Most people in life are happy to follow the lead of other people, to sit on the fence in a debate or have the attitude of hiding at the back of the class. The most successful people are leaders and make things happen for themselves by taking a positive attitude and through working very hard to reach their goals. We are all able to become leaders and this article may help you to achieve this status.

1. Marco Moeschter
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2. Most people in life are happy to follow the lead of other people, to sit on the
fence in a debate or have the attitude of hiding at the back of the class. The
most successful people are leaders and make things happen for themselves by
taking a positive attitude and through working very hard to reach their goals.
We are all able to become leaders and this article may help you to achieve this
status.
I grew up as a very nervous person, who had very little self-confidence and who
was very shy. I was not happy being this way and often felt jealous of other
people who were happy to speak up and take control of tasks and situations. I
wanted to be one of these leaders and not the follower that I certainly had
become.
In my early twenties, I decided that the time had arrived to make a series of life
changing decisions. I was determined to have a happy and successful life and
was aware that I needed to change my whole attitude and approach to life.
I was not happy at where I worked and joined an employment agency in an
attempt to find alternative employment. In the reception area of the agency, I
started speaking to a man who was also their hoping to find a different job. His
name was Mark and we got on well and wished each other the best of luck in
our quest to find work. We even exchanged phone numbers and vowed to keep
each other up to date with our progress.
I was then interviewed by a man who explained his plan to help me to find this
new role of work. He was very bright, clever and positive and had many
interesting ideas. He seemed very confident that I would soon be employed for
a different company more suited to the skills which I had.

3. At one stage of the meeting he described the scenario of a group interview. He
suggested that we may be ushered into a large room with a big table. As we sat
down there would be a sheet of paper asking the group to debate a particular
subject. He stated that all of the people in the room would be in the same
position, all looking for work, all nervous, however that in that room I could be
whoever I wanted to be. He said that I needed to stand up and take the lead by
stating that I would act as chairman and that if anyone had a comment that
they wanted to make, that they could raise their hand. If I did this I would show
my prospective employer that I was a leader.
I went home and thought about this and did not believe I had it in me to act in
the way that he wanted me to, as I was not a leader. Later that evening Mark
phoned and all he was talking about was the group interview scenario. He also
stated that there was no way that he would be able to stand up either in the
way that had been described.
I did not have to ever attend a group interview, but Mark did. He surprised
himself by carrying out the advice and stated that after he had said his initial
statement about being the chairman, that he had never felt so powerful and in
control. For the rest of the day other members of the group had been regularly
asking him questions as if he was some sort of team leader. He was very proud
of himself and I am happy to report that he was successful at that interview
and is very happy in his new position.
He has also taken the success and learning experience into his social life and
states that he has never had a higher self-esteem. I am very pleased for him as
he is a genuine person who works very hard. He is also one of only a few
friends that I can honestly say that I trust.
I have taken inspiration from Mark and have entered into a career of helping
people who stutter, to achieve fluency. This is something which I really enjoy
and which gives me a large amount of job satisfaction. I am also far more
confident than I ever have been and have at last found happiness.

4. In conclusion we all have it in us to be a leader. We need to be brave and
determined to take control and remember that all we can do in life is to try our
best. We are only sure about living one life, so lets be happy and not accept
second best. Be a leader in life, not a follower.
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