some of my thinking in day to day observation..nbd

1. TIPS OF MY THINKING
By
Naorem Binita Devi, from
Kakching,Manipur. Now faculty
member dept. of psy.,MZU

3. The most important
thing that i kept in my
mind is ..."learning
through struggle, taking
out thorns that is going
to stuck...dealing with
snakes around
me...coping with eyes
closed n concentrate to
the name of God
because we are
sent ....."...nbd (naorem
Binita devi)

4. Fig. Sun (evening scene)
Please think how
to bring a peaceful
society...never
think how to
distort such
process...nbd

5. Fig: Sun scene
Discrimination exist everywhere.It does not
take place in one particular part of a
place...it has occurred in each part of the
country...different point is that one speaks
out loudly...one does not speak out
...thinking that from here handling process
will occur but difficult due to the complexity
of the human mind...again in another
viewpoint can give opinion ...discrimination
never happen...it is a matter of one's
perception...it is a matter of unlearn for our
culture to each other...it is matter of
someone wants to test you...etc..NBD

6. Fig: Forest scene
Journey of life never come
in smooth way... is
something like traffic
jam..from such
things...learning takes
place...accept such zig-
zag....NBD
If your surrounding is
influenced by unconscious
processes, then you need to
be silent with keen
observation...nbd

7. Fig. Golconda Fort
criticism is a foundation for
knowledge acquisition if you
observe minutely the way how
he or she does....becoz from
here many idiots can be
produced n how easily he or
she uses the persuasive
message sothat criticism can
become a real...Do you observe
something like that?....NBD
Dosto, Do learn "suffering" is
your habit.... could you feel like
that, good...yes...like that
....hope so...karke dekho...nbd

8. Fig.NBD (naorem binita
devi)
If there is any conflict or
controversial
circumstances due to
different model of
viewpoint, then there
arise formation of values,
ethics,n moral
values....sothat
agreement of diff.views
can be respected....is not
it?....NBD

9. Fig.NBD (naorem Binita
devi,Golkonda fort)
If we can able to deal with
the root cause of a
problem in a right way
...hope a system will
become better...but to
hunt such root cause is
very difficult....due to
complexity or many factors
....NBD
Some circumstances taught
someone to learn by heart
rather than mind .....nbd

10. Fig. Loukoi Pat, Manipur
How rumours come out?...from
one person and spread to the
whole society...how..like that
person has a good circles from his/
her groups...first goes to this circle
then,from this circle, started
spreading to their near and dear
ones...n so on.....n become a live
rumour that happen in real
way..could you elaborate it...in
terms of your own
perspectives....nbd

11. Fig. Juhu Beach (NBD)
I view victory in two form:
1. right victory; 2. wrong
victory...right victory...way
is long..hard work,
determination etc
sometimes feel failure on
the way but never allow it is
a fail...etc. wrong victory
means...way is
short..seeking opportunistic
based on
something...etc..nbd

12. Fig. NBD
some people are running after the
promotion, some people are
thinking about how to bring a
better system, some people are
spreading rumours about
someone so that he/she can get
more benefits, some are following
what their own groups are saying,
some are trying to find more
strategies to get more
opportunity, some people are
observing and noticing how to
reduce any controversial
circumstances etc. dosto, add
more...nbd

13. Fig. NBD (Delhi)
please never take the
name of anyone when you
do some work and when
your work has failed again,
please do not take the
name of that
person..introspect
yourself...and ask
yourself...am i
responsible?....good
answer may come
up....nbd

14. Fig.NBD (Himachal
Pradesh)
Never follow n react
any topic if there is
lots of arguments
made by bi-cluster
groups...there is no
reality...nbd
wrong meeting and
disclosing some story
makes you send in
lion's den....elaborate
in your own
context....nbd

15. Fig: NBD (Mysore)
Monoculturalism vs.
Multiculturalism....here
monoculturalism can able to
frame someone very easily
than multiculturalism...for
multiculturalism...reflection
from others come up...but in
monoculturalism...suppresse
d their wrong doing because
they are one...good learning
take place...this is
complexity of many
factors...NBD

16. Fig.NBD (Kurukshetra).
Sometimes punishment is used to
bring a good moral lesson...if could
not able to learn....more severe
punishment is needed...do you
agree...nbd
please never think that defensive
statement can suppress the hot
news....nbd
Adolescents period is one of the
most challenging period n all the
time i used to observe cultural
dissimilarity from one place to
another place...one
factor...temperament factor
etc....takes a major role..for taking
up steps how to set some
guidelines....nbd (Naorem binita
devi)..

