Here's how to stop obsessing over an ex girlfriend.
These slides reveal 3 keys that eliminate your obsession
with your ex and help put you in the right mind state to
re-attract her back.
You'll also learn a simple re-attraction process that gets
her running back into your arms.
1. How to Stop Obsessing
Over An Ex Girlfriend
3 KEYS to Stopping Obsessive “Oneitis”
Feelings and How to Re Attract Your Ex
Back into Your Arms
By: Frankie Cola
2. You're broken up, you feel hurt, you
can't stop obsessing over your ex...
7. Your self-esteem rapidly deflates like
an exploding balloon, and the feeling
of rejection can't seem to go away.
8. Even as you go through your everyday
life... the pain just lingers there in the
back of your mind...
9. If this is you, I'm here to tell you that
what you're going through is extremely
common. It's something most men go
through after a break up.
10. Most men who are broken up, will get
"oneitis" with their ex.
11. What is Oneitis?
Oneitis is when all your thoughts and emotions
are completely focused on just ONE girl.
You feel like she's the only girl in the world for
you.
It's like you have TUNNEL-VISION for just this
one girl.
12. Because of this, you constantly think about
her, dream about her, fantasize about her.
13. But here's why it's so DANGEROUS to be in
this state of mind:
You see, oneitis makes you fearful, it makes you
WEAK, and it makes you constantly worried that
you'll lose her to another man.
And because of this, you start acting extremely
UNATTRACTIVE and makes your fears a
REALITY.
14. As you can already guess, this weak state of mind
only pushes her further away from you and you
lose your chance to make her want to be your
girlfriend again.
15. Getting too deep in this state of mind is the big
mistake most men make after a break up, and
because of it, they aren't able to get their ex back
EVER again.
They get too obsessed with their ex, which causes
them to act like desperate, needy wussbags…
16. And when you display this weak behavior
with a woman…
GAME OVER.
18. Here are 3 Keys to Stop Obsessive Oneitis
and Start Re-Attracting Your Ex Girlfriend
Back into Your Arms
19. Key #1: Oneitis is a “Scarcity Problem”
and it's Making You Act WEAK and
Unattractive
Oneitis is what I call a "Scarcity Problem."
Scarcity problems happen when you LACK
something…
But what are you lacking?
You're lacking OTHER OPTIONS TO MAKE
YOURSELF HAPPY.
20. That's why you feel this woman is “your world.”
She has a monopoly on your feelings. Your
happiness revolves around her.
You want to stop this type of thinking, ok?
You've got to stop the stranglehold she has on
your brain.
The most powerful way to fix this is to...
21. Start Talking to OTHER Women
Yeah, yeah, I know… going for other women
feels counter to your feelings that your ex is
the special girl for you...
But if you want the best chance of getting
your ex back... you absolutely MUST knock
her off the pedestal you have her on.
And realizing, in your mind, that you can
have more options, is the best way to do it.
22. So as soon as you go into no-contact
mode with your ex, start focusing your
mind on other women.
Think about them, talk to them, go on
dates with them.
23. The more options you feel you have, the
less attached you will feel to your ex, and
the less of an URGE you will get to text
her or see her.
It will OBLITERATE your weak oneitis
and you'll get your emotional strength
back.
Once you get out of your weak state of
mind, and you go back into a STRONG
one, you'll be in a much better position to
re-attract your woman.
24. Not only that, but when your ex sees you're
ok without her, AND that you're mingling
with other girls, she will begin thinking of
you differently.
She will even start getting strange feelings
of attraction for you.
Because she will no longer see you as
“weak” anymore.
And this brings us to KEY #2...
25. Look, if she said she didn't have feelings for
you anymore, it was ONLY IN THAT MOMENT.
Which means her feelings for you can come
back!
This brings us to key point number 3.
And this is the answer to getting your ex back...
Key #2: A Woman's Feelings For You
Aren't “Set in Stone.”
26. Key #3: To Get Your Ex Back, You
Trigger Attraction in Her Again Like
You Did Before
Here's the deal…
Whether or not your ex wants to get back
together with you has to do with ONE thing:
ATTRACTION
27. Your girlfriend used to feel a strong attraction
for you.
It's why she got together with you in the first
place.
But because of certain “weak” behaviors that
you did… she now doesn't FEEL that
attraction anymore.
28. Therefore, if you want to attract her back...
you must go through a proven re-attraction process
that works to spark in her feelings of attraction for you
just like she felt before.
Click here to learn a step-by-step Re-Attraction Process
created by experts to re attract your ex girlfriend back
and make things like they were before