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Catalyst 
THE MAGAZINE OF 
HAYES FREE CHURCH (U.R.C.) 
November 2014
HAYES FREE CHURCH 
111, Pickhurst Lane, Hayes, Kent BR2 7HU 
Sunday Services. 10.30 a.m. & 6.30 p.m. 
We are a member of the United Reformed Church. 
We believe in Justice and Peace. 
Principal Contacts 
Minister: Rev. Sue Powell is on a Sabbatical until 1 Dec 
Church Secretary: Mrs Mavis Righini Tel: 020 8462 1168 
NOTE: All enquires to Mavis 
Treasurer: Mr. Simon Narracott Tel: 020 8462 2004 
Lettings Secretary: Mrs Undine Connolly Tel: 020 8776 0108 
Caretaker: Mr. Ian Jones Tel: 020 8313 1556 
Church Website www.hayesfreechurch.com 
Catalyst 
Editor: Mr Richard Brown 
Contents : - Items not covered by the diary of events. 
Sunday Services; 
Notes on preachers; Infill item 2 
Church Notices 3 - 5 
Women’s Fellowship; 
Hayes Horticult’l Society 5 
Coffee mornings’ donations 6 
The Tower of London remembers 7 
Antique & Collectors Fair 8 
Christmas Tree Festival 9 
This month’s website: - 
The website of the month is Lives of the First World. It is part of the 
Imperial War Museum’s website. 
Go to: livesofthefirstworldwar.org 
Now, turn to Page 16 for more details. Ed 
Copy for the December 2014 / January 2015 edition needs to be 
handed in by 
Sunday, 16th November. 
Please submit items in good time. 
You can leave copy in the “B” Pigeon Hole for Richard Brown to collect, 
or hand it directly to him on a Sunday morning. 
You can also e-mail copy to richardmbrown6@gmail.com 
Thank You. Editor 
Notice Board 10 - 11 
Kay Atkinson - Obituary 14 - 15 
Website of the Month; The way 
things once were 16 
Saints’ days in Nov; 
A Christmas Cracker 17 
Hayes Philharmonic Choir; 
Armistice Day 20 
Church Organisations I B C
Letter from the Church Secretary 
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Dear All, 
By the time you read this letter we will 
be at the beginning of November, a time when I worry about 
hibernating hedgehogs. 
Yes, I had to include my prickly friends in one of my letters. 
For 30 years I have had the joy of caring for one of God’s 
creatures and have seen them slowly decline in population to 
the stage where they are now critically endangered. 
It is so sad to think that life has got so difficult for this 
beautiful animal and I use this opportunity to ask all those of 
you who are about to have a bonfire to PLEASE check that no 
hedgehog has moved into the heap, to sleep away the winter. 
Do please be aware that any hedgehogs wandering around in 
daylight are also in need of help. 
It is so easy to take nature, wild life and the beauty of God’s 
creation for granted but it does need us to do our bit, for we 
are custodians of God’s beautiful world. 
My best wishes to you all 
Mavis 
NOTE: - Our Minister is away on her Sabbatical until December 2014. 
So, during that period the Minister’s letter will be written by the 
Church Secretary. Ed
Sunday Services 
November 2014 
2nd 10.30 am - Morning Service - Keith Nye 
6.30 pm - Holy Communion - Judy Davies 
9th 10.30 am - Parade Remembrance Service - Bill Michie 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - Bill Michie 
16th 10.30 am - Morning Service - John Cox 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - Keith Nye 
23rd 10.30 am - Holy Communion - Judy Davies 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - Beckenham U.R.C. Members 
30th 10.30 am - Morning Service - Men's Group 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - The Minister 
December 2014 
7th 10.30 am - Morning Service - Rev. John Marchant 
6.30 pm - Holy Communion - The Minister 
Some notes on the visiting preachers. 
v Keith Nye is one of the readers from St. Mary’s Church at Plaistow 
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Green. 
v Judy Davies is well known to us. She has conducted services at 
HFC on a number of occasions. 
v Beckenham U.R.C. Is our sister church. 
v The Men’s Group is a long standing organisation within HFC. 
v Bill Michie is well known to us all. He is a Lay Preacher at HFC. 
v John Cox is known to us, having conducted services at HFC in 
the past. 
v Revd John Marchant is the assistant minister at Coney Hill Baptist 
Church. He has conducted Sunday Worship at HFC on a 
number of occasions. 
THINGS YOU NEVER HEAR IN CHURCH 
I've decided to give our church the £250.00 a month I used to 
send to TV evangelists.
News of the Church Family 
Announcements are welcome :- 
BMD - Changes of address, etc. 
Announcements: - 
An amount of £400 has been sent to Parkinsons UK in 
memory of Kay Atkinson. Tony is extremely grateful 
to all those friends who contributed to this amount. 
Your prayers would be appreciated for: - 
Jim Pearson, Mike Duke, Ruth Rees, Jessie Martin, Tony Atkinson and 
Helen Hebbes. 
Change of Address:- 
Sarah Humphrey [brownie leader on Monday] has moved to 
241 Queensway, West Wickham BR4 9DX 
Church Meetings 
The next Elders’ meeting will be on Tuesday, 4th November at 8.00 pm 
in the small hall. 
The next Church meeting, will be on Sunday 23rd November at 12.00 
noon – after the morning service. 
Women's Contact Group 
We will be enjoying a lunchtime meal at The Conservative Club, 27 
Elmfield Road, Bromley at 12.30 pm on the 3rd of November, and then 
again on the 1st of December 
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Sylvia Mack 
Tuesday Prayer Meetings for November 
Held at 10.00am at the following homes:- 
4th Martin Nunn’s. 11th Betty Coster’s. 
18th Brenda Cordingley’s. 25th The Church. 
Then in December: - 
2nd Martin Nunn’s. 
Please address any queries to Martin Nunn. 
Saturday Fellowship 
The November meeting will be on the 1st at 2.30pm at Barbara Jones’ 
home. Martin Nunn will be leading a Bible Study. In December we will 
be meeting on the 6th at 2.30pm at the same place. 
You are welcome to join us.
Men's Group 
The next Men’s Group meeting will be on Thursday 20 November, 
when there will be a Bingo evening in the small hall at 8.00 pm led by 
Bruce Tannock. 
Ministry of Flowers 
Thank you to those who will be providing flowers in November. 
A big thank you to those who kindly arrange the flowers when needed. 
2nd - Martin Nunn - i.m.o. Reg Nunn 
- my father, a member here. 
After the Sunday evening services, the flowers are distributed to 
members and friends, bringing joy to the recipients. 
Mavis Righini 
Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Club 
We welcome all babies and children under school age, accompanied 
by their parents, grandparents or carers, to our club on Friday 
afternoons between 2 and 4pm during term time. The fee is £1 per 
family – tea, squash and biscuits are provided. This is a time when 
adults can meet up, while the children in their care are busy playing 
with toys and activities in the company of other children. 
There is no meeting on October 31st during the half term break. 
Our CHRISTMAS PARTY and last meeting of term is on December 5th at 
2.15 pm. 
Tickets priced £2.50 per child will be on sale from November 21st. 
We look forward to seeing you. 
Judith Stoner - Secretary. 
Bible Study Group 
This Group will next meet in January. 
Worship Group 
The Wednesday Reflections Group meets at 6.30pm on the 4th 
Wednesday of each month. 
Linda Michie 
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9th - Sue Powell 
16th - Sylvia and Laurie Mack 23rd - Joan Smith 
30th - Mavis Righini - i.m.o. Mum & Dad 
- Lorna & Gilbert Plater
Book Club 
We meet on the first Thursday of the month at 8.00pm in the small hall. 
Wendy Smith will be taking the lead. 
