to them are true. Pay a guy
you like a compliment and he’ll think of
you fondly from that moment forward.
One word of caution, the compliment

41. needs to be subtle and nonchalant, here
are a few examples:
“I can tell you work out”
“This shirt looks good on you”
“I like the way you handled that
situation”
“You made me smile, I like it “
Here are a few examples of what not too
say:

42. “OMG, you’re so hot”
“I can’t wait to be alone with you”
“I bet women are hitting on you all the
time.
You want to make him feel like a king,
but not king of the world. If he feels like
he already got you in his pocket, and gets
cocky (for no real reason), he won’t feel
the need to “hunt” you anymore, and
that’s game over for you.

43. Appeal to his ego and keep his hunting
instinct alive!

46. Tip #3- Act dumb in
front of his friends.
Hold on, let me explain before you get
all mad. Men have huge egos as you
probably know and you must nurture
your man’s ego. When a man introduces
you to his friends, you need to make him
look good. So the first few times you

47. meet his friends, keep conversation light,
act like his cheerleader and keep your
opinions about politics, abortions, and
other hot topics to yourself. Why you
ask?
1) It would make you look cute and
adorable.
2) It will make your guy look
smarter and in control more than
he really is.

48. 3) It will make your guy want to
spend more time with you. (Solo
and Social)
So at least in the beginning it should be
more about how he looks when you are
on his arm than how he looks when you
are bending his arm.
Don’t get me wrong I’m not asking you
to act like a complete idiot. But if you
look smarter and sharper than he is in

49. front of his friends it can be a real hit to
his ego.
When around his friends also refrain
from:
1. Making fun of him.
2. Starting an argument about
something that bothers you.
3. Getting into an argument with his
friends.

50. 4. Boss him around.

52. Tip #4- Chill out!
Men don’t like overly emotional,
dramatic women. When you let your
emotions control your behavior you are
not yourself, it makes you look needy
instead of confident.
And when that happen it will make your
men feel like he is not in control. And a

53. man that feels like he is not in control
will not feel man enough. Think about it,
if you get insanely jealous when he is
talking to another woman or checks out
another woman, do you think that makes
him feel good? It doesn’t, it’s
emasculating and if you want to see him
again you need to learn to control your
feelings.
Women get jealous for 2 main reasons:

54. 1. Lack of self-confidence.
2. Constantly comparing themselves
to other women.
So you need to learn to overcome this
feelings, remember that if a man chooses
to spend time with you there is
something special about you that he sees,
and you should act like a special
someone, other women may have other
“assets” (physical or intellectual) but

55. remember you have your own assets
and you need to show them off.
If you still have that jealousy virus in
you try one or all of the following:
1. Go to a room, lock the door and
bang your head against the wall.
2. Hit a punching bag.
3. Go for a run.

56. Whatever works for you. But do not let
him see the crazy you, do not let him feel
like he is losing control! If you act
needy you look pathetic, if you act
confident you look sexy!

59. Tip #5 Do not take
relationship advice
from the following…
If you were to start a business and were
seeking an advice about starting a new
business, would you take it from your
friend who is an employee for a

60. company or a friend who owns a
company?
When it comes to relationships, take
advice from people who are in a
relationship, instead of your single
girlfriends for example. Talk to men if
you want to know how to attract men, we
know what we want (light bulb)! Talk to
women who are in successful
relationships if you need an advice about

61. how to gain the same kind of
relationships.
You don’t take advice from your single
girlfriends. Are you really going to ask a
bitter friend who can’t get a second date
with a guy for relationship advice? She
will just give you false advice and fill
you with all her negative energy. If you
want to end up frustrated and depressed
like you single friends, than by all mean

62. have that conversation. But if you are
reading this book I’m assuming you are a
positive person and are seeking positive
advices.
Get Advice about relationships and men
either from men or women in successful
relationships, and stay away from
negative people. Simple enough right?

65. Tip #6 Space is of the
Essence
Constantly sticking to a man and
following him around is not the way to
win him over. If he likes you, he will be
looking for your company, if he doesn’t
like you, you can’t make him too. Again
,you don’t want to come off as needy, he

66. needs to do the hunting, if you’re stuck to
him and demanding his attention 24/7 he
will pull away for sure. If you want to
spend more time with him than he may
want at a certain point you can do so by
offering him something you know he
can’t say no to, a little incentive.
“Oh you’re busy tonight? That’s a
shame, I have 2 tickets to tonight’s game
and thought you’d like to come with me”

67. “I cooked this amazing meal and have
more than I can eat so why don’t I drop
by for a few minutes with a plate, it’s a
shame to let it go to waste.”
That way you’ll earn some time with him
and some brownie points. But most
importantly, you won’t come off as
needy and dependent.
Again, you can’t make anyone (men or
women) like you or want to spend time

68. with you. So if he doesn’t call back, or
doesn’t spend as much time with you as
you like, trying to force him too won’t
do you any good. You can’t win all the
time, no one can. Sometime it’s best to
move on.

