Presented by: Agita Pasaribu, S.H.,M.A Live webinar with Faculty of Law and Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Merdeka Malang. Webinar: https://youtu.be/NOJhUMEAcO4 Get to know more about Bullyid Indonesia: http://bullyid.org/ contact@bullyid.org

1. Ways to cope with being bullied and
cyberbullied at University
CYBERBULLYING
stop normalizing Agita Pasaribu, S.H., M.A
Founder & Chairwoman
Bullyid Indonesia
http://bully.id/
*Konten dalam presentasi ini adalah murni untuk bahan edukasi

2. Agita Pasaribu - http://bully.id/
What's happening
during COVID-19
Sorce: SAFENET, Never Okay Project, 2020
Sorce: KPPPA, 2020
Sorce: KPPPA, 2020

3. Agita Pasaribu - http://bully.id/
Why our discussion
matters

4. Bullying
vs
Cyberbullyig
Anonymity
Anywhere
& Anytime
Go Viral
Less guilty
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Sorce: Ailtje's Blog

5. Round 1
Type of
Cyberbullying
Flaming
P
Pertengkaran dengan melibatkan kemarahan &
bahasa vulgar yang dilakukan via pesan elektronik.
Harassment
Melontarkan pesan buruk, ancaman, hinaan yang kejam
secara berulang-ulang
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Denigration
Tindakan membenci/menghina seseorang di ranah siber
dengan cara mengirim/memuat rumor tertentu untuk
merusak reputasi seseorang
Impersonation
Memalsukan akun atau berpura-pura menjadi orang lain,
kemudian bertindak seperti orang tersebut dengan
menyebarluaskan informasi sensitif yang mengakibatkan
rusaknya reputasi Sorce: @tirta_hudhi's twitter

6. Tindakan seseorang yang meminta
anak untuk di cekik, dipukul, dianiaya
dan ditelanjangi atau diminta untuk
melakukan kegiatan seksual yang
disiarkan online. Umumnya predators
akan meminta salah satu dari keluarga
anak sebagai mediator/penganiaya.
Hal ini umumnya diiming-iming dengan
pemberian uang yang berujung
perdagangan anak.
Atau ancaman menyebar konten
pribadi ke publik, kerap dilakukan
orang terdekat. Pelaku revenge porn
adalah orang yg memiliki hubungan
dekat dengan korban, ancaman
dengan mengumbar informasi sensitif
ini umumnya dilakukan karena
perasaan balas dendam akibat putus
cinta, ingin menjatuhkan reputasi dan
martabat korban
Sorce: Tribunnews, 2019
Livestreaming Child
Sexual Abuse
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Revenge Porn
"The impact on the children
can be for a lifetime. Some
of these children will never
fully recover"
Detective Sergeant Marshall to ABC News, 2020

7. Sorce: Out of the shadow report, 2019
Child Grooming
Upaya yang dilakukan seseorang untuk membangun hubungan,
kepercayaan, dan hubungan emosional dengan seorang anak atau remaja
sehingga mereka dapat memanipulasi, mengeksploitasi, dan melecehkan
mereka
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8. Indicating a relationship with cyberbullying
cited interpersonal conflict and tension
(the person is, or their posts are, annoying, inappropriate,
negative, hurtful, revenge porn or they had a falling-out or a
breakup)
Cases we receive
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9. Indicating a relationship with cyberbullying
cited interpersonal conflict and tension
(the person is, or their posts are, annoying, inappropriate,
negative, hurtful, revenge porn or they had a falling-out or a
breakup)
Indicating self-protection
(the person had harassed, stalked, or bullied them; they found
the person’s posts offensive;
or they did not want to give them access to their personal
information)
they are no longer in contact with that person
the person is not part of their life offline
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Cases we receive

