1. Mature Character 2. Loving Relationships & Family 3. Contribution to Society
1. Time of maturing of character for marriage and parenthood. 2. Springtime of life for youth. Youth Idealistic, sensitive, romantic and passionate. Need guidance and protection
1. Emphasis on receiving 2. Focus on external traits 3. Starts and ends quickly 4. Separation and time weaken partner’s bond 1. Emphasis on giving 2. Focus on internal traits 3. Grows steadily 4. Separation and time deepen partner’s bond
Romance by itself Insufficient foundation for the enduring love needed to sustain marriages and families
1. Psychological damage and problems for future marriage can afflict either men or women Even if disease and pregnancy are prevented Can have lifelong impact
Temptation of Sexual Love
1. Regret 2. Heartbreak 3. Guilt and shame 4. Stunted personal growth 5. Loss of self-respect 6. Fear of commitment Source: Thomas Lickona,“The Neglected Heart,” American Educator, 1994
7. Anxiety over possible pregnancy and disease 8. Rage over betrayal 9. Corruption ofcharacter 10. Depression and suicide Source: Thomas Lickona, “The Neglected Heart,” American Educator, 1994
1. Practice loyalty, cooperation, support and honesty 2. Make friends with various people of good character Different personalities Elder and younger Male and female
1. Stimulates selfishness 2. Creates possessiveness 3. Inhibits communication
1. Relate to them as siblings or close relatives 2. Respect gender qualities Within family and friends Show modesty in attitude and appearance
1. As preparation for possible marriage 2. To select a better marriage partner
1. If married later, greater likelihood of divorce 2. Increased conflict and poorer communication 3. Greater risk of violence to women 7 times the risk of assault by boy friends than by husbands Source: National Crime Victimization Survey, US Department of Justice, 1992
Normal & healthy Controlling it is normal & healthy
1. Greatest gift to show sincerity 2. Freedom to learn the art of loving together 3. Freedom from comparisons to past lovers 4. Less chance of divorce 5. Training for fidelity
Source of pride, joy, and emotional security
Sexual Attractiveness
1. Caring 2. Honesty 3. Trust 4. Fidelity 5. Commitment 6. Sense of sacrifice 7. Sexual satisfaction
1. Strengthen personal integrity 2. Practice filial piety 3. Cultivate respect and appreciation for the opposite sex 4. Practice being a true friend 5. Deepen the heart through service 6. Maintain sexual purity
Love and honor one’s parents Cultivation of loyalty Springboard to all forms of love
