1. A Short Guide For The Bondage Beginners

3. Many people have tried bondage club and found it to be an exciting way to spice up their love life.

4. The most important aspect is trust, because one of the partners is restricted and therefore vulnerable.

5. Otherwise these kinds of games should never be played.

6. The active partner should never use the session purely to fulfill their own fantasies in a selfish way.

8. It allows some people to relax and enjoy being given pleasure without worries of giving pleasure back at the same time.

9. Some prefer to struggle against their restraints (they say it builds up an exciting adrenaline rush).

10. Blindfold heightens other sensations in the body.

11. The active partner gets increased feelings of personal power.

13. Take turns in tying each other using silk scarves and then tease;

14. Tie up with something that can easily be broken out of. Then they only have to stay in that position if they want to be there;

15. Blindfolding during sex, massage, or kissing;

16. Furry lovecuffs to prevent chafing and cutoffs in the circulation).

18. They concern consent, abuse, and physical injuries.

19. If you don't feel safe with something then don't do it.

20. DON'T try with someone you've just met.

21. Never let a partner coerce or bully you into any sexual practice that you don't want to do.

23. Say what you will or will not allow.

24. Rules are sacred.

25. Have a safe word (something that the passive partner can say if they want the other person to stop). Everything must be stopped immediately, and the passive partner released within seconds.

27. Gags are potentially dangerous.

28. Someone tied up may never be left alone.

29. They have to be comfortable, breathing properly, nothing may be cutting off their circulation.

31. Don't rush into anything that uses complicated equipment without experience.

32. The rules of safer sex still apply:

33. Use condoms for penetrative sex.

34. Drink and drugs can cause you to seriously underestimate safety risks.

35. Avoid intoxication.