Did you wake up this morning with a devastating heart ache? Perhaps you're experiencing a monumental "hangover" headache and you don't even drink. Did you dread looking in the mirror, because you know what you're going to look like? There is a very good chance you have if you have ever had a boyfriend break up.
Frankly there are many things in your relationship that could have brought forth the breakup. However, you and I are going to concentrate on just three of them today.
2. Did you wake up this morning with a
devastating heart ache? Perhaps you're
experiencing a monumental
"hangover" headache and you don't
even drink.
3. Did you dread looking in the
mirror, because you know what you're
going to look like?
4. There is a very good chance you have if
you have ever had a boyfriend break
up.
5. Frankly there are many things in your
relationship that could have brought
forth the breakup. However, you and I
are going to concentrate on just three
of them today.
6. 1. Cheating with another woman:
Are you even sure you know what
cheating is or what it actually
involves?
7. When you set down and began to
examine the event that brought about
the ending of the relationship, there
are several question to ask yourself.
8. Was he texting a female you didn't
know about? If so was it someone at
work and the text involved work. That
could be a legitimate and perfectly
innocent relationship and does not
even qualify as cheating.
9. Does it mean he was having an ongoing
sexual relationship with someone
from his past? Yes! That definitely is
out and out cheating on your
relationship.
10. Are you so jealous that when he even
glances at another woman, you expect
he is cheating on you?
11. As you can see there are many
definitions for cheating. Therefore you
need to be perfectly clear in your mind
what your definition is about cheating
prior to breaking up with your
boyfriend.
12. Now I'm going to throw a little curve at
you from out of nowhere. Prior to
starting your "steady" relationship, did
you and he talk about what each of
you expected in your romance?
13. You may be really surprised by his
explanation when you do the
boyfriend breakup thing, when he just
looked at another woman or was
texting someone at work.
14. When this happens you may need to
decide if your expectations were out
of the so called norm.
15. One thing about it though, is when you
really think about it you may have to
decide if you want to breakup with the
boyfriend or continue with the overall
relationship.
16. 2.Long distance love affairs:
You can almost bet when you’re trying
to maintain a long distance
relationship it is painful, extremely
difficult and almost always ends in a
boyfriend breakup;
17. unless both of you are fully committed
to making it work. If you’re not
committed get prepared because the
breakup is likely going to be just
around the corner.
18. It is very likely you have seen more than
one person experience this
phenomenon.
19. . It really seems to be prevalent in the
college age young people. Many of
them had relationships in high school
that carried forward into the early
college years.
20. However, when the schools were hours
or miles apart and studies, social
events and loneliness cuts in the
boyfriend break up can occur.
21. 3. Lifestyle changes:
What if your beau has become a real
pain in the butt? It just might be the
perfect time to change your life.
22. Even though the boyfriend doesn't want
to break up you may have to be the
one, who takes the bull by the
horns, and does the breaking up.
23. Oftentimes as you mature and put on a
few more years your thinking, goals
and social approaches may change
and often do. You may just be finding
yourself not even wanting a
permanent partner.
24. And frankly there is nothing wrong with
spreading your social wings.
25. Take the time to dig into your
heart, mind and soul to see if the
boyfriend breakup maybe exactly what
you need right now.
26. Yes both you and your significant other
may hurt when the breakup takes
place, but both of you may be made of
some very strong stuff and find out
it's the best thing that ever happened
to you.
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