Social anxiety and fitness: tracking using humans vs. technology - Lisette Sutherland
1. Social Anxiety and Fitness
Tracking using humans vs technology
Lisette
Sutherland
2. Social Anxiety: how it
developed
Grade school: lived on American
AFB, went to German school
Moved to US: culturally different than
others
Teens: Goth
University: Hydrologist Goth
Natural personality trait: ENFX (90%
F)
3. Social Anxiety: How did it
manifest?
Low self-esteem
Lots of self doubt
Highly emotional (ENFX)
Wanted to go out but dreaded it
(ENFX)
Got tired of dreading it and started
looking for solutions!
4. Therapist as
Quantifier/Judge
Social anxiety is an irrational fear:
wanted a sympathetic/compassionate
solution and an objective judge
Criteria:
objective/honest judge
someone not a part of my life
“normal” well-adapted person
6. Social Anxiety: The Plan
HABITUATION
Choose activity I like but dread
Do it over and over again
Report experience
7. Social Anxiety: The Plan
HABITUATION
Choose activity I like but dread
Going dancing at clubs
Do it over and over again
Death Guild every Monday
Report experience
Weekly therapy sessions: use objective
human to guide directions
8. Social Anxiety: Findings
I SHOULD HAVE QUANTIFIED!
But I can say:
Feel better overall
Healthy self-esteem/confidence
Go out regularly
Go out alone without hesitation
Armed with coping mechanisms &
knowledge
9. Social Anxiety: Findings
Reprogramming is possible! Cheer!
Habituation is an awesome tool
Habituation is totally hard
Important to find activity you truly like
Over time (~5 years), the feelings
became so familiar. I learned to
recognize that they weren’t real.
Severity decreased.
The human sympathy from therapist
was helpful & motivating
10. And now... real quantification
How much can I eat and weigh 63kg?
15. Fitness: Findings
Food has too many calories!
To weigh 63kg: Eat less and move more
◦ East less than 1500 net calories per day
◦ Add walk to end of day of all sitting
◦ No eating after 9pm
◦ Consider ADCR/16-8
Tracking exercise helps motivate me to do
more
Tracking calories helps me eat less
I have more self control before 4pm than after
Good reminder: Be careful of meaningless
coincidence
17. Tracking: Human vs
Technology
Accountability partnerships are
powerful
Tracking/quantifying is essential
Use methods/tools designed to fit your
situation and your style
Hinweis der Redaktion
The therapist and I decided that a fun and productive way to explore my social anxiety was to go to the club every week. Basically, she was suggesting habituation. It was something where I could explore the feelings of fear and anxiety – yet it was familiar… a childhood kind of familiar. It was also something I really liked doing so the inner battle between going and not going was basically even.
I was never able to expel the anxiety completely, I was able to dispel it to a manageable level. The anxiety and the fear of not being accepted eventually became so familiar, that I was able to recognize the feelings and know that they weren’t real.