17. Fig.NBD (Mizoram)
Please never think
north-east people are
discriminated...i never
accept such idea....but
wrong things have to
be brought justice
without any
limitation...NBD

18. Fig. NBD (Chandigarh)
Defensive statement
is not the way to solve
the problem...it is just
like pouring down
Ghee to the burning
fire...So be
careful..NBD

19. Fig.NBD (Lotus Temple)
“Now I am not afraid;
God always give the
support of honest and
sincere work of
he/she does; it is my
strong belief now.”
NBD.

20. Fig.NBD (NIAS,Bangalore)
“Silence is the best policy if you are
in the middle of politics.” NBD
“Absorbing skill is the way how
to handle a tension arising
situation. NBD
“Experiences are those who tried
to manipulate things good way or
bad way but Inexperienced are
those who tried to tolerate it”. NBD

21. Fig.NBD (Kurukshetra)
“If any situation cannot
cope up, please do not
show any negative way,
just avoid it. God is
watching it if you are
right.” NBD
“If you want to fight any
types of politics, you have
to suffer a lot; but in
latter, you become win the
politics.”-NBD

22. Fig.NBD (Bangalore)
“If you are under the framework of politics
which you do not know, you started showing
many negatives towards others( those playing
politics),then the politics people together with
tried to provoke many things that make you
more aggressive towards them, this means
that you are totally targeted your career if you
do not use good skills on this moment. But if
you absorbed everything without reflecting
and kept on observing the arising situation and
fighting silently in order way. You are one of
the success person among the politics.” N.
Binita Devi.

23. Fig.NBD (Manipur)
“ If a person started
speaking angrily,
something true feelings
and something insecure
feelings are associated
or he or she was
instigated by external
factors about some
situations.” N.B.D.

24. Fig.NBD (Vellore)
“ Any wrong person was
saved by the religion factor
or community feeling or
group feelings which make
difficult to bring judgment
on the surface level
especially in Kali Yug
Society”.N.B.D.

25. Fig.NBD (Guwahati)
“Beware of soft-spoken
person who are one of the
players of politics,
something was there he/she
approached you suddenly in
a very sweet manner and
discipline way”. N.B.D.

26. Fig.NBD (Kakching)
“In any conflicting
situation,please do not
take the opinion of one
side, let’s give chance
to other side also even
though she or he is
very much junior than
other side.”NBD.

27. Fig.NBD (Kurukshetra)
“A silent aggressor is often trying to
create a conflict playing someone as an
object who never understood the
underlying plans and policies so that such
silent angry reaction reinforce another
behavior who are in power and make an
issue between the power person and
object but later the silent aggressor will
take advantage on such situation.”
NAOREM BINITA DEVI.

28. Fig.NBD (Agra)
“If any situation cannot cope
up, please do not show any
negative way, just avoid it.
God is watching it if you are
right.” - NBD
“If you want to fight any
types of politics, you have to
suffer a lot; but in latter, you
become win the politics.”-
NBD

29. Fig.NBD (Imphal,XIIth )
“If you are under the framework of politics which
you do not know, you started showing many
negatives towards others( those playing
politics),then the politics people together with
tried to provoke many things that make you
more aggressive towards them, this means that
you are totally targeted your career if you do not
use good skills on this moment. But if you
absorbed everything without reflecting and kept
on observing the arising situation and fighting
silently in order way. You are one of the success
person among the politics.” N. Binita Devi.

