2. What is Cyberbullying?
ïĄ When a child, pre-teen or teenager is
tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, em
barrassed, or otherwise targeted by another
child, pre-teen or teenager with the use of the
internet, interactive and digital technologies, or
mobile devices.
âCyberbullying is ten times worse than the bullying I knew when I
was younger, because while you may know your tormentors in
school, on the web, people can hide as âAnonymousâ or under
their usernames and yet deal the same damage.â
(Source: Asia News Network)
3. Cyberbullying in Real Life
A third of 10-18 year olds say they have been cyberbullied. Of
those, only 1 in 10 talks to their parents or teachers.
(Source: Common Sense Media)
Vermont, USA â Ryan Missouri, USA â Megan Singapore â On 30
Patrick Halligan was Meier, 13, committed December 2010, 16-
bullied for months suicide by hanging year-old student, Khine
online. His classmates herself after being Thinzar, died after
sent him instant cyberbullied through jumping off a building â
messages calling him the social networking she killed herself after
gay. He was site, MySpace, by being slimed on
threatened, taunted someone who had set Facebook by her ex-
and insulted up a hoax account. boyfriend.
incessantly. In 2003, 13-
year-old Ryan killed
himself.
4. Where does Cyberbullying
occur?
ïĄ Emails
ïĄ Instant messaging (MSN, Skype, Google Chat)
ïĄ Text or digital imaging messages sent on cell
phones
ïĄ Web pages, web logs, web blogs
ïĄ Chat rooms, discussion groups
ïĄ Social Networking Sites
ïĄ Gaming sites, VLEs
5. What constitutes
Cyberbullying?
ïĄ Sending nasty messages or content via instant
messaging
ïĄ Stealing passwords and impersonation
ïĄ Disfiguring someoneâs picture and posting it
ïĄ Posting nasty blog comments
ïĄ Internet polling
6. Types of Cyberbullies
ïĄ Type 1: The âVengeful Angelâ
ïĄ Type 2: The âPower Hungryâ + âRevenge of The Nerdsâ
ïĄ Type 3: The âMean Girlâ
ïĄ Type 4: The âInadvertentâ
7. Ways to Prevent Becoming
a Cyberbully
ïĄ Practise good netiquette
ïĄ Never send a message to someone when you
are angry
ïĄ Unplug once in a while
ïĄ Donât post anything about anyone that you
wouldnât want posted about yourself
ïĄ Donât share or upload pictures of others without
their permission
ïĄ Talk out issues with your parents or teachers
8. Ways to Prevent Being A
Victim to a Cyberbully
ïĄ Never give out personal information
ïĄ Practise good netiquette
ïĄ Refrain from opening a message from someone
you donât know
ïĄ Donât gossip online/offline
ïĄ Donât believe everything that you read
ïĄ Unplug once in a while
ïĄ Be nice
9. If you think you are being
Cyberbullied
ïĄ Stop, Block, Tell
ïĄ Save the evidence
ïĄ Identify the sender
ïĄ Google yourself
10. Scenario 1
Joseph has some friends at his home for a
sleepover. The kids are getting a little bored.
Anthony says, âLetâs go online and see who else
from school is online.â Anthony uses Josephâs
password and types an instant message to a
popular girl on Josephâs buddy list: âI really like Mai
Yin.â Some boys laugh. Others are quiet. Joseph
really does like Mai Yin, and he told Anthony quietly
the other day. But he didnât expect Anthony to tell
other kids. The next day at school, Joseph finds out
that everyone knows he likes Mai Yin.
11. Scenario 2
Jess and Kim are friends at school. Kim tells Jess
that she doesnât want to hang out with her any
more. Jess is angry and upset. She uploads a photo
of Kim from her mobile phone that was taken at a
pyjamas party two weeks earlier. Jess sends the
photo to everyone on her buddy list with a
message attached: âKim is such a ****.â
12. Scenario 3
Sandra is planning a party to celebrate her birthday.
Her parents have set a limit of eight girls, so Sondra
canât invite everyone sheâd like. Two girls who are left
out overhear the plans. Angry, they plan their
revenge. The girls make a âWe Hate Sandraâ Web
site. They say that anyone invited to the party should
not go. They tell everyone in school the siteâs address.
The girls invite everyone to add new reasons why they
hate Sandra and to spread ugly rumors about her.
When Sandra hears about the site, she gets a sick
feeling in her stomach. Unable to ignore it, she checks
the site often. Each day she ïŹnds a new nasty
comment or joke about her. She feels hurt and
powerless to defend herself. Sandra is too
embarrassed to go to school and tells her parents she
is sick.