Notice Sheets – November 
2nd Joan Smith 8462 3920 
9th & 16th Brenda Cordingley 8462 3867 
23rd & 30th Pamela Collison 8658 0748 
December 
7th Joan Smith 
If you require items to be included in the notice sheets, please 
contact the appropriate person by the previous Tuesday. 
Women's Fellowship 
Meetings are in the small hall at 2.00 p.m., unless otherwise stated, 
on Tuesdays and finish about 3.30 p.m. 
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November Meetings: - 
4th June Fox will talk about one of her charity walks. Followed by 
a review of our shoe box project. 
11th Service taken by David Stoner. 
18th Paul Reed from Weller’s Law Group talks about Wills, Power of 
Attorney, and answers questions. 
25th Ann Bartlett will show photographs of one of her holidays. 
December 
2nd Visit to Emmanuel Church (subject to confirmation) 
MINI-AMBULANCE 
Members who use the mini-ambulance are asked to phone 
Marion Swanborough on 8462 3981 by 9.00 am on any Tuesday when 
they are unable to come to the meetings. 
As always, we welcome all ladies to our meetings. Please come along for a 
pleasant afternoon. We do have a very varied programme with plenty to 
interest everyone. 
Marion 
Hayes (Kent) Horticultural Society 
An illustrated talk ‘Secrets of Hever Castle and Gardens’ by Neil Miller, 
Head Gardener on 13th November at 8 pm at Hayes Village Hall. 
Everyone is welcome to join us – Entrance is £2.50 for non-members of 
the Society but members have free entry. 
Brenda Cordingley can give any further information if required.
Women’s Contact Coffee Morning 
We will be holding the next coffee morning 
from 10.00am to 12.00 noon in the Small Hall 
on the 8th of November. 
We are continuing to raise monies to contribute to 
disaster relief funds in different parts of the world. 
We hope to see you at the Coffee Morning, and why not bring a friend? 
Please note that the monies raised from the coffee mornings are 
separate from those raised through the refreshments trolley after 
Sunday morning services. 
Barbara Jones 
The Fairtrade Sunday Stall 
We hold a fair trade stall after the morning service on the 2nd and 4th 
Sunday of each month. 
The stall will be held on the 9th and 23rd of November. 
Please continue to support your fair trade stall. Thank you. 
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Richard and Barbara. 
Action Aid Ebola Emergency Appeal 
From the money collected at Sunday morning coffee-time, I 
have sent a donation of £25.00 to the above appeal. 
Barbara. 
World’s Biggest Coffee Morning 
I have been able to send £70 to Macmillan Cancer Support from 
money raised at our Contact Coffee Morning. 
Every day in our area 77 people find out that they have cancer, 
so every pound raised will help make sure that there is a 
constant source of support for people facing cancer in 
Greater London and across the U.K. 
Barbara.
Catalyst Needs You! 
This page will be kept for YOUR contributions - NOTHING ELSE will go on this page. 
Hopefully, you will be inspired to share some pictures, poetry or stories. 
The Tower of London Remembers 
----------------- 
On the afternoon of Wednesday, 15th October I joined the shift of 
volunteers at the Tower of London 
memorial site to plant poppies. 
The team of 150 was a mixed bunch of 
folk of different nationalities. Most of 
us were over 50 years old. Some had 
travelled from the Midlands and 
beyond especially for this project. 
The weather was kind - it was cloudy 
and remained dry until 15 minutes 
before the shift ended when we 
endured a fine drizzle. However, the 
group’s spirit of camaraderie was not 
dampened. 
Our work was straightforward. We 
assembled the special washers and 
spacer discs which were to hold the 
ceramic poppy heads on their metal 
stems. The planters placed the poppy 
heads onto the stems and pushed the stems into the moat floor. We 
had to take care not to damage any archaeology under the surface 
- i.e. “Don’t hammer the stems into the ground where something hard 
has been found!” 
I am sure many of us shared a 
common sense of purpose in 
volunteering. I believe each of 
us had lost a grandfather or 
great uncle in that awful conflict. 
When the memorial is finished 
there will be over 888,000 
poppies - one for each of the 
British and Commonwealth 
fatalities. 
Overall, I was privileged to have 
contributed a very small part to 
this amazing, temporary memorial. Richard Brown 
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ROTARY CLUB OF LANGLEY PARK & DEAF ACCESS 
Saturday 1stNovember 
2014 
10.00 a.m. – 3.00 p.m. 
AT 
HAYES FREE CHURCH 
PICKHURST LANE 
HAYES 
KENT 
LUNCHES & REFRESHMENTS AVAILABLE 
Interested table holders – tables available David Connolly. 
Tel: 020 8776 0108. 
ENTRANCE £1.00 
Sponsored by: - Ennis-Webb & Co. Solicitors, Wills, Probate, Tax & Trusts 
Elite House, 155 Main Road, Biggin Hill, Kent TN16 3JP 
tel. 01959 577000 
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HAYES FREE CHURCH 
CHRISTMAS TREE FESTIVAL 
IN AID OF DEAF ACCESS 
FROM FRIDAY 28th NOVEMBER to SATURDAY 13th DECEMBER 
The Festival will be open each day from 2.00 pm from 1 December to 6 December. 
The Church will be open at service times each Sunday (10.30 am and 6.30 pm) 
Programme of Entertainment for the Festival 
NOVEMBER 
Friday 28th Opening Concert - The Kaos Signing Choir 
For Deaf & Hearing Children 
They sang at The Opening Ceremony at The 
London 2012 Olympic Games, and have 
appeared at the Royal Albert Hall. 
Plus items from Hayes Free Church performers. 
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All money raised will go to 
Deaf Access in Bromley. 
Registered Charity l050990 
Admission charges: - 
The Silver Lane 7 Jazz Band £8.00 and 
The Velvet Harmony Choir £6.00. 
Tickets from John Moren 020 8460 6726. 
Father Christmas film & tea. 
Children £2.00 Adults £4.00. 
Tickets from John Curry 020 8249 3663. 
7.30 pm 
Saturday 29th The Silver Lane 7 Jazz band 7.30 pm 
Sunday 30th Pickhurst Junior School 6.30 pm 
DECEMBER 
Monday 1st Bishop Justus School 7.30 pm 
Tuesday 2nd Velvet Harmony Ladies Choir 7.30 pm 
Wednesday 3rd Wandle Ringers 7.30 pm 
Thursday 4th Sing Choir (a Cappella Choir) 7.30 pm 
Friday 5th Film “A Man Called Peter”. A true story starring 
Richard Todd and Jean Peters. 1955 
7.30 pm 
Saturday 6th Beckenham Concert Band 7.45 pm 
Sunday 7th Churches Together in Hayes with musical 
accompaniment by Hayes School musicians. 
6.30 pm 
Saturday 13th Film Raymond Briggs “Father Christmas” 
followed by tea for children 
3.00 pm 
HAYES FREE CHURCH 
111, Pickhurst Lane 
Bromley BR2 7HU 
www.hayesfreechurch.com 
Cheques should be made payable to: - 
HAYES FREE CHURCH TREE APPEAL 
Deaf Access
Subscriptions for Catalyst 
Subscriptions for 2015 are due in December. The cost is 
£6 if you wish to receive Catalyst via the pigeonholes at the 
back of the church. Please let Judith or David Stoner have this 
amount as soon as possible. There is an envelope attached to 
this issue of Catalyst for you to use. 
If you wish to have the magazine sent by post, the cost is £11 
and you should send your subscription to: 
Judith and David Stoner 
113 Bourne Way 
Bromley BR2 7EX 
Cheques should be made payable to Hayes Free Church. 
It would be helpful if subscribers who no longer wish to 
receive Catalyst by post would let us know. 
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NOTICE 
A Reminder 
The Women's Fellowship will spend 
an afternoon on November 4th 
filling shoe boxes for Smile International. 
We would be grateful for contributions for these boxes. 
For guidance about suitable contents see the Smile 
leaflets on the table at the back of the Church. 
