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Realities of Life
Represented by
ER. Manas Ranjan bhoi
Contain:-
• what is life.
• purpose of life.
• Success of life.
• Realities of Life.
what is life?
• I say its from “B” to “D”.
• From birthday to Death.
• But what’s between “B” and “D”?
• It is a “C” So what is a “C”?
• It is a Choice.
• Our life is a matter of choices,
• Live well and it will never GO WRONG.
About Birthday and Death day:-
• According to my point of view “When a person totally independent
to others, In this time his/her real birth.”
• And about Death “When we forget this person inside our heart then
he is death otherwise live, only death his body .”
• We all are celebrating every years in his birth day date, It not birthday
it is birth anniversary. So no anyone say happy birthday it is wrong,
everyone say happy birth anniversary.
purpose of human life?
The mission of human life is to end the miseries of material
existence and attain a blissful life. We are constantly searching
after happiness, but we often fail in our pursuit. We may get a
glimpse of happiness, but it does not last forever. We do not
want miseries, but we cannot avoid them.
Success of life.
So, here are my 10 best tips for achieving anything you want in life.
• Focus on commitment, not motivation. ...
• Seek knowledge, not results. ...
• Make the journey fun. ...
• Get rid of stagnating thoughts. ...
• Use your imagination. ...
• Stop being nice to yourself. ...
• Get rid of distractions. ...
• Don't rely on others…… …..
• Plan…. …..
• Project yourself from burnout….. …..
Focus on commitment, not motivation. ...
Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you,
and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find
yourself fully committed, motivation will follow.
Seek knowledge, not results.
If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improving, exploring and
experimenting, your motivation will always be fueled. If you focus
only on results, your motivation will be like weather—it will die the
minute you hit a storm. So the key is to focus on the journey, not the
destination. Keep thinking about what you are learning along the
way and what you can improve.
Make the journey fun.
It’s an awesome game! The minute you make it serious, there’s a big
chance it will start carrying a heavy emotional weight and you will lose
perspective and become stuck again.
Get rid of stagnating thoughts.
Thoughts influence feelings and feelings determine how you view your
work. You have a lot of thoughts in your head, and you always have a
choice of which ones to focus on: the ones that will make you
emotionally stuck (fears, doubts) or the ones that will move you
forward (excitement, experimenting, trying new things, stepping out of
your comfort zone).
Use your imagination.
Next step after getting rid of negative thoughts is to use your
imagination. When things go well, you are full of positive energy, and
when you are experiencing difficulties, you need to be even more
energetic. So rename your situation. If you keep repeating I hate my
work, guess which feelings those words will evoke? It’s a matter of
imagination! You can always find something to learn even from the
worst boss in the world at the most boring job. I have a great exercise
for you: Just for three days, think and say positive things only. See what
happens.
Stop being nice to yourself.
Motivation means action and action brings results. Sometimes your
actions fail to bring the results you want. So you prefer to be nice to
yourself and not put yourself in a difficult situation. You wait for the
perfect timing, for an opportunity, while you drive yourself into
stagnation and sometimes even into depression. Get out there,
challenge yourself, do something that you want to do even if you are
afraid.
Get rid of distractions.
Meaningless things and distractions will always be in your way,
especially those easy, usual things you would rather do instead of
focusing on new challenging and meaningful projects. Learn to focus on
what is the most important. Write a list of time-wasters and hold
yourself accountable to not do them.
Don’t rely on others.
You should never expect others to do it for you, not even your partner,
friend or boss. They are all busy with their own needs. No one will
make you happy or achieve your goals for you. It’s all on you.
Plan.
Know your three steps forward. You do not need more. Fill out your weekly
calendar, noting when you will do what and how. When-what-how is
important to schedule. Review how each day went by what you learned and
revise what you could improve.
Protect yourself from burnout.
It’s easy to burn out when you are very motivated. Observe yourself to
recognize any signs of tiredness and take time to rest. Your body and mind
rest when you schedule relaxation and fun time into your weekly calendar.
Do diverse tasks, keep switching between something creative and logical,
something physical and still, working alone and with a team. Switch
locations. Meditate, or just take deep breaths, close your eyes, or focus on
one thing for five minutes.
Realities of Life.
• A lot of people dream of having YOUR LIFE.
• More Friends Does Not Necessarily Mean MORE FUN
• Friends are not always reliable
• Expectations always hurt
• You cannot make everyone happy
• Money is everything
• People look for “Kindness” not for “kinds.” Invest in kindness, not in
kinds.
• Everyone is a bit selfish
A lot of people dream of having YOUR LIFE
• You might not like the life you are living now. But, you are a blessed
one, and you should probably be happy about it.
• You are living in your comfort zone, having an active internet
connection, food to eat, TV to watch and a roof to sleep under.
• Do remember that even if you have only these four basic amenities,
you are richer than 75% of the world’s population. Be happy for what
you, but don’t settle for it.
• The world is progressing rapidly, and you’ll be left behind if you are
entirely content with what you’ve got now.
