3. Introduction
⢠Becoming a successful single is
about learning to be happy with
yourself
⢠Learning how to be a successful
single will give you the right
perspectives, put you in a better
state of mind, give you more
self-confidence, and reinforce a
positive image of yourself
⢠Whether your goal is to
eventually find a relationship, or
if you just want to become more
accepting of being single, this
information should help you
make your time as a single a
positive experience.
4.
5. Reasons to Stay Single!
⢠More time to find the right woman
⢠More time to spend with your friends
⢠You can focus on your career
⢠You can do whatever you want
⢠Single and Ready to Mingle
7. More Freedom And
Independence
⢠You donât have to let anyone know when you
decide to go somewhere.
⢠It allows for more spontaneity in your life
⢠Being single allows you to be your own person
and really just do as you please.
⢠Being single allows you to be your own person
and really just do as you please.
⢠Especially for men, being single forces you to do
things for yourself, like cooking and cleaning.
8. More Control Over Your Time
⢠You may have more time for yourself and
things that you like to do
⢠You can set your own schedule
⢠Give you more time for hobbies, relaxation,
being with friends and family, and so on.
9. ⢠Gives you more time to better yourself.
⢠You can use the extra time to work on your
career, volunteer in your community, or take
classes for job advancement or just for
personal enrichment
10. ⢠Relationships and marriages especially
require a significant amount of time, as
anyone who is married or in a relationship will
tell you.
⢠So, doesnât it stand to reason to take
advantage of any extra time while you still
have it?
11. More control over your money
⢠In addition to time, relationships also require
money, and a lot of it
⢠Gives you full financial freedom
⢠Control of where every dollar you spend goes.
12. ⢠Not having to pay for overpriced dinners
and movies, and buying all kinds of presents
for birthdays and many more.
⢠Spend money that you have on yourself with
no guilt
⢠Make it easier to plan for saving money for
the future and for unforeseen circumstances
13. Not having to tolerate
anotherâs annoying habits
⢠All of us have quirks about ourselves that
someone else finds annoying. Being single
frees you from this issue.
⢠Allows you to give your patience a rest
and live in a non-frustrating environment.
⢠The only disgusting habits youâll have to
put up with are your own.
14. No emotional roller
coaster rides
⢠Allows you to stabilize your emotions
⢠In addition, being single means that you
wonât have to worry about going through
a heart-wrenching breakup.
⢠Once youâve become a successful single,
you will appreciate being able to be
emotionally relaxed.
15. You can gain weight
without worrying
⢠Just as you can spend more time buffing
up at the gym, you can also just chill and
let yourself go for a little while
16. You Can Flirt As You Please
⢠Complete freedom to flirt with whomever
you want, whenever you want.
19. 1. See being single as a condition that needs to be
cured.
2. Be on a constant lookout for that one person that
is going to make everything right.
3. Put off living your life until you meet someone.
4. Believe that no matter what you do, you will wind
up hurt.
5. Resign yourself to being alone and miserable the
rest of your life.
6. Take on a victim mentality and there is nothing you
can do about your life.
7. Believe the lie that "all the good ones are taken."
21. ⢠Don't put your life on hold waiting for a
relationship to happen.
⢠Find your life's vision and purpose and live it while
you are single.
⢠One of the best ways to find your life partner is to
be a happy, successful single person living the
life that you really want.
⢠Know what types of people are bad for you and
avoid them.
22. ⢠Don't just wait for someone to come knocking at
your door. It can be a long wait. Get out into
social situations.
⢠Seek out healthy choices in potential partners.
⢠Always keep in mind that it only takes one.
⢠Create an attractive and compelling life that
someone would be eager to be a part of.
⢠In other words, view being single not as a
condition to be cured, but as an opportunity to
be explored and lived out to its fullest.