There is also a box on the table waiting for your 
contributions. 
The boxes are given to children in the third world by the 
Smile Organisation.
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BOARD 
HARVEST LUNCH 
SUNDAY 12 OCTOBER 
Grateful thanks to 
Margaret, Bruce and 
Jean for an 
EXCELLENT 
3 course lunch 
which was enjoyed by 
40 members. 
A profit of £200 will go 
towards the repairs 
to the boiler. 
BROMLEY ROCK CHOIR 
on 20TH DECEMBER 
at Hayes Free Church from 7.30pm 
with mince pies and mulled wine during the interval. 
(Event advertised in September’s Catalyst) 
How about buying a ticket as 
a Christmas present. 
The cost of a ticket will be the same as last year - £10 and the money 
collected will go to provide equipment which will enhance the lives 
of the students at 
Nash College who join us in Church on Sunday Mornings. 
I will have tickets for sale so please see me. 
Margaret Tannock. 
Christmas Post 
The September Church meeting 
decided that the Christmas Post would 
be re-instated. 
PLEASE note the LAST POST will be on 
Sunday 14 December at 10.30 am. 
The post will be distributed after Carols 
by Candlelight on that evening. 
Collections will start on 
Sunday 7 December. 
It’s earlier this year. 
John Curry 
--------------------------------------------- 
Footnote: Pages will be available in 
December’s Catalyst for “Season’s 
Greetings” if you wish to avail yourself 
of this service. 
Editor
For more information about these events, please contact 
the organisers: - 
Pamela Collison for the Charity Christmas Card Sale or 
Chris Wood for the Christmas Fair 
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Our Christmas Fair 
on 
Saturday 15th November 
10.30 a.m. - 2.00 p.m. 
The following people have kindly offered to run stalls: - 
CAKES - Connie Russell & Daphne Cummings. 
CHRISTMAS FAYRE (cakes, puddings & fancies) — Joan Smith. 
BOOKS — Tony Russell. 
BOTTLES - Philip & Kate Sheardown. 
CHRISTMAS FLOWERS - Margaret Tannock. 
SANTA'S GROTTO - Jayne Carvell. 
BRIC-A-BRAC ~ Doreen Hobbs. 
JEWELLERY - Barbara Jones. 
Please give your contributions to the above people, OR 
place them in a box in the vestibule. 
The BOTTLE stall would welcome non-alcoholic and alcoholic drinks, 
cans of drink, washing up liquid, after shave, perfume, shampoo, 
tomato ketchup, etc. 
Please bring your bottles to the hall on 
Friday 14th November after 8.00 p.m. 
Any other offers of help will be greatly appreciated. 
Please ring John Curry on 8249 3663 
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Kay Atkinson 
15 December 1922 – 18 August 2014 
------------------------- 
Kay was born in Edinburgh and spent a happy and carefree childhood 
there with her parents and two older brothers. She had a thirst for 
knowledge and enjoyed reading books, joining the library at an early 
age so she could read as much as possible. Many a night was passed 
with the family sitting round the fire reading their books or newspapers. 
She was a good student and travelled with her school friends across 
the city each day by tram to get to Boroughmuir School where she 
won prizes for her attainment. Even though she did well at school, like 
many children at that time, she left school at 14 to get employment. 
Her first job was with the local Co-op as a clerkess processing the coal 
orders in the accounts department. While working here she went to 
night school to gain shorthand and typing qualifications and this 
enabled her to get her next job as a shorthand typist for the whisky 
distillers “James Stewart”. 
When Kay reached the age of 18 she was at last old enough to apply to 
be a nurse, her true vocation. She did her general training at Glasgow 
Royal Infirmary, which included a spell as theatre sister to the professor 
there, a demanding role, which kept her on her toes. Not that life was 
all hard work and hospital sterilisers found a second use as a means of 
boiling eggs for hungry nurses (what would matron have said?) After 
Glasgow it was back to Edinburgh to specialise in midwifery –“Call the 
Midwife” 1940's style. 
Kay had hoped to use her nursing skills to travel and see some of the 
world so came down to London with a group of other nursing sisters to 
study tropical medicine. It was here that she met Tony who had been 
misdiagnosed with a tropical disease due to his war service in Africa. 
Not only did she find romance but a new first name. Kay was actually 
christened Agnes Kemp Webster but became known as Kay using the 
initial of her middle name to distinguish her from the other three nurses 
all similarly named Agnes and Kay she remained for the rest of her 
adult life. 
Kay’s romance with Tony blossomed and as he lived in Tankerton-on-sea 
and his last train home left at 9:30pm she decided to move down 
to Kent to be near him, taking a post as a midwife in the local 
maternity hospital, where she worked until their marriage on 30 
September 1950. 
Married life saw the young couple move to Morden in Surrey where 
they stayed for 5 years. Kay worked part time at a local nursing home, 
though at that time part time nurses had longer hours than office 
workers so it was no holiday. 
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In 1955 Kay and Tony moved to Abbotsbury Road in Hayes, where they 
became members of Hayes Free Church. Here they had their family 
Helen in 1956 (one of the first babies to be christened in the newly built 
church hall) and 2 years later in 1958 Colin (just in time to be christened 
in the recently finished church itself).While her family was young Kay 
stayed at home trying to make her children’s childhood as happy and 
carefree as her own had been. 
Once her children started secondary school Kay returned to nursing for 
a while working with children with spina bifida at the Shaftesbury Home 
in Coney Hall. Nursing can be hard work with a lot of lifting so 
eventually Kay hung up her nursing cap and returned to clerical work. 
She worked first at Charingtons in Hayes once again processing coal 
orders before she moved over the road to work in the office of the 
New Inn. Finally, she worked for a small motor insurance brokers in 
Shirley and as she never learnt to drive herself the owner sent his Rolls 
Royce each morning to take her to and from work (talk about 
commuting in style!) Kay decided to retire at the same time as Tony 
and they were lucky to share over 30 years retirement together. 
Kay had been an active member of Coney Hall Town’s Women’s Guild, 
while her children were at school, first as “Arts and Crafts” Chairman, 
then as the Secretary and finally 5 years as Treasurer. Kay belonged to 
the local Scottish Society and took her family along to many of their 
events over the years especially the children’s fancy dress parties at 
Halloween. She also enjoyed Scottish Country Dancing and attended 
a group at HFC, run by Shena Jones, as well as belonging to a display 
team in Surrey. 
When Kay retired she joined the Women’s Fellowship at HFC taking an 
active part and becoming Treasurer a post she held for over 10 years 
keeping the accounts and helping make the teas etc. Kay had a heart 
attack about 12 years ago and had to give up her role as Treasurer but 
still attended every week as an ordinary member thoroughly enjoying 
the talks and other activities as well as keeping up with her friends. 
Kay was a member of HFC for nearly 60 years and was a regular 
attendee until the Parkinson’s she had suffered with for several years 
finally affected her mobility. Those that knew Kay remember her with 
affection as a person who cared for others, was always willing to lend 
a hand and would make you feel welcome. She put others first and 
rarely complained about the pain and difficulties her condition caused 
her. Sadly she suffered a stroke on 6 August this year and died in 
hospital; 12 days later due to complications. 
Kay is now at peace and the family wish to thank everyone at HFC for 
their kind words and support at this difficult time and for their donations 
to Parkinsons UK in her memory. 
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Website of the Month Lives of the First World War 
I make no apologies for bringing the IWM (Imperial War Museums) 
Website to 
you again. 
Lives of the 
First World War 
is a new way 
to share a story. 
You can now add your stories 
and narratives more simply - 
try it out on the Life Stories you've Remembered. 
The site is intended 
to be a 
permanent 
memorial to 
those who served 
in the Great War. 
There are a number of entries 
about those who 
served in the Kent 
Regiments. 
