1. Fallingforyou
I'm going to call myself an 'expert' in online dating since I have been doing so for about the past 10
years. There are SO many dating websites that it's hard to choose which one to use. How do you
know where all the 'Real' people are? How do you know that you'll meet Mr. Or Mrs. Right on a dating
website?
How will you ever know anything if you never take that chance?
Most of the websites at first advertise as "Free". Well, what free gets you is basically a profile set up.
You enter everything about yourself, where you live, what you like to do and anything else you can
think of. Then you post some pictures of yourself, so that the prospects can see what you look like.
Then you enter what you are looking for in a partner, and last but not least, what would be your
"ideal" first date. Which I actually look at as a First Meeting, because you are meeting this person
face to face for the first time. You will then decide at this first meeting whether or not you would like to
"date" this person again. That's when the dating begins.
There are literally millions of people using dating websites. I've used the dating websites because I
just don't know where single people go in my area. We have bars and I've already met some people
in bars. They are not who I want to spend my life with.
People come in all different shapes, sizes, ages, looks and nationalities and online dating can be
frustrating. But remember this; you need to learn to love yourself before you'll find your perfect mate.
This is very important. People (like yourself) are looking to find someone who is happy. People don't
want someone in their life that is full of drama or upset all the time. Miserable unhappy people will
only attract miserable unhappy people to themselves. But if you love yourself, everything about you
will glow. You are dating to have fun. Don't ever take anything personally. And if you need extra
advise, you can sign up for newsletter or Dating Coaches. There are some awesome amazing dating
coaches out there for expert advise!
One of my favorite dating coaches is Evan Marc Katz. Click on the link below to find out more about
how he can help you. He is amazing, funny and cute!
Two of the most popular dating website are probably eHarmony and Match.com. I have been on both
of these website. They allow you the very basic for free, but you must become a "paid" member in
order to communicate with the other members.
Some websites will let you go a step farther and send communication back and forth, but only so
much because they as well prefer you to become a paid member. I believe that those who pay are
truly a bit more serious about finding the right one. The problem is, it can get expensive and do we
want to join more than one website? How do we know our match is on one website and not another?
You don't! And chances are, where you are looking is where you will find your true love. You're drawn
to a particular site for a reason. I believe everything happens for a reason. Be patient and most
importantly HAVE FUN!

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