Our beliefs play a large part of how we are in the world, the guide our attention, let us know what is possible for us and give us or deny us permission to act. Most of us have unhelpful beliefs that limit us and what we can achieve.
Unfortunately allthough we might suspect there are limiting beliefs at work, because they are so tightly woven into our experience they can be hard to identify.
If you can't find them then you can't change them.
This webinar will give you a simple, step by step, process to help you identify some of the limiting beliefs that may be holding you back.
All you will need is some paper and a pen.
This is another webinar in the very modest promise series: Listening to this webinar will probably not make you any richer, thinner or more popular, but I think it will give you some useful information and techniques that, if you choose to apply, will help you along the path of life.
You can watch a recording of the webinar here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vx52utPkhuQ
You can find the EFT Collections Book mentioned in the video here: http://tinyurl.com/qbuw67k
The Getting Out Of Your Own Way book can be found here: http://tinyurl.com/otjxjbu
2. What to expect
This webinar is:
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For people who want to identify their limiting
beliefs
It is:
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A brief introduction to limiting beliefs
A simple technique for identifying some of your
limiting beliefs
3. What you will need
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A situation where you feel stuck
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Pen and paper
4. What is a limiting belief?
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5. What is a limiting belief?
An unhelpful idea held
in place by a feeling.
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6. What is a limiting belief?
An unhelpful idea held
in place by a feeling.
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How the world works
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7. What is a limiting belief?
An unhelpful idea held
in place by a feeling.
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How the world works
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What it means
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8. What is a limiting belief?
An unhelpful idea held
in place by a feeling.
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How the world works
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What it means
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Who we are
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9. What is a limiting belief?
An unhelpful idea held
in place by a feeling.
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How the world works
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What it means
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Who we are
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What is possible
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10. What is a limiting belief?
An unhelpful idea held
in place by a feeling.
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How the world works
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What it means
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Who we are
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What is possible
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What is important
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18. Ways to find your limiting beliefs
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Have someone else find them
19. Ways to find your limiting beliefs
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Have someone else find them
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Try out other people's
20. Ways to find your limiting beliefs
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Have someone else find them
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Try out other people's
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Bring them to the surface
21. Ways to find your limiting beliefs
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Have someone else find them
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Try out other people's
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Bring them to the surface
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Ask why?
22. Why “why” doesn't help
The question why?
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May provokes
defensiveness
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23. Why “why” doesn't help
The question why?
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May provokes
defensiveness
Is an invitation to the
inner story teller to
make something up
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24. How can we coax limiting beliefs
up to the surface?
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27. “because” points to causes
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It's snowing because it's cold
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I can't get that job because I'm too old
28. “because” points to causes
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It's snowing because it's cold
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I can't get that job because I'm too old
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I am avoiding the presentation because I will
make a fool of myself
29. “because” points to causes
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It's snowing because it's cold
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I can't get that job because I'm too old
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I am avoiding the presentation because I will
make a fool of myself
My business failing because nobody is
interested in my products.
31. Part 1: Pick A Situation
Pick a situation were:
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You feel stuck
You have a pattern of behaviour that repeats
itself.
You suspect that something is going on
beneath the surface but don't know what it is.
33. Part 2: Bringing In The Harvest
Complete the sentence
[The situation] because …
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34. Part 2: Bringing In The Harvest
Complete the sentence again
[The situation] because …
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35. Part 2: Bringing In The Harvest
… and again
[The situation] because …
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36. Part 2: Bringing In The Harvest
… and again
[The situation] because …
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37. Part 2: Bringing In The Harvest
... and again
[The situation] because …
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keep going until the well runs dry
or you repeat yourself
38. Part 2: Bringing In The Harvest
Tips
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Go fast
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Be honest
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Collect everything
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Don't stop to think
39. 3. Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
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40. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
I can't lose weight because:
• I can't stop myself eating
• I addicted to food
• I'm addicted to bread
• I can't help myself
• I don't want to
• I've tried and I always put weight back on
41. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
I can't lose weight because:
• I can't stop myself eating - 8
• I addicted to food
• I'm addicted to bread
• I can't help myself
• I don't want to
• I've tried and I always put weight back on
42. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
I can't lose weight because:
• I can't stop myself eating - 8
• I addicted to food - 0
• I'm addicted to bread
• I can't help myself
• I don't want to
• I've tried and I always put weight back on
43. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
I can't lose weight because:
• I can't stop myself eating - 8
• I addicted to food - 0
• I'm addicted to bread - 6
• I can't help myself
• I don't want to
• I've tried and I always put weight back on
44. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
I can't lose weight because:
• I can't stop myself eating - 8
• I addicted to food - 0
• I'm addicted to bread - 6
• I can't help myself - 10
• I don't want to
• I've tried and I always put weight back on
45. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
I can't lose weight because:
• I can't stop myself eating - 8
• I addicted to food - 0
• I'm addicted to bread - 6
• I can't help myself - 10
• I don't want to - 0
• I've tried and I always put weight back on
46. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
I can't lose weight because:
• I can't stop myself eating - 8
• I addicted to food - 0
• I'm addicted to bread - 6
• I can't help myself - 10
• I don't want to - 0
• I've tried and I always put weight back on - 8
47. Part 3: Sorting The Wheat
From The Chaff
Process your list of potential beliefs
48. Part 4: Process The Beliefs
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50. 4. Process The Beliefs
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Standard tapping
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Process the causal events
51. 4. Process The Beliefs
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Standard tapping
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Process the causal events
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Reframing
52. 4. Process The Beliefs
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Standard tapping
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Process the causal events
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Reframing
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Belief Flip
53. 4. Process The Beliefs
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Standard tapping
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Process the causal events
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Reframing
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Belief Flip
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Exception Tapping
54. 4. Process The Beliefs
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Standard tapping
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Process the causal events
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Reframing
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Belief Flip
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Exception Tapping
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Paradoxical Tapping
55. 4. Process The Beliefs
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Standard tapping
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Process the causal events
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Reframing
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Belief Flip
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Exception Tapping
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Paradoxical Tapping
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Your favourite method