The way things once were 
This year’s theme covers sayings or poetry from the First World War 
Bodies of men killed near Guillemont Farm collected for burial 
This item, held at the Imperial War Museum Photographic Archive, is from 
The First World War Poetry Digital Archive. (www.oucs.ox.ac.uk/ww1lit/gwa); © University of Oxford 
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Saints’ Days in November. 
--------------- 
1st All Saints' Day, also known as All Hallows, Solemnity of All Saints, 
or Feast of All Saints, is a solemnity celebrated on 1 November 
by the Catholic Church and several Protestant denominations 
30th St Andrew. Patron of fishermen. Also the patron saint of Scotland 
Saint Andrew 
The Collect 
ALMIGHTY God, who didst give such grace unto thy holy Apostle Saint 
Andrew, that he readily obeyed the calling of thy Son Jesus Christ, 
and followed him without delay: Grant unto us all, that we, being 
called by thy holy word, may forthwith give up ourselves obediently 
to fulfil the holy commandments; through the same Jesus Christ our 
Lord. Amen. 
THE EPISTLE 
Romans 10.9-end 
THE GOSPEL 
St. Matthew 4.18-20 
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All information taken from the Church of England website www.churchofengland.org 
Bromley Central Library 
presents 
A CHRISTMAS CRACKER 
with THE NEW ENGLISH SINGERS 
and SPECIAL GUESTS 
directed by ADRIAN BOYNTON 
A wonderful programme of seasonal music spanning six centuries 
THURSDAY 18 DECEMBER 
12 noon 
Tickets £5 from the Information Desk on Floor 1 of the Central Library 
For more information please call 07961 348697 
-------------------------------------- 
Adrian Boynton introduces some very talented young musicians who 
put a lot of work into making these concerts so enjoyable. 
Do come and support this special "Christmas Cracker." 
Ruth White. 
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November 2014 
1st Sat 10.00 am - Antique & Collectors Fair Page 8 
2.30 pm - Saturday Fellowship Page 3 
2nd Sun 10.30 am - Morning Service - Keith Nye 
6.30 pm - Holy Communion - Judy Davies 
3rd Mon 12.30 pm - Women’s Contact Group Page 3 
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4th Tue 
10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 
2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Pp 5 & 10 
8.00 pm - Elders’ Meeting Page 3 
5th Wed 
6th Thu 8.00 pm - Book Club Page 5 
7th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 
8th Sat 10.00 am - Women’s Contact Coffee Morning Page 6 
9th Sun 
10.30 am - Parade Remembrance Service - Bill Michie 
Followed by Fairtrade Stall Page 6 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - Bill Michie 
10th Mon 
11th Tue 
Remembrance Day 
10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 
2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 
12th Wed 
13th Thu 
14th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 
15th Sat 10.30 am - Christmas Fair Page 12 
16th Sun 10.30 am - Morning Service - John Cox 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - Keith Nye 
17th Mon 
18th Tue 10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 
2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 
19th Wed 
20th Thu 8.00 pm - Men’s Group Page 4 
21st Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 
22nd Sat
7 - 9 Nov WW1 Exhibition in the Village Hall. 
22 Nov Christmas Fair at Beckenham URC. 
13 Dec 6.00 pm - Compassionate Friends 
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Service. 
14 Dec 10.30 am - Last collection for 
HFC Christmas Post. 
16 Dec 3.45 pm - Christingle Service. 
25 Dec 10.30 am - Service. 
28 Dec Joint Service with Beckenham 
URC at HFC. 
December 2014 
1st Mon 12.30 pm - Women’s Contact Group Page 3 
7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 
2nd Tue 
10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meting Page 3 
2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 
7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 
3rd Wed 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 
4th Thu 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 
8.00 pm - Book Club Page 5 
5th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 
7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 
6th Sat 2.30 pm - Saturday Fellowship Page 3 
7.45 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 
7th Sun 
10.30 am - Morning Service - Rev. John Marchant 
6.30 pm - Holy Communion - The Minister and CTH 
with Hayes School Page 9 
DATES FOR YOUR DIARY 
November 2014 
23rd Sun 
10.30 am - Holy Communion - Judy Davies 
Followed by Fairtrade Stall Page 6 
12.00 Noon - Church Meeting Page 3 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - Beckenham U.R.C. Members 
24th Mon 
25th Tue 10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 
2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 
26th Wed 6.30 pm - Worship Group Page 4 
27th Thu 
28th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 
7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Opens Page 9 
29th Sat 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 
30th Sun 
St. Andrew's Day 
10.30 am - Morning Service - Men's Group 
6.30 pm - Evening Service - The Minister with 
Pickhurst Junior School. Page 9
HAYES PHILHARMONIC CHOIR 
---------------------- 
We are your local choir, the only choir for male and female voices 
based in Hayes, and also have a formal link with this church, which 
provided some of our founder members. 
Our next performance will be on Saturday 15th November at 7.45pm 
at Hayes Parish Church – so please keep the date free and come 
along to support us, and enjoy an evening of choral and solo music. 
Songs of the Sea is a series of settings by the British composer Sir 
Charles Stanford of poems by Henry Newbolt. They vary from the 
sternly patriotic (Drake’s Drum) to the dreamily peaceful Homeward 
Bound, and finish with the rousing tale of the battleship the Old 
Superb, which sailed night and day across the ocean to catch up 
with the rest of the navy. As a complete contrast we will also be 
performing Franz Schubert’s serene and beautiful Deutsche Messe. 
This is shorter than most Masses and will be sung in English. Some 
additional solo pieces will complete the programme. 
Tickets cost £10 (concessions £8, and school-age children, £2) and are 
available on the door or can be reserved in advance by ringing 
07989 192928. 
If you would like to know more about the concert, please give us a 
ring on the same number. 
Armistice Day 
------------------ 
On Armistice Day last year, I went to the Bromley War Memorial on the 
hill overlooking the River Bourne valley. 
The weather was very cool and misty with a slight breeze, unlike the 
wet and windy conditions which lasted during Armistice week in 1919. 
Just before the appointed hour, about 10 adults and party of school 
children had gathered to pay their respects. The Bromley Parish 
Church clock chimed 11 and we fell silent for 2 minutes, with thoughts 
and prayers for lost relatives and friends occupying our minds. The 
only sound was the rustling of autumnal leaves in the breeze. 
At the end we all went about our business. The children and their 
teachers remained standing in a circle around the War Memorial. 
For this year, in particular, it is important to make time in your busy lives 
to gather at your nearest War Memorial on the 11th hour of the 11th 
day of the 11th month to pay your respects. 
20 
Editor
CHURCH ORGANISATIONS 
Day Organisation Contact Phone 
Sunday 
10.25am Sunday Club Mike Duke 8462 5103 
Weekdays 
9.15 -12.15pm 
Pre School Group 
12.15 -12.45pm 
P/School lunch club 
Jayne Carvell 07913 299773 
Monday 
5.45pm Brownies Sarah Humphrey T.B.A. 
6.30pm Cubs Brenda Petts 8325 3956 
8.00pm - 1st Women's Contact 
Group 
Sylvia Mack 8462 1938 
Tuesday 
10.00am Prayer Meeting Martin Nunn 8462 5918 
2.00pm Women's Fellowship Marion Swanborough 8462 3981 
7.00pm Scouts Paul Hasling 3236 0083 
Wednesday 
3.30pm - 4th Messy Church Mavis Righini 8462 1168 
5.15pm Rainbows Jenny Longman 07730 574962 
6.00pm Beavers Brenda Petts 8325 3956 
6.30pm - 4th Reflections Group Bill Michie 8658 4167 
8.00pm Explorers Tom Strachan 07745 813 295 
Thursday 
5.30pm Brownies Stevie Blair. 8325 3469 
7.15 - 8.45pm Rangers Georgina Chappell 07983 471308 
8.00pm - 1st HFC Book Club Wendy Smith 8462 1779 
8.00pm - 3rd Men's Group Bruce Tannock 8325 6264 
8.00pm - 2nd, 
& 4th 
Ignatian Spirituality 
Group 
David Hawthorn 8249 7188 
Friday 
9.00 - 12.00pm Coffee morning during term times 
2.00pm Mothers & Toddlers Judith Stoner 8462 3023 
6.30pm Guides Teresa Cheyne 8777 6042 
Saturday 
2.30pm - 1st Saturday Fellowship Martin Nunn 8462 5918 
NOTE: - Some of the organisations meet once or twice per month. 
