1. How To Keep Your Man Happy In A Long Distance
Relationship
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Betty asks…
Long distance relationships! ?
Okay, so I have been in a relationship with the woman that is my soulmate (sounds corny I
know) for three years. Together we have three kids, 16,12 & 4 two older are hers, and the
younger girl is mine. I am moving away for two years for work in another state and she is
staying in the state here with her boys. After the two years we plan to pack up and move to
Cali, something we both want. The world dissapers when we kiss and damn are we good
together dispite little issues here and there. She is my princess, my best friend and she has
made me a very happy man. Can a long distance relationship work? Or in your experience
do they fail. Im stressed out about this and need to know how to keep it all together for two
years if the % is low.
Blissful Relationship answers:
If the love is there….and it’s true love….all will work out in the end. You two already have a deep
foundation of love and trust already….love knows no boundaries….so being in another state will
not change that. You two have to have a plan on how the two of your are going to communicate
with one another and how often you two plan on visiting! Work may be your top priority, but
when moving day comes, it will have to be your relationship…..no matter how hectic your day is,
always, and I mean ALWAYS take a minute or two out of each night to tell one another how
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2. much you mean to each other. It will be hard and quite painful at times….but that pain you will be
feeling will help you get through this and it is a reminder how much she means to you and how
much you love her….that will stop from any indiscretion from happening. I have been in a long
distance relationship with my soulmate for the past two years! The distance has made us
stronger, because we never take each other for granted!! 6 more months to go for me, and I Will
finally get my man back for good!! Good luck, stay positive, it will work out if both your hearts
are in it 150%!!!!
Susan asks…
y wont no one answer my Q?! I need help, Long distance
relationship problem?..Im so stressed out and upset:(?
PLZ READ IT, I KNOW ITS LONG BUT I APPRECIATE YOUR HELP! This is my second time
posting because no one is being kind enough to help me..
I live in London. However i am from Newyork, and just recently i went to Brooklyn to see my
family and while i was there i met this really nice man, beautiful personality and just really
gawjus! We flirted alot and i could tell he already had crush on me plus he kept hinting tings out
haha so anyway..yes we got to know each other, he asked me if i will be moving to america
forever and i said yes i will be soon after my collage and all that, he got excited and happy..So
we started dateing! Fell in love and everyting hes is so adorable, and caring..But the problem
is..i came back to London because my mom was ill and he forced me to go see her because he
said it is important for me to go see her, so i did and he told me to keep int. text and keep in
CALL. However, i keep running out of int.text because it is soo damn expensive and eats up my
credits fast so we started emailing each other and he asked me what times he should call me
because American time is like 5 hours back, so i told him i will text you went to call. But i ran out
text, so i cant tell him to call me its been over two weeks of no contact only because recently i
have been having breathing problems and was in hospital but he doesnt know this, i cant even
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3. speak ! I miss him too much! I’m worried he might think i dont like him anymore or im not
interested..but its far from that i love him too much ive not been working so i cant afford int.
text…Do you guys think i should email and tell him? I’m scared he is going to think i am lieing or
making excuses or dont want to talk..Because he asked me more than twice when to call and
ive been reallly busy like looking aftering my ill mom who was in serious serious condition..And
now me being illl with chest pains and breathing problems wich is also serious…what the helll
:’(..What should i do? I miss him so much, over two weeks of no contact..he is deffinatly not
thinking about postive things between both of us!..He sent me a huge paragraph telling me how
much me misses our conversations and everyting..now im about to reply to him but how should
i tell him about my late reply due to being ill? Im waay to embarrassed to tell him about not
affording int. text because of being off work and illl, i feel bad for not calling him. I cant hardly
talk..im probably going back to hospital soon. Please help me im really feeling emotional right
now :’( (PLEASE NO RUDE COMMENTS ABOUT HOW WERE LIVE TOO FAR AND OUR
RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER WORK, IM AWARE HOWEVER I WILL BE MOVING TO
AMERICA) Thankyou..
Blissful Relationship answers:
First of all, your relationship can definitely work! My 2-year relationship has withstood a
semester where I was studying in Amsterdam and he was in Boston, and the past year I’ve
been in California while he is still in Boston finishing school. Long distance relationships are
hard, but that doesn’t mean that they’re impossible if you’re truly crazy about someone, and it
sounds like you are!
Secondly, not being able to afford international calls and texts is nothing to be ashamed of! You
should tell him the truth and utilize the great tool that is the internet! Email is great because you
don’t have to worry about the time difference. Phones are so tricky and expensive when you
get international. Download a tool like Skype, which also has video calling and instant
messaging from computer to computer. You can even make calls from your computer to his cell
phone for a small fee (like, $1 per call, but reception can be spotty). I don’t remember if London
has places with free internet access, but even a internet cafe isn’t too expensive for a few
hours a week. Set up a time on the weekend for you guys to meet up online for some instant
messaging. Guys also don’t necessarily need contact every day. Guys can go years without
talking to someone, but still consider them to be their best friend.