More Friends Does Not Necessarily Mean MORE
FUN
• There is a misconception among people that higher the number of friends
you’ve, more fun you’ll have.
• The fact is the lesser friends you have, the lesser you have to deal with
shits. Trust me; it doesn’t matter how many friends you have, all that
matters is how many friends you can count upon when you are in need.
• For me, having a single best friend is better than having ten random friends
who aren’t going to be with you for long.
• Most importantly, understand the fact that a friend to all is a friend to
none.
• A single rose can be my garden, a single friend my world.
Friends are not always reliable
• Of course, friends are like the life jackets in a leaking ship. But, they aren’t
always countable. If you have got some superb friends, they will surely try
to help you whenever, and in whatever way they can, however, they won’t
always be able to lend a hand.
• Some life moments are made to be faced alone. You cannot expect anyone
to come and join you in some of those hard time; it is just the way life
works.
• Those are the times when you realize how life works, and who are your
trustable contacts.
• Even though we never wish that you go through such times, but if you do,
make sure that you do not lose hope and just go on the journey.
Expectations always hurt
• Expectations hurt, Period. Life was meant to be lived freely not with
full of unrealistic expectations.
• If you desire/expect something, make sure that you work hard
enough to turn that into a reality sooner or later all by yourself.
• Never expect anything out of someone.
• You can expect things from only one person, on the whole, earth, and
it is – YOU!
You cannot make everyone happy
• Whatever you do, wherever you go, there will always be someone
who will be unhappy with you. They might have a valid reason for it
or might not, but its not something that you should care about.
• Learn to accept that you cannot make everyone like you, just be
yourself, and let the one come into your life who is ready to accept
you just the way you are.
• Moreover being true about your character will make sure that you
never have to fake your emotions.
• Faking is something that causes a lot of mental pain, so avoid it as
much as you can.
Money is everything
• Money isn’t everything, but everything needs money. Who said the
money couldn’t buy happiness? Well, it can. When you have money in
your pocket, you are good enough to get anything and everything you
desire.
• Of course, there are certain things in life which can’t be bought with
money, but we are go through this only.
People look for “Kindness” not for “kinds.”
Invest in kindness, not in kinds.
• Kindness is what the world expects from you. If you gift someone a
cell phone today, they will forget about it after a couple of months,
but, if you help someone in need, they are not going to forget about it
for a long time.
Everyone is a bit selfish
• Some people might act as if they are selfless, but do remember that
nothing is the same as it looks from its outside.
• It is a fact that those SELFLESS people are the most selfish when it
comes to something that’s related to them.
Realities of life

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Realities of life

  • 1. Realities of Life Represented by ER. Manas Ranjan bhoi
  • 2. Contain:- • what is life. • purpose of life. • Success of life. • Realities of Life.
  • 3. what is life? • I say its from “B” to “D”. • From birthday to Death. • But what’s between “B” and “D”? • It is a “C” So what is a “C”? • It is a Choice. • Our life is a matter of choices, • Live well and it will never GO WRONG.
  • 4. About Birthday and Death day:- • According to my point of view “When a person totally independent to others, In this time his/her real birth.” • And about Death “When we forget this person inside our heart then he is death otherwise live, only death his body .” • We all are celebrating every years in his birth day date, It not birthday it is birth anniversary. So no anyone say happy birthday it is wrong, everyone say happy birth anniversary.
  • 5. purpose of human life? The mission of human life is to end the miseries of material existence and attain a blissful life. We are constantly searching after happiness, but we often fail in our pursuit. We may get a glimpse of happiness, but it does not last forever. We do not want miseries, but we cannot avoid them.
  • 6. Success of life. So, here are my 10 best tips for achieving anything you want in life. • Focus on commitment, not motivation. ... • Seek knowledge, not results. ... • Make the journey fun. ... • Get rid of stagnating thoughts. ... • Use your imagination. ... • Stop being nice to yourself. ... • Get rid of distractions. ... • Don't rely on others…… ….. • Plan…. ….. • Project yourself from burnout….. …..
  • 7. Focus on commitment, not motivation. ... Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you, and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow. Seek knowledge, not results. If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improving, exploring and experimenting, your motivation will always be fueled. If you focus only on results, your motivation will be like weather—it will die the minute you hit a storm. So the key is to focus on the journey, not the destination. Keep thinking about what you are learning along the way and what you can improve.
  • 8. Make the journey fun. It’s an awesome game! The minute you make it serious, there’s a big chance it will start carrying a heavy emotional weight and you will lose perspective and become stuck again. Get rid of stagnating thoughts. Thoughts influence feelings and feelings determine how you view your work. You have a lot of thoughts in your head, and you always have a choice of which ones to focus on: the ones that will make you emotionally stuck (fears, doubts) or the ones that will move you forward (excitement, experimenting, trying new things, stepping out of your comfort zone).