This is indicated by 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th. The numbers relate to which 
week day of the month, NOT the calendar date.
Final Thought 
Rev Eli Jenkins' Prayer 
from Under Milk Wood 
by Dylan Thomas 
Every morning when I wake, 
Dear Lord, a little prayer I make, 
O please do keep Thy lovely eye 
On all poor creatures born to die 
And every evening at sun-down 
I ask a blessing on the town, 
For whether we last the night or no 
I'm sure is always touch-and-go. 
We are not wholly bad or good 
Who live our lives under Milk Wood, 
And Thou, I know, wilt be the first 
To see our best side, not our worst. 
O let us see another day! 
Bless us all this night, I pray, 
And to the sun we all will bow 
And say, good-bye - but just for now!

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2014 nov

  • 1. Catalyst THE MAGAZINE OF HAYES FREE CHURCH (U.R.C.) November 2014
  • 2. HAYES FREE CHURCH 111, Pickhurst Lane, Hayes, Kent BR2 7HU Sunday Services. 10.30 a.m. & 6.30 p.m. We are a member of the United Reformed Church. We believe in Justice and Peace. Principal Contacts Minister: Rev. Sue Powell is on a Sabbatical until 1 Dec Church Secretary: Mrs Mavis Righini Tel: 020 8462 1168 NOTE: All enquires to Mavis Treasurer: Mr. Simon Narracott Tel: 020 8462 2004 Lettings Secretary: Mrs Undine Connolly Tel: 020 8776 0108 Caretaker: Mr. Ian Jones Tel: 020 8313 1556 Church Website www.hayesfreechurch.com Catalyst Editor: Mr Richard Brown Contents : - Items not covered by the diary of events. Sunday Services; Notes on preachers; Infill item 2 Church Notices 3 - 5 Women’s Fellowship; Hayes Horticult’l Society 5 Coffee mornings’ donations 6 The Tower of London remembers 7 Antique & Collectors Fair 8 Christmas Tree Festival 9 This month’s website: - The website of the month is Lives of the First World. It is part of the Imperial War Museum’s website. Go to: livesofthefirstworldwar.org Now, turn to Page 16 for more details. Ed Copy for the December 2014 / January 2015 edition needs to be handed in by Sunday, 16th November. Please submit items in good time. You can leave copy in the “B” Pigeon Hole for Richard Brown to collect, or hand it directly to him on a Sunday morning. You can also e-mail copy to richardmbrown6@gmail.com Thank You. Editor Notice Board 10 - 11 Kay Atkinson - Obituary 14 - 15 Website of the Month; The way things once were 16 Saints’ days in Nov; A Christmas Cracker 17 Hayes Philharmonic Choir; Armistice Day 20 Church Organisations I B C
  • 3. Letter from the Church Secretary 1 Dear All, By the time you read this letter we will be at the beginning of November, a time when I worry about hibernating hedgehogs. Yes, I had to include my prickly friends in one of my letters. For 30 years I have had the joy of caring for one of God’s creatures and have seen them slowly decline in population to the stage where they are now critically endangered. It is so sad to think that life has got so difficult for this beautiful animal and I use this opportunity to ask all those of you who are about to have a bonfire to PLEASE check that no hedgehog has moved into the heap, to sleep away the winter. Do please be aware that any hedgehogs wandering around in daylight are also in need of help. It is so easy to take nature, wild life and the beauty of God’s creation for granted but it does need us to do our bit, for we are custodians of God’s beautiful world. My best wishes to you all Mavis NOTE: - Our Minister is away on her Sabbatical until December 2014. So, during that period the Minister’s letter will be written by the Church Secretary. Ed
  • 4. Sunday Services November 2014 2nd 10.30 am - Morning Service - Keith Nye 6.30 pm - Holy Communion - Judy Davies 9th 10.30 am - Parade Remembrance Service - Bill Michie 6.30 pm - Evening Service - Bill Michie 16th 10.30 am - Morning Service - John Cox 6.30 pm - Evening Service - Keith Nye 23rd 10.30 am - Holy Communion - Judy Davies 6.30 pm - Evening Service - Beckenham U.R.C. Members 30th 10.30 am - Morning Service - Men's Group 6.30 pm - Evening Service - The Minister December 2014 7th 10.30 am - Morning Service - Rev. John Marchant 6.30 pm - Holy Communion - The Minister Some notes on the visiting preachers. v Keith Nye is one of the readers from St. Mary’s Church at Plaistow 2 Green. v Judy Davies is well known to us. She has conducted services at HFC on a number of occasions. v Beckenham U.R.C. Is our sister church. v The Men’s Group is a long standing organisation within HFC. v Bill Michie is well known to us all. He is a Lay Preacher at HFC. v John Cox is known to us, having conducted services at HFC in the past. v Revd John Marchant is the assistant minister at Coney Hill Baptist Church. He has conducted Sunday Worship at HFC on a number of occasions. THINGS YOU NEVER HEAR IN CHURCH I've decided to give our church the £250.00 a month I used to send to TV evangelists.
  • 5. News of the Church Family Announcements are welcome :- BMD - Changes of address, etc. Announcements: - An amount of £400 has been sent to Parkinsons UK in memory of Kay Atkinson. Tony is extremely grateful to all those friends who contributed to this amount. Your prayers would be appreciated for: - Jim Pearson, Mike Duke, Ruth Rees, Jessie Martin, Tony Atkinson and Helen Hebbes. Change of Address:- Sarah Humphrey [brownie leader on Monday] has moved to 241 Queensway, West Wickham BR4 9DX Church Meetings The next Elders’ meeting will be on Tuesday, 4th November at 8.00 pm in the small hall. The next Church meeting, will be on Sunday 23rd November at 12.00 noon – after the morning service. Women's Contact Group We will be enjoying a lunchtime meal at The Conservative Club, 27 Elmfield Road, Bromley at 12.30 pm on the 3rd of November, and then again on the 1st of December 3 Sylvia Mack Tuesday Prayer Meetings for November Held at 10.00am at the following homes:- 4th Martin Nunn’s. 11th Betty Coster’s. 18th Brenda Cordingley’s. 25th The Church. Then in December: - 2nd Martin Nunn’s. Please address any queries to Martin Nunn. Saturday Fellowship The November meeting will be on the 1st at 2.30pm at Barbara Jones’ home. Martin Nunn will be leading a Bible Study. In December we will be meeting on the 6th at 2.30pm at the same place. You are welcome to join us.