13. Scenario 4
For the tenth day in a row, Andrew opens an email
that says, âIâm getting closer.â He doesnât
recognize the senderâs address. He wonders if
someone at school is trying to scare him. On the
other hand, it could be a stranger. Whatever the
source, Andrew is scared. The next
afternoon, Andrew is home alone. The emails
come every few minutes. âIâm hiding in your house
using a wireless Internet connection. Youâll never
ïŹnd me. But Iâll ïŹnd you.â
Frozen with fear, Andrew canât think what to do.
14. Scenario 5
Kevin sends his friend Joseph a short video he
made at home â a re-enactment of a famous
fantasy movie scene. Joseph, laughing at how
Kevin looks, shows it to some other boys at school.
The boys laugh at Kevin too and decide to post it
on a video-sharing website. Millions of people view
Kevinâs video. Nasty comments are posted. Every
day, Kevin goes online to check and sees more
comments like âidiotâ and âfat nerd.â Every day, he
goes to school and hears more cruel comments
from his classmates.
15. Feeling Uncomfortable
While going into cyberspace can be fun, some
online experiences may make you feel
embarrassed, upset, depressed, or afraid. It can
happen to anyoneâeven when going into
cyberspace sitting comfortably inside your own
home or favorite library. When it happens, itâs best
to take action.
16. Taking Action
ïĄ Sign off the computer.
ïĄ Leave the chat room or website.
ïĄ Block the bullyâs messages.
ïĄ Save and print the bullyâs emails or your message
logs.
ïĄ Never reply to a bully.
ïĄ Talk over how to handle the situation with a friend.
ïĄ Report your experience to a parent, teacher, or
another trusted adult.
17. Say NO to Cyberbullying
ïĄ Let's Fight It Together (http://www.youtube.com/v/dubA2vhIlrg)
19. Serene Yee
Singapore International School
Hong Kong
January 2012
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One day you like someone. The next day you donât. Angry, you say something or post something online. It gets passed around quickly and easily. So now, everybody knows about it and everybody talks about it in school. While maybe you are mean only once, when you do it online your posting or message is repeated again and again as it gets passed around. Meanness multiplies. When kids are intentionally and repeatedly mean to one another using mobile phones or the Internet, itâs called cyberbullying. Sometimes kids can handle cyberbullying and not get too upset. Other times, it can make kids feel angry, frustrated, sad, or afraid.
What do you think happened to the remaining 9 kids who never reported their bullying incidents?They endure and remain angry, frustrated, sad or afraid throughout their schooling life.They play truant and skip lessons.They suffer from health problems and lower self-esteem.They plot revenge and become bullies themselves.They end up having to undergo counseling or see a psychiatrist.They take their own lives.
EmailsHarassing somebody by repeatedly sending unwanted messages.Sending unsuitable images or video clips.Forwarding someone elseâs personal email(s).Sending computer viruses.Instant messagingHacking into another account and sending unpleasant messages.Sending nasty messages or content.Text or digital imaging messages sent on cell phonesSending nasty calls or text messages, including threats, intimidation and harassment.Taking and sharing humiliating images.Videoing and sharing acts of bullying.Web pages, web logs, web blogsPosting nasty comments or feedback.Chat rooms, discussion groupsSending nasty or threatening anonymous messages.Ignoring individuals.Persuading people to give out private information for purposes of exploitation.Social Networking SitesPosting nasty comments, humiliating images or videos.Hacking into anotherâs account and sending unpleasant messages.Rejecting or excluding peers by refusing to return or acknowledge messages; blocking contact by deleting people from their friendship lists, or using âignoreâ functions.Creating a fake profile to be someone else to bully, harass or get the targeted victim into trouble.
Stealing passwords and impersonationHacking into someoneâs email account and sending hurtful messages to othersHarassing someone by repeatedly sending unwanted messagesSending unsuitable images/video clipsForwarding someone elseâs personal emailsSending computer viruses
Type 1: The âVengeful AngelâThese cyberbullies donât see themselves as bullies at all.They see themselves as righting wrongs, or protecting themselves or others from the âbad guysâ they are now victimizing.The âVengeful Angelâ cyberbully often gets involved trying to protect a friend who is being bullied or cyberbullied.Type 2: The âPower Hungryâ + âRevenge of The NerdsâThese cyberbullies need an audience.They want to exert their authority and show that they are powerful enough to make others do what they want them to do.These cyberbullies have often been victims of typical bullying.They have better tech skills than others (thus, âRevenge of The Nerdsâ).This type of bully typically works in secret and doesnât tell others what he/she is doing.They rarely see the seriousness of their actions.Most dangerous of all cyberbullies!Type 3: The âMean GirlâHappens withcyberbullies who are bored and/or looking for entertainmentEgo-based and most immature of all cyberbullying typesTypically female cyberbullies.Victims are typically other girls, but can also be boys.Sometimes done as a group (physically or virtually).Type 4: The âInadvertentâThesecyberbullies do not think of themselves as bullies.They may pretend to be tough online, role-playing or reacting to hateful or provocative messages.They do not typically lash out intentionally.Tend to respond in anger or frustration.Sometimes send out cyberbullying communication without understanding how serious it could be.Sometimes send communication that they think is funny or a joke but the receiver interprets as cyberbullying (due to lack of body language).Are typically surprised when someone accuses them of cyberbullying.