  • 9. Use your imagination. Next step after getting rid of negative thoughts is to use your imagination. When things go well, you are full of positive energy, and when you are experiencing difficulties, you need to be even more energetic. So rename your situation. If you keep repeating I hate my work, guess which feelings those words will evoke? It’s a matter of imagination! You can always find something to learn even from the worst boss in the world at the most boring job. I have a great exercise for you: Just for three days, think and say positive things only. See what happens.
  • 10. Stop being nice to yourself. Motivation means action and action brings results. Sometimes your actions fail to bring the results you want. So you prefer to be nice to yourself and not put yourself in a difficult situation. You wait for the perfect timing, for an opportunity, while you drive yourself into stagnation and sometimes even into depression. Get out there, challenge yourself, do something that you want to do even if you are afraid.
  • 11. Get rid of distractions. Meaningless things and distractions will always be in your way, especially those easy, usual things you would rather do instead of focusing on new challenging and meaningful projects. Learn to focus on what is the most important. Write a list of time-wasters and hold yourself accountable to not do them. Don’t rely on others. You should never expect others to do it for you, not even your partner, friend or boss. They are all busy with their own needs. No one will make you happy or achieve your goals for you. It’s all on you.
  • 12. Plan. Know your three steps forward. You do not need more. Fill out your weekly calendar, noting when you will do what and how. When-what-how is important to schedule. Review how each day went by what you learned and revise what you could improve. Protect yourself from burnout. It’s easy to burn out when you are very motivated. Observe yourself to recognize any signs of tiredness and take time to rest. Your body and mind rest when you schedule relaxation and fun time into your weekly calendar. Do diverse tasks, keep switching between something creative and logical, something physical and still, working alone and with a team. Switch locations. Meditate, or just take deep breaths, close your eyes, or focus on one thing for five minutes.
  • 13. Realities of Life. • A lot of people dream of having YOUR LIFE. • More Friends Does Not Necessarily Mean MORE FUN • Friends are not always reliable • Expectations always hurt • You cannot make everyone happy • Money is everything • People look for “Kindness” not for “kinds.” Invest in kindness, not in kinds. • Everyone is a bit selfish
  • 14. A lot of people dream of having YOUR LIFE • You might not like the life you are living now. But, you are a blessed one, and you should probably be happy about it. • You are living in your comfort zone, having an active internet connection, food to eat, TV to watch and a roof to sleep under. • Do remember that even if you have only these four basic amenities, you are richer than 75% of the world’s population. Be happy for what you, but don’t settle for it. • The world is progressing rapidly, and you’ll be left behind if you are entirely content with what you’ve got now.
  • 15. More Friends Does Not Necessarily Mean MORE FUN • There is a misconception among people that higher the number of friends you’ve, more fun you’ll have. • The fact is the lesser friends you have, the lesser you have to deal with shits. Trust me; it doesn’t matter how many friends you have, all that matters is how many friends you can count upon when you are in need. • For me, having a single best friend is better than having ten random friends who aren’t going to be with you for long. • Most importantly, understand the fact that a friend to all is a friend to none. • A single rose can be my garden, a single friend my world.
  • 16. Friends are not always reliable • Of course, friends are like the life jackets in a leaking ship. But, they aren’t always countable. If you have got some superb friends, they will surely try to help you whenever, and in whatever way they can, however, they won’t always be able to lend a hand. • Some life moments are made to be faced alone. You cannot expect anyone to come and join you in some of those hard time; it is just the way life works. • Those are the times when you realize how life works, and who are your trustable contacts. • Even though we never wish that you go through such times, but if you do, make sure that you do not lose hope and just go on the journey.
  • 17. Expectations always hurt • Expectations hurt, Period. Life was meant to be lived freely not with full of unrealistic expectations. • If you desire/expect something, make sure that you work hard enough to turn that into a reality sooner or later all by yourself. • Never expect anything out of someone. • You can expect things from only one person, on the whole, earth, and it is – YOU!
  • 18. You cannot make everyone happy • Whatever you do, wherever you go, there will always be someone who will be unhappy with you. They might have a valid reason for it or might not, but its not something that you should care about. • Learn to accept that you cannot make everyone like you, just be yourself, and let the one come into your life who is ready to accept you just the way you are. • Moreover being true about your character will make sure that you never have to fake your emotions. • Faking is something that causes a lot of mental pain, so avoid it as much as you can.
  • 19. Money is everything • Money isn’t everything, but everything needs money. Who said the money couldn’t buy happiness? Well, it can. When you have money in your pocket, you are good enough to get anything and everything you desire. • Of course, there are certain things in life which can’t be bought with money, but we are go through this only.
  • 20. People look for “Kindness” not for “kinds.” Invest in kindness, not in kinds. • Kindness is what the world expects from you. If you gift someone a cell phone today, they will forget about it after a couple of months, but, if you help someone in need, they are not going to forget about it for a long time.
  • 21. Everyone is a bit selfish • Some people might act as if they are selfless, but do remember that nothing is the same as it looks from its outside. • It is a fact that those SELFLESS people are the most selfish when it comes to something that’s related to them.