  • 6. Men's Group The next Men’s Group meeting will be on Thursday 20 November, when there will be a Bingo evening in the small hall at 8.00 pm led by Bruce Tannock. Ministry of Flowers Thank you to those who will be providing flowers in November. A big thank you to those who kindly arrange the flowers when needed. 2nd - Martin Nunn - i.m.o. Reg Nunn - my father, a member here. After the Sunday evening services, the flowers are distributed to members and friends, bringing joy to the recipients. Mavis Righini Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Club We welcome all babies and children under school age, accompanied by their parents, grandparents or carers, to our club on Friday afternoons between 2 and 4pm during term time. The fee is £1 per family – tea, squash and biscuits are provided. This is a time when adults can meet up, while the children in their care are busy playing with toys and activities in the company of other children. There is no meeting on October 31st during the half term break. Our CHRISTMAS PARTY and last meeting of term is on December 5th at 2.15 pm. Tickets priced £2.50 per child will be on sale from November 21st. We look forward to seeing you. Judith Stoner - Secretary. Bible Study Group This Group will next meet in January. Worship Group The Wednesday Reflections Group meets at 6.30pm on the 4th Wednesday of each month. Linda Michie 4 9th - Sue Powell 16th - Sylvia and Laurie Mack 23rd - Joan Smith 30th - Mavis Righini - i.m.o. Mum & Dad - Lorna & Gilbert Plater
  • 7. Book Club We meet on the first Thursday of the month at 8.00pm in the small hall. Wendy Smith will be taking the lead. Notice Sheets – November 2nd Joan Smith 8462 3920 9th & 16th Brenda Cordingley 8462 3867 23rd & 30th Pamela Collison 8658 0748 December 7th Joan Smith If you require items to be included in the notice sheets, please contact the appropriate person by the previous Tuesday. Women's Fellowship Meetings are in the small hall at 2.00 p.m., unless otherwise stated, on Tuesdays and finish about 3.30 p.m. 5 November Meetings: - 4th June Fox will talk about one of her charity walks. Followed by a review of our shoe box project. 11th Service taken by David Stoner. 18th Paul Reed from Weller’s Law Group talks about Wills, Power of Attorney, and answers questions. 25th Ann Bartlett will show photographs of one of her holidays. December 2nd Visit to Emmanuel Church (subject to confirmation) MINI-AMBULANCE Members who use the mini-ambulance are asked to phone Marion Swanborough on 8462 3981 by 9.00 am on any Tuesday when they are unable to come to the meetings. As always, we welcome all ladies to our meetings. Please come along for a pleasant afternoon. We do have a very varied programme with plenty to interest everyone. Marion Hayes (Kent) Horticultural Society An illustrated talk ‘Secrets of Hever Castle and Gardens’ by Neil Miller, Head Gardener on 13th November at 8 pm at Hayes Village Hall. Everyone is welcome to join us – Entrance is £2.50 for non-members of the Society but members have free entry. Brenda Cordingley can give any further information if required.
  • 8. Women’s Contact Coffee Morning We will be holding the next coffee morning from 10.00am to 12.00 noon in the Small Hall on the 8th of November. We are continuing to raise monies to contribute to disaster relief funds in different parts of the world. We hope to see you at the Coffee Morning, and why not bring a friend? Please note that the monies raised from the coffee mornings are separate from those raised through the refreshments trolley after Sunday morning services. Barbara Jones The Fairtrade Sunday Stall We hold a fair trade stall after the morning service on the 2nd and 4th Sunday of each month. The stall will be held on the 9th and 23rd of November. Please continue to support your fair trade stall. Thank you. 6 Richard and Barbara. Action Aid Ebola Emergency Appeal From the money collected at Sunday morning coffee-time, I have sent a donation of £25.00 to the above appeal. Barbara. World’s Biggest Coffee Morning I have been able to send £70 to Macmillan Cancer Support from money raised at our Contact Coffee Morning. Every day in our area 77 people find out that they have cancer, so every pound raised will help make sure that there is a constant source of support for people facing cancer in Greater London and across the U.K. Barbara.
  • 9. Catalyst Needs You! This page will be kept for YOUR contributions - NOTHING ELSE will go on this page. Hopefully, you will be inspired to share some pictures, poetry or stories. The Tower of London Remembers ----------------- On the afternoon of Wednesday, 15th October I joined the shift of volunteers at the Tower of London memorial site to plant poppies. The team of 150 was a mixed bunch of folk of different nationalities. Most of us were over 50 years old. Some had travelled from the Midlands and beyond especially for this project. The weather was kind - it was cloudy and remained dry until 15 minutes before the shift ended when we endured a fine drizzle. However, the group’s spirit of camaraderie was not dampened. Our work was straightforward. We assembled the special washers and spacer discs which were to hold the ceramic poppy heads on their metal stems. The planters placed the poppy heads onto the stems and pushed the stems into the moat floor. We had to take care not to damage any archaeology under the surface - i.e. “Don’t hammer the stems into the ground where something hard has been found!” I am sure many of us shared a common sense of purpose in volunteering. I believe each of us had lost a grandfather or great uncle in that awful conflict. When the memorial is finished there will be over 888,000 poppies - one for each of the British and Commonwealth fatalities. Overall, I was privileged to have contributed a very small part to this amazing, temporary memorial. Richard Brown 7
  • 10. ROTARY CLUB OF LANGLEY PARK & DEAF ACCESS Saturday 1stNovember 2014 10.00 a.m. – 3.00 p.m. AT HAYES FREE CHURCH PICKHURST LANE HAYES KENT LUNCHES & REFRESHMENTS AVAILABLE Interested table holders – tables available David Connolly. Tel: 020 8776 0108. ENTRANCE £1.00 Sponsored by: - Ennis-Webb & Co. Solicitors, Wills, Probate, Tax & Trusts Elite House, 155 Main Road, Biggin Hill, Kent TN16 3JP tel. 01959 577000 8
  • 11. HAYES FREE CHURCH CHRISTMAS TREE FESTIVAL IN AID OF DEAF ACCESS FROM FRIDAY 28th NOVEMBER to SATURDAY 13th DECEMBER The Festival will be open each day from 2.00 pm from 1 December to 6 December. The Church will be open at service times each Sunday (10.30 am and 6.30 pm) Programme of Entertainment for the Festival NOVEMBER Friday 28th Opening Concert - The Kaos Signing Choir For Deaf & Hearing Children They sang at The Opening Ceremony at The London 2012 Olympic Games, and have appeared at the Royal Albert Hall. Plus items from Hayes Free Church performers. 9 All money raised will go to Deaf Access in Bromley. Registered Charity l050990 Admission charges: - The Silver Lane 7 Jazz Band £8.00 and The Velvet Harmony Choir £6.00. Tickets from John Moren 020 8460 6726. Father Christmas film & tea. Children £2.00 Adults £4.00. Tickets from John Curry 020 8249 3663. 7.30 pm Saturday 29th The Silver Lane 7 Jazz band 7.30 pm Sunday 30th Pickhurst Junior School 6.30 pm DECEMBER Monday 1st Bishop Justus School 7.30 pm Tuesday 2nd Velvet Harmony Ladies Choir 7.30 pm Wednesday 3rd Wandle Ringers 7.30 pm Thursday 4th Sing Choir (a Cappella Choir) 7.30 pm Friday 5th Film “A Man Called Peter”. A true story starring Richard Todd and Jean Peters. 1955 7.30 pm Saturday 6th Beckenham Concert Band 7.45 pm Sunday 7th Churches Together in Hayes with musical accompaniment by Hayes School musicians. 6.30 pm Saturday 13th Film Raymond Briggs “Father Christmas” followed by tea for children 3.00 pm HAYES FREE CHURCH 111, Pickhurst Lane Bromley BR2 7HU www.hayesfreechurch.com Cheques should be made payable to: - HAYES FREE CHURCH TREE APPEAL Deaf Access
  • 12. Subscriptions for Catalyst Subscriptions for 2015 are due in December. The cost is £6 if you wish to receive Catalyst via the pigeonholes at the back of the church. Please let Judith or David Stoner have this amount as soon as possible. There is an envelope attached to this issue of Catalyst for you to use. If you wish to have the magazine sent by post, the cost is £11 and you should send your subscription to: Judith and David Stoner 113 Bourne Way Bromley BR2 7EX Cheques should be made payable to Hayes Free Church. It would be helpful if subscribers who no longer wish to receive Catalyst by post would let us know. 10 NOTICE A Reminder The Women's Fellowship will spend an afternoon on November 4th filling shoe boxes for Smile International. We would be grateful for contributions for these boxes. For guidance about suitable contents see the Smile leaflets on the table at the back of the Church. There is also a box on the table waiting for your contributions. The boxes are given to children in the third world by the Smile Organisation.