I hope you feel better. He probably thinks that you’ve just been super busy with your mom, but
you should tell him about your hospitalization too. I’m sure he wont accuse you of lying, saying
you were staying in the hospital is a very serious matter. If he can’t be understanding during
this hard time for you and what you’re trying to do for your mother, then he doesn’t deserve
you anyway. Be strong, good luck!
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4. Lisa asks…
I’m 30 Years Old & Single Parent. Parents HATE BF bc of actions
occass. He has Tourettes & they don’t know?
My bf and I have been together for a year. My mother is basically the type of woman who you
would think has a personality disorder. Total nutcase, never happy, miserable, always yelling
and only happy when her kids are miserable. Her marriage with my father is totally DEAD. Just
BLAH. You would never even know they were married. They don’t speak to one another, do
anything together, basically don’t even acknowledge the others’ presence. It’s like they are
roomates. Every past relationship I’ve been in, I was miserable and my mother was my BFF,
always HAPPY and willing to “give advice and help”. I met my BF appr 14 months ago, and I
was head over heels. Never so happy in my life and it showed. My mother on the other hand
never even gave him a chance. She just didn’t like him and made it OBVIOUS which put a lot of
strain and stress on our relationship.Some more info also to get a better idea of how I’m
treated, I am like the black sheep but for no reason. 2nd girl out of four. I’m basically a pushover
and always seeking approval from everyone. I’ve always done what everyone ELSE wanted
and my BF over this past year has been teaching me to be an adult and put my foot down and
to open my mouth and not take their shit anymore. My father knew him before me and always
like him.
Well, anyway, my BF and I had a big fight in September. My family found out through a
big-mouth friend and ever since, my mother said that he will never be accepted in our family
again or welcome in her home. The fight was nothing abusive but me and him did have a HUGE
verbal blowout with eachother (it was both our faults). Thing is, my BF has tourettes (not
noticeable anymore except for minor shoulder twitches) and tends to say his “intrusive
thoughts” out loud. He will say something totally wrong/disturbing during a fight and once it
settles down, he realizes what he said and apologizes up and down.
Besides him having this problem, which I kind of put on the back burner because I know it goes
deeper than what my family knows (Again, they do not know he has tourettes) he is an amazing
man! I’ve never had someone LOVE me so much and never give up on our love. We are
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5. totally in love with eachother and so nsync with eachother. I’ve never been happy in any
relationship and I am crazy about him! We took about getting engaged soon and all that. They
don’t see what were like together. They can’t see the love we have for one another and how
deeply in love we are because we can never e around them as a couple. My family does not
know his issue and I always felt it was none of their business, but considering they basically told
me “I will be without them if I wind up with him for life” I feel like maybe if they knew the truth,
that it would help?
Again, I’m 30 years old and have a six-year old daughter (who was not present for the fight that
day BTW) I’m a grown-ass women! And my parents and siblings all make their opinions known
and butt in my business 24/7. I refuse to have the type of marriage that my parents have. My
therapists (I’ve been to three and they’ve all said the same thing to the T) have all said that I
need to try to distance myself from my family as much as possible. Not cut them off, but
distance myself. They’ve all said that my mother and rest of family are cancer for me. “Misery
Loves Company”. My mother has even said that if I marry him, her and my father will change
their will and take me out of it and give all my inheritance to my daughter. She also said “You
may think that you will be happily ever after with him and just keep your relationhip between
him and your family separate and it will work, but OHHHHH it’s not! If you wanna spend
holidays and the rest of your days alone, go ahead, bc as long as you’re with him, you will be
alone bc he will never be accepted again.
It’s killing me!!!!!! I’m an adult! I shouldn’t have to be put in this position!
My question is…..do I dump him because my family will NEVER accept him again and it will just
be a strain and cause problems? Or do I stay with him because were in love, a deep love I feel
I’ll never find again, and just limit my time with family and/or just not speak to them?
PLEASE HELP! ALL ADVICE NEEDED ASAP!
Blissful Relationship answers:
Just have them watch the South Park episode Le Petit Tourettes.
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6. Maria asks…
Parents hate my BF. He has Tourettes but they don’t know. Mking
me choose. I’m 30 & a MOM!?