Good NetiquetteStart by making sure you are sending the right things to the right place, that it arrives and that the right person(s) gets it.Is it worth sending? Donât waste peopleâs time and bandwidth with junk, chain emails and false rumours.Proofread and spell-check your emails and make sure the receiver(s) knows who you are.Donât attack others online, say anything that could be considered insulting or that is controversial.Donât forward other peopleâs emails without their permission or share their personal information.Are you angry when youâre writing this message? Take 5 and reconsider your words.Donât reply to spam; donât even email and ask to be removed from their mailing list. Simply, ignore and filter into spam box.How private is the message you are sending? Are you willing to have others read this message or forward it to others without your permission?Be nice to people in your âreal worldâ as real world issues become intensified on the internetIt is okay not to answer a message/email/text right awayCyberbullyingbehaviour should never be a strategy to resolve conflicts with others.
Personal information:passwords, login IDs, pin numbers, home address and telephone numbersIt is okay not to answer a message/email/text right awayBe nice to people in your âreal worldâ as real world issues become intensified on the internetCyberbullies know their victims; the victims may not know their cyberbullies.Victims are often fearful of telling others about being bullied because they are afraid that the bullying may become worse if they tell.Victims are also often afraid to report to adults about being cyberbullied, as they fear the adults will over-react and take away their mobile devices and/or internet access.
Stop, Block, Tell: Donât reply, block the sender, tell someone (a trusted adult)Adults: parents, teachersSave the evidence â screen capture on the computer, saved text messages on the mobile phone, print out the emails/messages of harassmentIdentify the sender â contact ISP (Internet Service Provider) if necessaryGoogle yourself and ask yourself if you are revealing private information of yourself over the Internet.
What is the problem here?How do you think Joseph felt?What do you think the boys watching Anthony were thinking?What do you think the kids at school said or did the next day?When kids are in groups, they sometimes do things that they would not do alone. Using someone elseâs password and screen name to embarrass them is cyberbullyingbehaviour. Some of the kids at Josephâs sleepover may think Anthonyâs behavior is wrong, but they donât say anything. So Anthony thinks that everyone in the group agrees with him. Kids who see, hear, or know about cyberbullying are called bystanders. The bigger the group of bystanders is, the less likely it is that any of them will try to help. Why do you think this is true?What could the bystanders at Jesseâs home say to stop the cyberbullying behavior? What would make things worse?
What is the problem here?How do you think Kim felt?What might the kids who received the email think or do?What should Kim do? How would you advise her?
If you were Sandraâs friend, what advice would you give her?
If he called you for advice, what would you tell him?
What is the problem here?Imagine someone telling an embarrassing secret about you in front of a bunch of kids at school. Now imagine someone posting an embarrassing secret about you on the Internet.When kids intentionally embarrass another kid, thatâs just plain mean. Embarrassing or humiliating another kid using the Internet is cyberbullying. When Joseph and the others posted the video online, they set up a cyberbullying situation. They made it easy for other kids in school, and kids all over the world, to join in with them and post hurtful words online â again and again.As a bystander,what could you say to or do for Kevin?what could you say to Joseph?what could you say to the other kids at school who viewed the video and left cruel comments?how could you have involved a trusted adult?
Both Sandra and Andrew are the targets of cyberbullying. Whether bullies are face to face or in cyberspace, they feel powerful when they bother other people. They may use hurtful words or threaten. Often the cyberbully is someone you know face to face. Perhaps the bully ïŹnds it easier to be mean and nasty online, when he or she canât see the other personâs reaction. Online or off, bullying is meant to make you feel uncomfortable. Either way, itâs upsetting.
Bullying should not be tolerated, whether in school or in cyberspace. Trust your uncomfortable feelings â they mean something is wrong. Letâs recall the steps to take when confronted by cyberbullying.If you witness cyberbullying, you can help by supporting the target and letting the bullies know that their behavior is not acceptable.
1. Who is Kim?2. What did she do to Joe and why?3. How did Joe feel about the websites and emails he received?4. Joe deleted one of the messages he received. Was this the right thing to do? What should he do instead?5. Why did the police turn up in school?