  • 13. 11 BOARD HARVEST LUNCH SUNDAY 12 OCTOBER Grateful thanks to Margaret, Bruce and Jean for an EXCELLENT 3 course lunch which was enjoyed by 40 members. A profit of £200 will go towards the repairs to the boiler. BROMLEY ROCK CHOIR on 20TH DECEMBER at Hayes Free Church from 7.30pm with mince pies and mulled wine during the interval. (Event advertised in September’s Catalyst) How about buying a ticket as a Christmas present. The cost of a ticket will be the same as last year - £10 and the money collected will go to provide equipment which will enhance the lives of the students at Nash College who join us in Church on Sunday Mornings. I will have tickets for sale so please see me. Margaret Tannock. Christmas Post The September Church meeting decided that the Christmas Post would be re-instated. PLEASE note the LAST POST will be on Sunday 14 December at 10.30 am. The post will be distributed after Carols by Candlelight on that evening. Collections will start on Sunday 7 December. It’s earlier this year. John Curry --------------------------------------------- Footnote: Pages will be available in December’s Catalyst for “Season’s Greetings” if you wish to avail yourself of this service. Editor
  • 14. For more information about these events, please contact the organisers: - Pamela Collison for the Charity Christmas Card Sale or Chris Wood for the Christmas Fair 12
  • 15. Our Christmas Fair on Saturday 15th November 10.30 a.m. - 2.00 p.m. The following people have kindly offered to run stalls: - CAKES - Connie Russell & Daphne Cummings. CHRISTMAS FAYRE (cakes, puddings & fancies) — Joan Smith. BOOKS — Tony Russell. BOTTLES - Philip & Kate Sheardown. CHRISTMAS FLOWERS - Margaret Tannock. SANTA'S GROTTO - Jayne Carvell. BRIC-A-BRAC ~ Doreen Hobbs. JEWELLERY - Barbara Jones. Please give your contributions to the above people, OR place them in a box in the vestibule. The BOTTLE stall would welcome non-alcoholic and alcoholic drinks, cans of drink, washing up liquid, after shave, perfume, shampoo, tomato ketchup, etc. Please bring your bottles to the hall on Friday 14th November after 8.00 p.m. Any other offers of help will be greatly appreciated. Please ring John Curry on 8249 3663 13
  • 16. Kay Atkinson 15 December 1922 – 18 August 2014 ------------------------- Kay was born in Edinburgh and spent a happy and carefree childhood there with her parents and two older brothers. She had a thirst for knowledge and enjoyed reading books, joining the library at an early age so she could read as much as possible. Many a night was passed with the family sitting round the fire reading their books or newspapers. She was a good student and travelled with her school friends across the city each day by tram to get to Boroughmuir School where she won prizes for her attainment. Even though she did well at school, like many children at that time, she left school at 14 to get employment. Her first job was with the local Co-op as a clerkess processing the coal orders in the accounts department. While working here she went to night school to gain shorthand and typing qualifications and this enabled her to get her next job as a shorthand typist for the whisky distillers “James Stewart”. When Kay reached the age of 18 she was at last old enough to apply to be a nurse, her true vocation. She did her general training at Glasgow Royal Infirmary, which included a spell as theatre sister to the professor there, a demanding role, which kept her on her toes. Not that life was all hard work and hospital sterilisers found a second use as a means of boiling eggs for hungry nurses (what would matron have said?) After Glasgow it was back to Edinburgh to specialise in midwifery –“Call the Midwife” 1940's style. Kay had hoped to use her nursing skills to travel and see some of the world so came down to London with a group of other nursing sisters to study tropical medicine. It was here that she met Tony who had been misdiagnosed with a tropical disease due to his war service in Africa. Not only did she find romance but a new first name. Kay was actually christened Agnes Kemp Webster but became known as Kay using the initial of her middle name to distinguish her from the other three nurses all similarly named Agnes and Kay she remained for the rest of her adult life. Kay’s romance with Tony blossomed and as he lived in Tankerton-on-sea and his last train home left at 9:30pm she decided to move down to Kent to be near him, taking a post as a midwife in the local maternity hospital, where she worked until their marriage on 30 September 1950. Married life saw the young couple move to Morden in Surrey where they stayed for 5 years. Kay worked part time at a local nursing home, though at that time part time nurses had longer hours than office workers so it was no holiday. 14
  • 17. In 1955 Kay and Tony moved to Abbotsbury Road in Hayes, where they became members of Hayes Free Church. Here they had their family Helen in 1956 (one of the first babies to be christened in the newly built church hall) and 2 years later in 1958 Colin (just in time to be christened in the recently finished church itself).While her family was young Kay stayed at home trying to make her children’s childhood as happy and carefree as her own had been. Once her children started secondary school Kay returned to nursing for a while working with children with spina bifida at the Shaftesbury Home in Coney Hall. Nursing can be hard work with a lot of lifting so eventually Kay hung up her nursing cap and returned to clerical work. She worked first at Charingtons in Hayes once again processing coal orders before she moved over the road to work in the office of the New Inn. Finally, she worked for a small motor insurance brokers in Shirley and as she never learnt to drive herself the owner sent his Rolls Royce each morning to take her to and from work (talk about commuting in style!) Kay decided to retire at the same time as Tony and they were lucky to share over 30 years retirement together. Kay had been an active member of Coney Hall Town’s Women’s Guild, while her children were at school, first as “Arts and Crafts” Chairman, then as the Secretary and finally 5 years as Treasurer. Kay belonged to the local Scottish Society and took her family along to many of their events over the years especially the children’s fancy dress parties at Halloween. She also enjoyed Scottish Country Dancing and attended a group at HFC, run by Shena Jones, as well as belonging to a display team in Surrey. When Kay retired she joined the Women’s Fellowship at HFC taking an active part and becoming Treasurer a post she held for over 10 years keeping the accounts and helping make the teas etc. Kay had a heart attack about 12 years ago and had to give up her role as Treasurer but still attended every week as an ordinary member thoroughly enjoying the talks and other activities as well as keeping up with her friends. Kay was a member of HFC for nearly 60 years and was a regular attendee until the Parkinson’s she had suffered with for several years finally affected her mobility. Those that knew Kay remember her with affection as a person who cared for others, was always willing to lend a hand and would make you feel welcome. She put others first and rarely complained about the pain and difficulties her condition caused her. Sadly she suffered a stroke on 6 August this year and died in hospital; 12 days later due to complications. Kay is now at peace and the family wish to thank everyone at HFC for their kind words and support at this difficult time and for their donations to Parkinsons UK in her memory. 15
  • 18. Website of the Month Lives of the First World War I make no apologies for bringing the IWM (Imperial War Museums) Website to you again. Lives of the First World War is a new way to share a story. You can now add your stories and narratives more simply - try it out on the Life Stories you've Remembered. The site is intended to be a permanent memorial to those who served in the Great War. There are a number of entries about those who served in the Kent Regiments. The way things once were This year’s theme covers sayings or poetry from the First World War Bodies of men killed near Guillemont Farm collected for burial This item, held at the Imperial War Museum Photographic Archive, is from The First World War Poetry Digital Archive. (www.oucs.ox.ac.uk/ww1lit/gwa); © University of Oxford 16