My bf and I have been together for a year. My mother is basically the type of woman who you
would think has a personality disorder. Total nutcase, never happy, miserable, always yelling
and only happy when her kids are miserable. Her marriage with my father is totally DEAD. Just
BLAH. You would never even know they were married. They don’t speak to one another, do
anything together, basically don’t even acknowledge the others’ presence. It’s like they are
roomates. Every past relationship I’ve been in, I was miserable and my mother was my BFF,
always HAPPY and willing to “give advice and help”. I met my BF appr 14 months ago, and I
was head over heels. Never so happy in my life and it showed. My mother on the other hand
never even gave him a chance. She just didn’t like him and made it OBVIOUS which put a lot of
strain and stress on our relationship.Some more info also to get a better idea of how I’m
treated, I am like the black sheep but for no reason. 2nd girl out of four. I’m basically a pushover
and always seeking approval from everyone. I’ve always done what everyone ELSE wanted
and my BF over this past year has been teaching me to be an adult and put my foot down and
to open my mouth and not take their shit anymore. My father knew him before me and always
like him.
Well, anyway, my BF and I had a big fight in September. My family found out through a
big-mouth friend and ever since, my mother said that he will never be accepted in our family
again or welcome in her home. The fight was nothing abusive but me and him did have a HUGE
verbal blowout with eachother (it was both our faults). Thing is, my BF has tourettes (not
noticeable anymore except for minor shoulder twitches) and tends to say his “intrusive
thoughts” out loud. He will say something totally wrong/disturbing during a fight and once it
settles down, he realizes what he said and apologizes up and down.
Besides him having this problem, which I kind of put on the back burner because I know it goes
deeper than what my family knows (Again, they do not know he has tourettes) he is an amazing
man! I’ve never had someone LOVE me so much and never give up on our love. We are
totally in love with eachother and so nsync with eachother. I’ve never been happy in any
relationship and I am crazy about him! We took about getting engaged soon and all that. They
don’t see what were like together. They can’t see the love we have for one another and how
deeply in love we are because we can never e around them as a couple. My family does not
know his issue and I always felt it was none of their business, but considering they basically told
me “I will be without them if I wind up with him for life” I feel like maybe if they knew the truth,
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7. that it would help?
Again, I’m 30 years old and have a six-year old daughter (who was not present for the fight that
day BTW) I’m a grown-ass women! And my parents and siblings all make their opinions known
and butt in my business 24/7. I refuse to have the type of marriage that my parents have. My
therapists (I’ve been to three and they’ve all said the same thing to the T) have all said that I
need to try to distance myself from my family as much as possible. Not cut them off, but
distance myself. They’ve all said that my mother and rest of family are cancer for me. “Misery
Loves Company”. My mother has even said that if I marry him, her and my father will change
their will and take me out of it and give all my inheritance to my daughter. She also said “You
may think that you will be happily ever after with him and just keep your relationhip between
him and your family separate and it will work, but OHHHHH it’s not! If you wanna spend
holidays and the rest of your days alone, go ahead, bc as long as you’re with him, you will be
alone bc he will never be accepted again.
It’s killing me!!!!!! I’m an adult! I shouldn’t have to be put in this position!
My question is…..do I dump him because my family will NEVER accept him again and it will just
be a strain and cause problems? Or do I stay with him because were in love, a deep love I feel
I’ll never find again, and just limit my time with family and/or just not speak to them?
PLEASE HELP! ALL ADVICE NEEDED ASAP!
Blissful Relationship answers:
If you really love him and your parents don’t care that you love him, the heck with them. It’s
none of their business anyway. If you were in your teens, they have every right to tell you who
you can and can’t date. But you’re not, you’re 30. You can date who ever. Sure, they can give
their advice but they can’t say to not date him. I know nothing of your family except for what
you have said but i’m sure after at least a year, most people in your family will accept him..
Besides, you always have his family to spend with during the holidays etc..
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8. Mandy asks…
What Are Things That Annoy You? Things That You Like?
I Need Some Help On What To Add To My About Me So Tell Me What You Dont Like And What
You Do Like And Maybe You Can Help Me (:
Here Are Mine:
I Like: Animals. Friends. Tupac Shakur. Marilyn Manson. Rob Zombie. Pretty Ricky. Twiztid.
Insane Clown Posse. Hollywood Undead. Cobra Starship. Nickelback. Will Ferrell Movies. Being
A Pervert. Horror Movies. Zombie Movies. Being Half Black. Video Games. Shane Dawson.
Wrestling. Animal Rights Activists. Barbeque Sandwhiches. French Fries. Apple Juice. Pickles.
Vampires. Monsters. Fairys. Art. Family Guy. South Park. The Boondocks. Squidbillys. Gir From
Invader Zim. Mtv. Vh1. Futurama. Hookers. Strippers. Tattoos. Piercings. Hot Topic. Spencers.
