Diamond Envy (http://www.diamondenvy.com/) a leading online store for GIA-certified loose colored diamonds and colored diamond jewelry. You can contact us at (888) 983-9588. So he popped the big question and you happily said yes. Now you’ve both finally got that monkey off your backs. Or do you? Do you secretly detest your ring? Does the mere sight of it make your stomach turn? Do you panic thinking about how you will possibly get along with this ring for the rest of your life? If you have no clue what to do or where to start, read the advice given by various authorities on relationships, marriage and weddings. They will have you in the know in no time on this very dicey issue.

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2. » So he popped the big question and you happily said yes. Now you’ve both
finally got that monkey off your backs. Or do you? Do you secretly detest
your ring? Does the mere sight of it make your stomach turn? Do you
panic thinking about how you will possibly get along with this ring for the
rest of your life?
» Getting engaged only to have you, the new fiancée who is supposed to be
nothing but over the moon, hate your new ring isn’t all that uncommon. If
you have no clue what to do or where to start, read the advice below
given by various authorities on relationships, marriage and weddings.
They will have you in the know in no time on this very dicey issue.
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3. 1 In one of her recent columns, “relationship etiquette expert”
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Mara Opperman offers two choices for conflicted brides-to-be:
» (1) tell the truth or (2) deal with it. Her advice is to just be honest, which
will net you your permanent reward at the expense of his temporarily
bruised feelings.
» She notes that if you do plan on telling your new fiancé, it’s best to do so
ASAP – retail stores usually have a 30 day return policy.
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4. 2 RingEnvy.com (no relation to DiamondEnvy.com) suggests you
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make sure your jeweler has a return or exchange policy and be
understanding
» Men don’t know a whole lot about jewelry in the first place. The best
time to tell, according to them, is just a bit after the proposal has taken
place to spare his feelings. And remember that he won’t mind especially
if you said yes!
» Can’t stand the sight of your
ring? ProjectWedding.com
advises you to just tell him!
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5. 3 ProjectWedding.com echoes the sentiments of others, advising that
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honesty is the best policy in this situation.
» They too remind you that the return and exchange policies typically
enforced by jewelers is valid from two weeks to thirty days after
purchase – do not let precious time get away by worrying about how you
will tell him.
» Your ring is likely an issue your jeweler can fix for you by putting your
diamond in a new setting, says racked.com. Photo Source: racked.com
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6. 4 Racked.com wants you to get to the bottom of the issue – what is
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wrong with the ring?
» The shape of the center stone? The way the setting sits? The look of the
setting? The size of the diamond? Once you know exactly what you don’t
like, they suggest you tell your fiancé in as gentle a manner as possible.
The solution is to take the ring back to your jeweler and discuss options
for tweaking the ring. The most popular option is to change the setting.
It’s a quick, easy and affordable answer!
» Was your fiance too cheap? OR
is the ring just not your style?
Veronica at Hub pages offers
some valuable food for thought.
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7. 5 In response to advice seeker and newly engaged Mario who needs
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an expert opinion on the fact that his fiancée hates the
ring, Veronica at hubpages.com offers two possible explanations.
» Issue #1: How much did he spend?
Answer: If he spent enough but did not go overboard, he did a good job.
He should consider the following questions thoughtfully. What can he
really afford? Is he regularly dropping money on himself but scrimping
on you – and what is arguably the most important purchase of his life to
date? Using some of his savings is a viable option to help defray some of
the cost.
» Issue #2: Could it be the style?
Answer: Plain and simple, you don’t like it. It doesn’t jibe with your
personal taste. He gave you a yellow gold ring when you don’t wear any
to begin with. Or it may be too over the top for you. Or it’s too
traditional when you’re more contemporary. Come to an agreement on
why you don’t like your ring. The ring could be a microcosm of the types
of challenges lying ahead, so this is one issue you need to address and
resolve before going any further.
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