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1. I'm dating two women I met online but getting serious with
one. Is it wrong to keep it up? | Life and style
Dear Eva,
I have been using Tinder for about
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sometimes/ a month, and contrary to what I expected it worked right away. I quickly found two
women that I have tons of things in common with and started having great conversations with both
of them.
I have been dating both for a
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weeks and its getting kind of serious with
one of them, but I still feel like I am not
ready to commit.
Is it wrong to keep dating both? Do I have to
explicitly tell them that I am also seeing
someone else? (I doubt anybody would take
that well.) I feel like it happened so fast, and I want to make sure Im not missing out on anyone else
but I also dont want to be a jerk.
Hey, you.
When I received your email I was walking down the street with a girlfriend and I read it out loud to
her. You have to hear this! I said. Its a message from an ethical person who is using Tinder! Wow!
she replied. You found the only one!
This is a bit of an exaggeration Im sure several ethical people use Tinder but the fact is, its a lot
better known for being a tool that people use to be, well, tools. So, thank you for this refreshing
request for help in avoiding being a jerk.
I think its pretty accepted among users of dating apps that everyone is seeing several people at once
I think its pretty accepted among users of Tinder and other dating apps that everyone is seeing
several people at once (at least, potentially) until you have a conversation about
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fact that you have been seeing them both is not the end of the world. However, you say things are
getting kind of serious with the first woman youre dating I dont know how you qualify serious but my
reading, without more detail, is that you believe the first woman might feel hurt or betrayed if she
learned about the second one. Most people wouldnt feel that way after two dates with someone they
met on Tinder, but they would after a month and several nights
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2. That youre asking for permission (so to speak) to keep dating the second woman makes me think
your interest in the first one is waning, or is not commensurate with the kind of serious nature of
your other relationship.
You say that you dont want to miss out on someone who is a better match for you, but these are
people were talking about; its not like you bought two sweaters at a store and are wearing them
both around the house before returning one.
Unless youre certain that the first woman is a fan of open relationships, I would suggest you break
up with her in as kind a way as possible, which is to say, with swiftness and empathy. This may make
you feel like a jerk at the time, but is much less jerky than doing it after she spends another month
with you.
Love,
Eva
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