  • 19. Saints’ Days in November. --------------- 1st All Saints' Day, also known as All Hallows, Solemnity of All Saints, or Feast of All Saints, is a solemnity celebrated on 1 November by the Catholic Church and several Protestant denominations 30th St Andrew. Patron of fishermen. Also the patron saint of Scotland Saint Andrew The Collect ALMIGHTY God, who didst give such grace unto thy holy Apostle Saint Andrew, that he readily obeyed the calling of thy Son Jesus Christ, and followed him without delay: Grant unto us all, that we, being called by thy holy word, may forthwith give up ourselves obediently to fulfil the holy commandments; through the same Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. THE EPISTLE Romans 10.9-end THE GOSPEL St. Matthew 4.18-20 -------------------------------------- All information taken from the Church of England website www.churchofengland.org Bromley Central Library presents A CHRISTMAS CRACKER with THE NEW ENGLISH SINGERS and SPECIAL GUESTS directed by ADRIAN BOYNTON A wonderful programme of seasonal music spanning six centuries THURSDAY 18 DECEMBER 12 noon Tickets £5 from the Information Desk on Floor 1 of the Central Library For more information please call 07961 348697 -------------------------------------- Adrian Boynton introduces some very talented young musicians who put a lot of work into making these concerts so enjoyable. Do come and support this special "Christmas Cracker." Ruth White. 17
  • 20. November 2014 1st Sat 10.00 am - Antique & Collectors Fair Page 8 2.30 pm - Saturday Fellowship Page 3 2nd Sun 10.30 am - Morning Service - Keith Nye 6.30 pm - Holy Communion - Judy Davies 3rd Mon 12.30 pm - Women’s Contact Group Page 3 18 4th Tue 10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Pp 5 & 10 8.00 pm - Elders’ Meeting Page 3 5th Wed 6th Thu 8.00 pm - Book Club Page 5 7th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 8th Sat 10.00 am - Women’s Contact Coffee Morning Page 6 9th Sun 10.30 am - Parade Remembrance Service - Bill Michie Followed by Fairtrade Stall Page 6 6.30 pm - Evening Service - Bill Michie 10th Mon 11th Tue Remembrance Day 10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 12th Wed 13th Thu 14th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 15th Sat 10.30 am - Christmas Fair Page 12 16th Sun 10.30 am - Morning Service - John Cox 6.30 pm - Evening Service - Keith Nye 17th Mon 18th Tue 10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 19th Wed 20th Thu 8.00 pm - Men’s Group Page 4 21st Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 22nd Sat
  • 21. 7 - 9 Nov WW1 Exhibition in the Village Hall. 22 Nov Christmas Fair at Beckenham URC. 13 Dec 6.00 pm - Compassionate Friends 19 Service. 14 Dec 10.30 am - Last collection for HFC Christmas Post. 16 Dec 3.45 pm - Christingle Service. 25 Dec 10.30 am - Service. 28 Dec Joint Service with Beckenham URC at HFC. December 2014 1st Mon 12.30 pm - Women’s Contact Group Page 3 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 2nd Tue 10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meting Page 3 2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 3rd Wed 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 4th Thu 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 8.00 pm - Book Club Page 5 5th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 6th Sat 2.30 pm - Saturday Fellowship Page 3 7.45 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 7th Sun 10.30 am - Morning Service - Rev. John Marchant 6.30 pm - Holy Communion - The Minister and CTH with Hayes School Page 9 DATES FOR YOUR DIARY November 2014 23rd Sun 10.30 am - Holy Communion - Judy Davies Followed by Fairtrade Stall Page 6 12.00 Noon - Church Meeting Page 3 6.30 pm - Evening Service - Beckenham U.R.C. Members 24th Mon 25th Tue 10.00 am - Tuesday Prayer Meeting Page 3 2.00 pm - Women’s Fellowship Page 5 26th Wed 6.30 pm - Worship Group Page 4 27th Thu 28th Fri 2.00 pm - Hayes Mothers’ & Toddlers’ Group Page 4 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Opens Page 9 29th Sat 7.30 pm - Christmas Tree Festival Event Page 9 30th Sun St. Andrew's Day 10.30 am - Morning Service - Men's Group 6.30 pm - Evening Service - The Minister with Pickhurst Junior School. Page 9
  • 22. HAYES PHILHARMONIC CHOIR ---------------------- We are your local choir, the only choir for male and female voices based in Hayes, and also have a formal link with this church, which provided some of our founder members. Our next performance will be on Saturday 15th November at 7.45pm at Hayes Parish Church – so please keep the date free and come along to support us, and enjoy an evening of choral and solo music. Songs of the Sea is a series of settings by the British composer Sir Charles Stanford of poems by Henry Newbolt. They vary from the sternly patriotic (Drake’s Drum) to the dreamily peaceful Homeward Bound, and finish with the rousing tale of the battleship the Old Superb, which sailed night and day across the ocean to catch up with the rest of the navy. As a complete contrast we will also be performing Franz Schubert’s serene and beautiful Deutsche Messe. This is shorter than most Masses and will be sung in English. Some additional solo pieces will complete the programme. Tickets cost £10 (concessions £8, and school-age children, £2) and are available on the door or can be reserved in advance by ringing 07989 192928. If you would like to know more about the concert, please give us a ring on the same number. Armistice Day ------------------ On Armistice Day last year, I went to the Bromley War Memorial on the hill overlooking the River Bourne valley. The weather was very cool and misty with a slight breeze, unlike the wet and windy conditions which lasted during Armistice week in 1919. Just before the appointed hour, about 10 adults and party of school children had gathered to pay their respects. The Bromley Parish Church clock chimed 11 and we fell silent for 2 minutes, with thoughts and prayers for lost relatives and friends occupying our minds. The only sound was the rustling of autumnal leaves in the breeze. At the end we all went about our business. The children and their teachers remained standing in a circle around the War Memorial. For this year, in particular, it is important to make time in your busy lives to gather at your nearest War Memorial on the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month to pay your respects. 20 Editor
  • 23. CHURCH ORGANISATIONS Day Organisation Contact Phone Sunday 10.25am Sunday Club Mike Duke 8462 5103 Weekdays 9.15 -12.15pm Pre School Group 12.15 -12.45pm P/School lunch club Jayne Carvell 07913 299773 Monday 5.45pm Brownies Sarah Humphrey T.B.A. 6.30pm Cubs Brenda Petts 8325 3956 8.00pm - 1st Women's Contact Group Sylvia Mack 8462 1938 Tuesday 10.00am Prayer Meeting Martin Nunn 8462 5918 2.00pm Women's Fellowship Marion Swanborough 8462 3981 7.00pm Scouts Paul Hasling 3236 0083 Wednesday 3.30pm - 4th Messy Church Mavis Righini 8462 1168 5.15pm Rainbows Jenny Longman 07730 574962 6.00pm Beavers Brenda Petts 8325 3956 6.30pm - 4th Reflections Group Bill Michie 8658 4167 8.00pm Explorers Tom Strachan 07745 813 295 Thursday 5.30pm Brownies Stevie Blair. 8325 3469 7.15 - 8.45pm Rangers Georgina Chappell 07983 471308 8.00pm - 1st HFC Book Club Wendy Smith 8462 1779 8.00pm - 3rd Men's Group Bruce Tannock 8325 6264 8.00pm - 2nd, & 4th Ignatian Spirituality Group David Hawthorn 8249 7188 Friday 9.00 - 12.00pm Coffee morning during term times 2.00pm Mothers & Toddlers Judith Stoner 8462 3023 6.30pm Guides Teresa Cheyne 8777 6042 Saturday 2.30pm - 1st Saturday Fellowship Martin Nunn 8462 5918 NOTE: - Some of the organisations meet once or twice per month. This is indicated by 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th. The numbers relate to which week day of the month, NOT the calendar date.
  • 24. Final Thought Rev Eli Jenkins' Prayer from Under Milk Wood by Dylan Thomas Every morning when I wake, Dear Lord, a little prayer I make, O please do keep Thy lovely eye On all poor creatures born to die And every evening at sun-down I ask a blessing on the town, For whether we last the night or no I'm sure is always touch-and-go. We are not wholly bad or good Who live our lives under Milk Wood, And Thou, I know, wilt be the first To see our best side, not our worst. O let us see another day! Bless us all this night, I pray, And to the sun we all will bow And say, good-bye - but just for now!