The document discusses different types of relationships that are not true love. It states that infatuation is loving someone based on physical attraction alone. Compromise is staying with someone to please others rather than one's own feelings. Lust is loving the physical aspects of a relationship alone. An inferiority complex is loving someone to feel better about oneself. Charity is staying in a relationship out of pity rather than love. Friendship is caring for someone but not being in love. True love is feeling another's pain as deeply as one's own, letting someone go for their benefit even if it causes sadness, and having a deep connection that continues to grow over time like burning coals.

1. If you love someone
because you think
that he or she is
really gorgeous
then it's not love ..
it's “INFATUATION”

2. If you love someone
because you think
that you shouldn’t
leave him because
others think you
shouldn’t
then it's not love ..
it's “COMPROMISE”

3. If you love someone
because you can’t
live without his
touch
then it's not love ..
it's “LUST”

4. If you love someone
because you have
been kissed by him
then it's not love ..
it's “INFERIORITY
COMPLEX”

5. If you love someone
because you can’t
leave him thinking
that it would hurt his
feeling
then it's not love ..
it's “CHARITY”

6. If you love someone
because you share
everything with him
then it's not love ..
it's “FRIENDSHIP”

7. But if you feel the
pain of the other
person more than
him even when he is
stable and you cry
for him
That’s “LOVE”

8. If you get attracted
by other people
but stay with him
without any regrets
That’s “LOVE”

9. If you let him go
knowing that he has
to go but he doesn’t
want to
That’s “LOVE”

10. Love is like a friendship
caught on fire.
In the beginning a flame,
very pretty,
Often hot and fierce,
But still only light and
flickering.
As LOVE grows older,
Our hearts mature
And our LOVE becomes
as coals,
Deep-burning and
unquenchable.