Handcuffs. Monoxide Child. Drunk People, They Are Rather Amusing, As Are People That Are
High Off Their A**. Shaggy 2 Dope. Kiwis. Black Eyeliner. Spanish. Spongebob Squarepants.
Jeff Hardy. Money. Tutus. Ed Hardy. The Smell Of Axe. Stoners. Thugs. That 70s Show. Old
School Cars. The Sims. Skulls. My Tongue. Blue. Purple. John Cena. Scooby Doo.
Documentaries On Scary Stuff Or Cryptids. Mashup’s of Songs. Fruitista Freeze. Invisible
Rope Prank. Zoo York Shoes. Lita. Edge. Draven Shoes. Colorful Nikes. Fubu. Black.
Doberman Pinschers. Parodies Of Popular Things. Chihuahuas. The Real Word. Spectacular
Blue Smith. Jelly Bracelets. The Word Epic. When A Rock Band Covers a Pop/ Hip Hop Song,
or vice versa. Burger King’s Icees. “Thats What She Said” Jokes. Hearing That He Still Loves
Me After This Long.
I Dislike:Uptight People. White Kidds That Think It’s Okay To Say N*gga Now, F.Y.I Your Still
White, It’s Still Not Okay. People That Are “Addicted” To Sex, Its Not A Drug. People That
Blame God For Their Problems. Wet Willies, Keep It In Your Mouth, Not In Others Ears. When
Babies Dont Know How To STFU When There Is Something Important Going On, If Your Kid
Wont Shut Up, Take Them Outside Or Something Geez. People Dissing Our President, Your
Just Mad That A Black Man Has Finally Came Up And Is Better Than You. Country Music.
Alchoholics. Twilight. Anything To Do With Disney Channel. People That Cant Take A Joke.
People That Push Your Beliefs On You, I Dont Push My Beliefs On You, Dont Do It To Me.
Spiders. Snakes. B*tches. People That Say Marijuana, Salvia, And Mushrooms Are Bad, They
Are Natural Drugs, God Obviously Put Them Here For A Reason, They Are NOT Bad Unless
You Make Them Bad By Taking Too Much. Animal Cruelty. Liars. My Hair. Feet. People That
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9. Make Stuff Up About Themselves Just To Seem Cooler. People That Say Stuff About Me
Having An Online/Long Distance Relationship, If The Person Makes You Happy It Shouldnt
Matter, So You Got A Problem With It? Well Muhh Dear F*CK YOU. Skinny Girls That Always
Complain About Being “Fat”. When People Identify Me As White, DO NOT Identify Me As
White, I Am Mixed Please Respect That. Pretty Girls That Cant Seem To Understand That They
Are Gorgeous. How Most, Not All, White People Do Pointless Crimes, At Least Black People’s
Crimes Have A Point, If You’re Broke, Go Rob A Bank. Bugs. When People Take Way Too
Long To Reply To A Instant Message. When People Claim To Be “In Love” But Then 2 Weeks
Later They Break Up And Hate Each Other All Of A Sudden, True Love Never Dies You
Faggoids. People That Think That 2Girls1Cup Was Throw Up In Your Mouth Disgusting, It
Wasnt You Pusses. People That Dont Believe In Love, Love Exists Obviously, Do You Love
Your Mother? Father? Sister? Friends? The Only Reason People Say That Is Because They
Suck At Keeping Relationships and Like Blaming Love Instead Of Themselves. Forgetting What
I Was Going To Say Because I Really Wanted To Say It. Replies To Things That Only Say
‘Kk’ or ‘Lol’, Anything One Worded Really, If You Dont Give Me Something To Reply To, No
Point In Replying. When People Scream, Loudly, On Purpose, In Your Ear.
I’ve read over that, and im sorry i sound so mean lol im really not!
if you disagree or something please dont make that your entire answer, please answer the
question first then tell me what you think if you wish i dont care…ooh! wait a new idea for
something i dont like lol “people that dont answer my question and go off on something
different” hehe (;
please dont be rudee (:
thanks (;
Burn Loud? Whats That Mean?
And Its Okay You Dont Have To Read All Of It lol I Just Put It There Just In Case People Dont
Understand. (:
oh burp..lol
Blissful Relationship answers:
Hate:
People farting in public and thinking it is okay.
When someone eats and talks with their mouth full.
Tapping fingers or pens or anything else on a surface.
When girls/women pop their gum….especially when in the doc’s office, and I am reading while
waiting.
Kids using the F word like it is the most common word.
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10. Love:
The sunrises/sunsets
Holding a baby.
The smell of a freshly cleaned baby.
Watching movies
Coming here and answering questions
Listening to 50-60-70s music.
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