10. Sorce: ANI News, 2019
Decreased Self-Esteem Bullying of all kinds is often detrimental to the victim’s
self-esteem. Victims may believe that all of their peers dislike them and
develop issues with trust and confidence.
Emotional Distress Cyberbullying can lead to a shift in mood or emotion in the
victim. The constant stress of the attacks can make victims prone to outbursts
of frustration, sadness, or anger as they try to cope with the bullying.
Physical Symptoms Victims may begin to develop frequent headaches,
stomach aches, and have trouble sleeping. Though they are not attacked
physically by the bully, the ongoing stress of the harassment may still take a
physical toll as the victim grows increasingly stressed and anxious.
Depression Cyberbullying can cause victims to develop depression. The
constant stress and lowered self-esteem can cause them to feel hopeless,
unloved, and sadness.
Suicidal Thoughts About 20 percent of cyberbullying victims seriously consider
suicide. Bullying does not directly cause victims to commit suicide, but it does
put them at a higher risk of doing so.
The Impact
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Sorce: Maryville University

11. Sorce: Disruptive Asia, 2019
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The Impact

12. Relevant Laws
Undang-Undang No. 23 Tahun 2002
tentang Perlindungan Anak, dan
revisinya UU No. 35 Tahun 2014 dan
revisi UU No. 16 Tahun 2017
Undang-Undang Nomor 39 Tahun
2009 Tentang Hak Asasi Manusia
Pasal 30 dan Pasal 35
Kitab Undang-Undang Hukum Pidana
(KUHP) Pasal 282, Pasal 283, Pasal
532
Kitab Undang-Undang Hukum Pidana
(KUHP) Pasal 289 sampai dengan
Pasal 296
Undang-Undang Nomor 19 Tahun
2016 Tentang Informasi dan
Transaksi Elektronik (ITE) Pasal 27
Undang-Undang Nomor 44 Tahun
2008 Tentang Pornografi Pasal 4
ayat 1
Undang-Undang Nomor 13 Tahun
2006 Perlindungan Saksi dan Korban
Pasal 1 ayat (2)
Surat Edaran Kepala Kepolisian Negara
Republik Indonesia Nomor SE/6/X/2015
Tahun 2015 tentang Penanganan Ujaran
Kebencian (Hate Speech)
Kitab Undang-Undang Hukum Pidana
(KUHP) Pasal 310, 311, 315, 317 dan
Pasal 318
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13. 1 Screenshot chat/photo/video dari cyberbullying,
untuk bisa menjadi barang bukti untuk pelaporan
What you can do?
2 Jangan balas apabila ada yang melakukan
cyberbullying
Jangan balas apabila ada yang meng-iming iming
uang, popularitas, dan menyuruh untuk melakukan
sesuatu. Example: membuka baju, memperlihatkan alat
kelamin, dll.
3 "Report" dan "Block" account yang bersangkutan
4 Talk to someone you trust, because human interaction
is a key. Don't keep this all alone
5 Report this to police, you're helping to create our online
community to be a better and safer place for everyone
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Sorce: Time Magazine, 2019

14. 1
Set-up bullying & cyberbullying policies and
procedures to protect students. (E.g. suspend or
expel students who participate in cyberbullying)
What University can do?
2 Provide students with anonymous report platform
3
Focus on bystanders; awareness, empathy, and
action
4
Provide emotional support for students and educate
them with legal consequences knowledge
5 Take cyberbullying cases seriously, change requires
action from lectures, University officials, parents and
bystanders to create better environment for everyone
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Bystander
They witness
They can support the victim
They can advice bullies to stop
They can mediate a fight
They can stop and take actions if they're protected

15. 1
Be an active listener, engage with your children's
activities, communicate with them and count their
opinions in.
What parents can do?
2 Find the right vocabulary.
When talking with your teenager about their
schoolwork, or other isolation issues, strive to avoid
the accusatory use of ‘you’ and reframe what you
want to say using ‘I’ instead. Try the concrete use of
‘when’ instead of ‘if’ to help with motivation.
3
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Reserve judgement.
Withhold your own judgement and instead use
exploratory language to help them identify their own
solution.

16. What Bully.id does
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17. What Bully.id does
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