30. Fig.NBD (Imphal)
“Please do not frame in the
arena of political framework of
any of your junior colleagues
as an object, donot make him/
her in an issue because the
younger ones are not the
problem creator; she/he is the
problem solver” NBD

31. Fig.NBD (Mumbai)
Circumstances analysis
makes me interesting
area in my study…for
any incident…either
political..academic…
and someone’s life…
but need to know a
deep story before
doing anything.--NBD

32. Fig.NBD (Kurfri)
I never have the intention
to defame someone’s life
but strong hope to rectify
the wrong things…while
doing such process, if
someone’s name comes
up…please forgive…never
think it is a complain…but
think it is a real story in
one’s life.--NBD

33. Fig. NBD ( Kurukshetra)
When you entered any
new cultural setting, you
have better to think that
you have no experience
and others and
everything is going to
learn from such new
cultural aspects, good
positive coping may come
out.--NBD

34. Fig.NBD ( at
home,Kakching)
When you encountered very difficult circumstances,
never mind, but think a positive coping, “no one is
above GOD and proceed your daily routine.”
The Moment you try to defeat an honest soul,
remember that you are entering a wrong step in a
long run.—NBD
Under wild fire is going on, pliz do not put again any
more ghee..—NBD
If you want to change something, observe carefully
things happening around you and share it in any
social network.--NBD

35. Fig.NBD (Zoo,Manipur)
If your inner strength is so strong, never fear for maya world
because you already reach one level that no one can reach.—NBD
Some people are easily influenced by outside forces and some are
not…which one you want to become? Here explanation is also
needed.—NBD
Do filter out each and statement you listen in one’s society and
never take it suddenly.—NBD
Good experiences come to one’s life after passing through a
multiple layers of cultural aspects, friends, do you agree?...NBD
I come into this world not to disturb someone’s life but to live
together peacefully.—NBD
I observe people who used high defense mechanism, average, and
low…but I dislike those who used high.--NBD

36. Fig. NBD (Pallel
side,Manipur)
God is experimenting
again and again
keeping someone in a
vulnerable condition
and someone is
realizing the taste of
human sorrow,
suffering in this world
and that gives someone
to serve human beings.
—NBD

37. Fig.NBD (Kurukshetra
hostel)
When I observe minutely, I learnt that one’s
thinking, feeling, acting, reacting are quite
different to each other and I am trying to observe
age in age-wise level in different cultural aspects.
—NBD
Close observation is the best way to understand
the ground reality of a problem.—NBD
Circumstances makes me able to associate things
going around in latter stage but not in the initial
stage in a transparent way.—NBD
Some people may think that they never want to
defame someone’s career but gone wrongly….as
a mistake.--NBD

38. Fig.NBD (during b.a.)
Sometimes in some circumstances inside and outside
message are different,, inside message are hidden
and consists of very true message but unable to trace
it if not observe minutely…outside message is very
easy and it is open to everyone and form rules based
on such outside message but may contain many
wrong information also.—NBD
Circumstances have to be checked very carefully
when a person has been frame at a particular time
and place.—NBD
When I expose one stimulus in different cultural
aspects, the response of the individuals are quite
different but it does not mean that similarity does
not take place…you know better than me.--NBD

39. Fig.NBD (Kurukshetra,
students’ home)
Some of Indian States are based on
monoculturalism- do you agree?...NBD
When I encountered the behavioral pattern of
different ethnic groups, I felt that system is
going to be difficult to change because some
people never want to accept for wrongdoings
but use different ways of self-monitoring
attitude towards others to displace and
remain the system as usual.—NBD
Do you think that moral lesson and its
application in one’s society to bring a better
judgement?...NBD

40. Fig. Taj Mahal (Agra)
My observation is based on parallel
processing.—NBD
Take others mistake as your own and
observe carefully.—NBD
When I applied Kohlberg’s moral
dilemmas in one of my ongoing
observation, I could not fight back any
circumstances but can inform under
some agreement.—NBD
It is better to develop the habit of
tolerating any type of politics in younger
age and observe carefully the way of
playing if you want to master such type
of politics in near future.—NBD
If someone understands each and every
steps of any ongoing circumstances by
his/her senses, no need to worry.--NBD