71. Tip # 7 Stay Fresh
Ok I know this one is pretty obvious, and
you don’t need to read this book to
remember to shave your legs, tweeze
your eyebrows, dress sexy, exercise and
keep yourself smelling good. But I want
you to understand why men will
appreciate you more if you will look
good for them. Men always look at their
women as some kind of trophy or prize

72. they won due to their wooing skills and
efforts. As such, they want to show their
women off to their friends, family, or
anyone really. If you keep your
appearance fresh you will look good not
just on the outside but your confidence
will glow from the inside as well. When
a man sees that you dress up and look
sexy for him, it is a great compliment
and ego boost for him.

73. Another aspect of your exterior
appearance is the way you carry
yourself. Walking with your head high,
maintain eye contact in the
conversations, laughing from his jocks,
smiling, and touching his arm gently
every now and then. All these things (
and as I mentioned before you can learn
a lot more on body language from this
excellent book ) make you look more

74. confident and confident=sexy.

76. Tip # 8 Sex on the first
date? Really?
Sex on the first date is the worst thing
you can do if you want to pursue a long
term relationships with a guy. I can tell
you from personal experience that a
woman has no chance of getting more
than 3 dates with a man that she slept

77. with on the first date. Of course there are
exceptions but there are a few reasons
why it’s a bad idea. Sex on the first
date:
1) Kills the anticipation- If you
going to give it away the first time,
his anticipation to see you again
will drop 90%. Because in a way
he already got his. Remember
men are different; we think about

78. sex all the time and drive towards
that goal all the time. So if you
sleep with him on the first date he
can mark 1 conquest of his check
list and move on the next.
2) Kills our interest- Once you sleep
with him this early, even if you get
a second date, he won’t be as
interested or interested at all to get
to know you as a person (and not

79. just as a sex body).
3) Kills our respect for you- Yes,
he will think you’re a slut, he may
not say it, but deep down that’s
how he will look at you from now
on, and that’s a very tough label to
wash off, trust me. Also and
please correct me if I’m wrong on
this one- if you ever had sex on the
first date, didn’t it make you feel,

80. even just a little, how do I put this
gently, like a slut?
4) Kills our challenge to conquer- If
a man is going hunting and all the
animals are lining up and ask him
to shoot them, do you think he will
enjoy or appreciate his hunting
trip? If you give the hunter what he
is hunting without him making an
effort, he won’t hunt anymore.

81. Well he will go hunting again, just
for other women. He needs to feel
that getting in your pants is one big
challenge or he’ll get bored and
walk away.
Here is the good thing about sex though
for you ladies. When used properly it is
the ultimate weapon to break a man. Like
in classical conditioning we need to
learn that sex is a treat for good

82. behavior. You can give him a feeling of
what he has coming if he plays his cards
right (i.e. fulfill your expectations) to
keep him going, and chasing you. And
only when you feel like he respects you
and treats you right you can consider
letting him in (literarily). But even when
you had sex with him, he doesn’t need to
feel like the door is open and he can
walk in anytime he wants. He still needs
to work for it, so make him work for it!

83. It will keep your relationship alive,
spicy and exciting!

87. Final Note
Ok after reading this guide, Now you can
win any man’s heart ! Noooooot.
But hopefully the insights provided here
our twisted mind and way of thinking
will help you better understand how to
conduct yourself when dealing with men.
Remember that the things that drive men
are totally different than the things that
drive women as discussed at the

88. beginning, while you may not like it, you
have to understand and act according to
it if you want to win a man’s heart.
Remember that you need to make a man
feel like he is your hunter,
breadwinner, and protector. That
doesn’t mean you can’t earn more than
him, or that you can’t make a subtle first
move, but it’s your job to keep his basic
men instincts alive , if you want to

89. maintain a good relationship with him.
Go over each and every one of the tips
provided and grade yourself on a 1-10
scale for each of them. See where you
can improve and how. Also, run some
tests on the effectiveness of these tips
and see how they work in real life. Try
to make a subtle first move as described
in tip # 2, be approachable and easy
going around his friends(tip #3), let him

90. pursue your presence and not the other
way around(tip #6). I guarantee you will
see the positive outcomes instantly. And
even if you don’t, keep in mind that not
all men are born equal, but this guide
defiantly relates to 85% of them.

91. Please Review
What inspired me to write this e-book
was years of watching the mistakes that
women make when dealing with men.
Mistakes that a lot of time gets the
relationship or what could have been a
relationship down the drain.
Whether your goal in reading this e-book
was to learn how to attract a man, keep a
man, or just wanted a good read on to
pass a flight I hope this e-book served
that goal.
In the next page you will be given the
opportunity to review this e-book. I

92. would appreciate it if you take 2 minutes
to give your honest review.
Wishing you all the best,
Ori Ben